Hi i'm new and need advice about virgo men

I really read most of the messages so i dont want to ask the same questions all over again about virgo men
I just need advice..
I met this virgo guy 10 days ago in a club..actually he came and started to talk
to me..at the end we exchanged numbers and mails..ever since everday we talk through the internet and text message time to time..last friday he asked to go to lunch and we were together like 4 hours talking nonstop..the same day we were planning to go the same club where we met but i couldnt make it bc my sis had a car accident..well of course i told him earlier that i wont be able to come.
after that we still continue to talk, he is a little busy this week and a little sick, so he never mentioned about meeting up again this week but while we are talking it's perfect..he is like preparing music cd's for me and he gave me a movie promise (since i love cinema)..well i wonder if he expects anything for me?..is he waiting for me to ask?
ok i know they are not emotional but rational..i dont expect any romance and love letters ect..I'm totally cool with it
i learned from here that u have to be patient..well I can be very patient if i wanti..i just dont want to push him or irritate him..
please give me some advice!!!!
i'm a cancer female
well from dxp i learned that cancer female and virgo male is like a disaster
i hope its not that bad😢

Has anyone ever read the book "He is just not that into you"... I'm not saying this is true in your case at all... I think if you feel good about the relationship and you feel happy and he makes you happy then good go with it. As soon as he starts making you feel like shit because he is so self absorbed run for the damn hills as fast as you can. Remember it hurts only for a little while and then things get back on track.

Anyways that book RULE # 152 "Don't spend your time on and give your heart to any guy who makes you wonder about anything related to his feelings for you" which seems to be the case with most virgo men for whatever reason.

I'm usually a positive person but I'm recovering from fresh Virgo scares. I guess if you think this guys worth it give it a try and think positive and expect a long ride.

I've personally never known a Virgo male who was NOT self absorbed. I think this is par for the course with them.

Exactly 3 times in my 8 month relationship with my Virgo male HE has taken the initiative & asked me out. I do all the asking & has only said no twice due to previous plans.

I just think he feels more comfortable with me asking & it also boosts his ego I believe to have me ask him out.

Help 🙂

Same here I was always the one to make suggestions. He usually said yes, I think he only made two suggestions in the last 6mo if thats not exagerated. I'm now depressed we wanted to go look for cars on Monday and he asked if I wanted to go with him to Cirque de sole with him and his niece in the next couple of weeks. Sometimes I think my impatients got the better of me, but this guy was as slow as molasses and never let on if or what he felt for me...... If I should have just rode this storm one more time, I really went snafu on him thats for sure. I still feel if things are going to be fixed it has to come from him then I'll know where I stand, that I do mean something to him. Mean enough for him to make some initiative.....

thank you guys for the comments
i'm also curious abour brahn's comment.. he seems like an expert 🙂

Well i think i have to ask too... bc he seems so shy and he is dramatically polite in a way that makes me uncomfortable sometimes

if i look to this 10 days overall he did quiet an initiative (speaking in terms of a virgo man).. so i think i can ask him but if he is going to be irritated i can wait longer..i just don't want him to think that i'm not interested to him thats my concern!! bc i always waited him to take initiative

whatever..it's always hard!!!!..i hate this ambiguity (but i know when virgo i have to get use to it right?🙂)

OMG! is it that bad?!!
i didn't felt that way..wow
ok then
thanks😢

no branh
i dont think you misinterpreted it
maybe i'm too optimistic i mean
it seemed to me that..
coming and introducing him self at the club(first night at the club)
taking my phone and msn.. whatever lol..
talking to me everday online
text message time to time
asking for lunch
promising for movies
i interpreted those as initiatives..dunno
it just didnt seem that bad to me..but i'm open to critism
thank you for showing me another aspect

thanks for advice virgogotme and bran
i'll wait and see whats gonna happen with this guy..

but i have general question (not specifically for my case)
have can u understand if a virgo is into you or not?
doesn't he ever give signals? i mean even little implicit signals?

Hi Miasma, I kinda know how you're feeling right now. I've been dating my Virgo for nearly 3 months. He does usually take the initiative in asking me out, but when we first met, he asked me out and I had other plans (babysitting) so it took him another week to contact me again! I usually see him about 3-4 times a week (which I take as a major compliment!) but even now, on a morning, we'll both be getting ready for work and hardly say two words to each other!!! And as soon as the alarm goes off he's straight out of bed! But he can be sweet and wake me up with a kiss, so I aren't complaining!!! I think the only habit he has which can be quite testing is the way he answers 'yeah' to everything. Everything just about, and with no emotion!!! It drives me crazy sometimes! But if I just come straight out and tell him this, then he's always really cool about it. Virgo's are great!!

hey copperhead thanks,
maybe thats the problem we were suppose to meet at the club last friday but i couldnt make it bc of some unexpected event..of course i called him and let him know earlier he was quiet cool with it..maybe that pissed him off dunno..but we are talking quiet well online..i dont think he made it a problem
but this week he didnt even ask if i'm going to the club or not..he is like making plans for the next week

i always put myself to this vicious circle..i can't handle ambiguity
i hate it...patience patience patience
🙂

I def think patience is the key. Play it slightly cool at first and then you can see exactly how keen he is. Or why not drop the hint that your friends are going to the club this weekend, and see whether he mentions if he's going. I don't think it's anything personal or he just wouldn't bother with you at all (ie emailing etc.). Virgo's are definitely action people! My virgo is always surprised if I ask what he's feeling, as the way he sees it, his actions speak louder than any words he could say to me. When I told him I couldn't make a date and he was fine with it, and he didn't contact me for a week I thought I'd blown it. At least your Virgo is still talking to you, even if he hasn't arranged anything 😉

hey so i decided not to be online for a while for chat?!
actually i dont do something particulary for him
i'm always online and always chat with friends
so when he comes he starts talking... thats all...

i dont get this being distant and contact him in a weekly or bi weekly basis
so should i stop being online not to contact him..then it's me again who is limited not him??

You are unlimited and remain as such girl😉

19eleven,

sorry i cant get ur point?
please explain...