how obsessive/possessive are you?

i have a scorp bf of 8 months and for some reason i get really obssessive with him. i often times feel insecured and have to check his phone/e-mail once in awhile. i don't even like him having any female friends around. he feels the same way about me having guy friends, though. i've never felt this way before and im trying to act cool and all but i just can't help it. has anyone experienced this before?

i meant "insecure", not insecured

No actually I haven't experienced this before....most people RARELY make me feel any form of emotion at all other than irritatation, BUT for the people that do get to see my passionate side, I keep them under lock and key, so I don't have to worry! I've got confidence in my ability to hold onto a relationship: Besides, I'd rather trust, as it's less stressful upon me to not be so worried. I wouldn't tell my girl she couldn't have guy friends, and I'd expect the same from her...If she 'slips' and destroys the trust, she'll find herself alone.

You just have to get to a point in your life where you choose to live your life worrying it away, or making the most out of it.

well, when I do get possessive over someone I love, well I don't mean to toot my own horn, but I know for a FACT that they'll want for NOTHING else.....I'm not willing to share my babe with NOBODY!! They're all mine, ALL THE TIME!! and nobody gets to have them but ME!!

.....*VE with a deranged look on his face and saliva dripping from his mouth is aware of gko's frightened expression and collects himself*

*ahem* But I do try to be better than those base feelings...🙂

gko,

I'm a Virgo male married to a Scorpio female - going on two years now!

Lots of astrologers say that Virgo gets obsessive about Scorpio, and I've found that to be true in my case. But, you really need to get to the root of your insecurity, and learn to trust your Scorp, or it ain't gonna work. You also need to build trust in him for you. My Scorp had good reason to suspect men's motives - her ex-husband cheated on her constantly - and if your Scorp has had similar experiences, it will take time to gain his trust. Hell, even if he hasn't been cheated on, Scorps are suspicious critters anyway!!

Be honest, genuine, and consistent with him. Both of you need to ease off on your friendships with the opposite sex until the relationship is on a sounder footing. Focus on US, and let Them stay in the background. Once He sees your Virgo loyalty, he'll get better about the jealousy; but, if he's like my Scorp, he's always gonna be more of the jealous type than you are. I could tell lots of stories about my Scorp getting her dander up about some woman when I do absolutely nothing but be nice & polite (in my view), but they don't perceive it the same way we do...

Finally: Don't go prying into his private stuff! They will not tolerate that at all! You will get caught! Watch his behavior, use your Virgo analytical skills, and if he's not being faithful & true, you'll figure it out...

Good Luck!!

I think Virgos are POSSEISIVE for loved ones, IF they are really into u. They will not tell but do the stuff that u will know they are possessive. I know many will not agree.

OK - I will make that easy. YES- I am bit possessive towards my family/friends/loved ones and MY JOB! can u imagine? No matter how bad my work place could be, only I can say that it is bad. If some one else tells that, s/he will be taught a lesson (by me) and they may not like it. Best approach is , do not argue or offend my any thing , be it my people (all my people are unique) ,friends (all my friends are special),things,work or any thing :-)... Am I bad? :-)... I don't think so!!!

well. I think it's odd that my husband said that he doesn't mind me being around guys...but then at the same time ALWAYS asks who calls my phone and also who it is I'm calling or talking to on the phone..o_O

another odd thing is he says he doesn't mind if all my friends were male and yet wonders why I would call or talk to any male I talk to.o_O

and then he advises me that it's not a good idea that I talk to my ex's but he's been talking to his ex's for God knows how long and on top of that, I'm NEVER allowed to talk to them..maybe some, but I would have to take the initiative if I wanted to talk to them

and then what bothers me the most is that he would have a secret meeting with a female friend that I don't know about. And then he tells me before he leaves for Missouri..

"Now be a good girl" o_O what the heck is that suppose to mean? I wasn't the one doing anything sneaky, nor possessive..o_O...I was just trying to be myself and yet respect his wishes at the same time...and what do I get..."Now be a nice girl"

what did heck did I do? o_O there is no way he can get proof of me being with a guy..and you wanna know why?

because my Scorp moon makes me so possessive and emotionally vulnerable to cheating..that I choose to not even KEEP a guy's number in my phone.. ^__^ I'm actually quite proud that I can do it too 🙂

does my virgo moon have any affect on the virgo in reference to this possessive/obsessive concerned with virgo and scorpio?