What does it mean when a scorp man says...

Since you scorps are secretive with your emotions and what you mean i was wondering if when a scorp man says that he misses you it really means that he misses you. I know it's a pretty obvious statement but with scorps you never know🙂 Should i just give in and let myself fall for him? On Monday he left for a couple weeks and said that he doesn't know what he's going to do without me. It was unexpected and i didn't respond back. He kept asking me if i'll miss him and i told him i would which is true. Before he left i told him that i wanted to see him and he was avoiding the subject and then showed at the last minute and asked me if i was scared that he wouldn't come. Am i being a scorpio torture victim here? What should i do? Give in or retaliate?

Sounds like he digs you.

But you know, your concerns about emotional pitfalls with anybody is valid.

*Yet another* Scorp-Aries pairing.

Ay.

what other "dig" signs that you scorp guys have?🙂

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I have no idea.

how do usually show a woman that you "dig" her?

Take anything he says serious. Bad or good. They don't say things they don't mean.

Other signs would include:
Telling you things about his life, dreams, thoughts, kids, hobbies, work, parents, siblings etc.

Staring at you when you aren't looking

Kissing you often

Not being able to keep his hands off of you

Oh and cute nick names. Like "lil red" ***blushes***

Should i be afraid of "they sit down the street and watch you, or hid in your bushes with some binoculars, read your email, check your cell phone, read your diary, go through your belongings" are you serious or just making fun of me?🙂
Thanks Queenscorpio. Your stuff is way less scarier except the "lil red" ***blushesprinkle

Sorry ariesgirl, I have found they can do those scary things too. Until they trust you then it just lessons a little. LOL!!!

Yup, I think I have "lil momma" on a vm.

That possesiveness and snooping drives me crazy. They are nuts. It is like they are waiting for you to disappoint them. I don't think that has anything to do with love. Scorps are known to be "the investigator" I am told, I guess I am this way somewhat when figuring out a problem etc. I am so not a snooper. No cell phones, calls etc. Not even when I was married. Whatever someone is doing will come to light at some point.

"they will burn a hole in the back of your head with something that is commonly referred to as THE STARE."

Ah yes. Very deadly in the hunting or domesticating phase.

As for these other "games" you speak of that border on stalking, I don't do that. Typically, I'm rather nonchalant at the beginning. It's usually the girls who are hounding me for attention.

I've only done that once, and very minimally with the breakup of a recent ex.

Um... down low?

I do not play for the other team.

"also, if you have a diary, by all mean and for GOD's sake don't write ANYTHING negative about him in it. he will find it, read it, and never FORGET what you wrote/said about him. if you have a fireplace or grill in the backyard, i suggest you put it to use and destroy anything incrimminating..."

ROFL...

got ya all. no diaries!!! and looking forward to the hole in my head🙂

those are some psycotic things that you guys are describing. the scorp i'm seeing doesn't seem to touch anything in my place at all. doesn't even open a refrigerator without asking me 1st. i guess they're all different or he just does stuff behind my back🙂

i'd better clean all skeletons out of my closets🙂

***those are some psycotic things that you guys are describing. the scorp i'm seeing doesn't seem to touch anything in my place at all. doesn't even open a refrigerator without asking me 1st. i guess they're all different or he just does stuff behind my back***

Uhhh, yes he does. Or when you are sleeping. Also watch what you leave in your bathroom trash can too... LOL!! I am not joking.

Yeah, wait until he gets real comfortable with you. He will walk in look in the fridge and ask, what is this, who did you cook this for? When? How many people did you feed? What time did said people eat it? Was it spicy? Who liked it and who didn't? Did anyone ask for seconds? How many people burped after? Who finished first and washed their hands. Who looked at your ass when you walked away from the table. Who helped you serve? Who did the dishes?

After the second question I just do a double scorp stare and say nothing.

My favorite technique with these guys is answer a question with a question. They normally shut up then.

Ex: Did you talk to your ex-husband today?
Ans: Did you talk to your wife?

LOL!!!!

mine is non-chalant about the whole garbage thing🙂 he doesn't pick up after himself. i never see anything moved in my place when he stays over. should i get one of those nanny cams?🙂 i find it hard to believe that he'd snoop around, seriously. i'd probably "do a double scorp stare and say nothing" as well.

Oh, no he might not touch the trash or other things, closets etc, but he definitely looks. My scorp friends eyes roam from the minute he walks in the door. His hands don't do much but his eyes does. In the beginning, not so much. Just wait...

It is wierd, anyone else I would want to strangle. With the scorp it is annoying sometime, but I kind of accept the fact that is his thing. I tell him, don't look for anything you might be sorry you found... LOL!!!

"you sure about tonight? aren't you getting ready to start in 2 days??".. do you mean a visit from a montly friend? so, what's 2 days before mean to him?

so, what's "2 days before" have to do with anyhing?🙂 in a way it's nice to have someone to be so into you

that's sweet of him to respect your privacy🙂

btw: i think the word "dig" was used in a sense of like instead of digging for info🙂 in any case both are "dig" meanings are helpful!

***qs-butter..i totally forgot to tell her about the bathroom waste basket..my bad! yup..just wait until he says to her.."you sure about tonight? aren't you getting ready to start in 2 days??"..***

OMG!!! Yes, they know when that time of the month is better than you. But my libra ex husband was good at that as well and who would think a man would want to know.

Scorp men can be very common when they are really into you, like, I know this is gross, but I don't like anyone in the bathroom when I am taking care of business or when that time of the month is and if you tell them uhhh, you can't come in the bathroom, they will be like it isn't a big deal and they don't care. I have always been private about certain things even when married, but they act like they love all of you even the not so pleasant things.

***i spyed on him a few times and he acutally lowered my laptop cover so he wouldnt' see the screensaver pictures. i was like wow is he a saint or a psychic lol.***

Psychic!!!

***I agree that someone's true indescretions or dishonesty will come to light naturally and usually of their own doing. No need for the snooping and stuff.***

FA, Yes! Something we agree on! LOL!!!

***treetrunkina-agree with you, however, it's a scorp man thing..double standard, double talk, etc. you make one comment about another man and you're a just like me, however he makes numerous comments about other females and it's just fine and dandy. can we say alpha, ALPHA male.****

OMG! You are preaching to the chior!!! However, men commenting on other women Neva bothered me. I just join in. Yeah, you are right she is cute or she does have a nice body or yeah her ass is tight and so is mine 😉

what's with men and coments on other women? can you imagine if you'd do that to them? that would be the end of the world?🙂