*How Oddly Peculiar*

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I'm so shocked! I have read that virgo men and capricorn women make a wonderful combination -- both as friends as well as lovers. LOL, I read that when they become friends, the thoughts of actually being more then that are excessively present with the virgin guy and the goatie girl -- the intensity between the two steadily takes over.

One website called virguy and the cappy girls one of the best matches of the zodiac -- which was very odd considering what's been said on DXP about this match up!

However ..... in real life, they fear that the other will hurt them. So nothing ever happens between them. If it does, it ends fast.

Why— What's the problem with this couple? What aspects should each side improve on and/or what are the elements that can make this couple work out better?

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LOL!!!! Now DY, Brandon and yourself give me different perspectives of virgo men 🙂 I just know that it's difficult to know when I virgo is interested in you.

Also, most virgo men have super high sex-drive ... mine is medium 😢 I heard that virgo men like it rought and they can go all not .... I turn red easily *** giggles ***

Plus, I'm not an hourglass and I don't like to dress up all the time. So there's a couple of strikes againest me right there!

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>However ..... in real life, they fear that the other will hurt them.

What I fear is yes... being hurt. I protect myself. I think, I consider all the possibilities... I figure if what I need isn't happening within a certain timetable... unknown to all but myself... then it's better to cut and run.

THe reason why the timetable is known only to myself... is that I HATE fakers. I HATE pretenders. If you don't REALLY dig me, then I DON"T want you. Even if you're frickin beautiful... don't matter. I NEED to know you DIG me for ME.

Part of my problem is my Virgo Negativeity... it's a constant battle. I know it's there. I know it's bad... I battle it every day. Sometimes my mind wins the battle... sometimes my Virgo nature wins. It sucks, but it's what I am. It HAS to be dealt with.

>So nothing ever happens between them. If it does, it ends fast.

Don't understand this one. "IF it does, it ends fast". ———?? NOT WITH ME. I WANT IT TO HAPPEN! IF IT DID HAPPEN, I'D BE MUCH HAPPIER! IT's the Nothingness that is killing it.

Am I a weird V-guy? I need to know that someone digs me. Digging me makes my heart grow fonder. Of course... I have to be attracted to you FIRST. IF, I am attracted to you, then all bets are off! I NEED to know that you dig me!

If I'm NOT attracted to you, then you're not going to get anything out of me period.
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Hi Clydelover 🙂

Well capricorns are afraid of getting hurt too but I'm not willing to stay with someone I don't care for just because if that. I've known situations where couples stick with each other because they don't know what else to do (——)

No you are not weird! Your tactics are very smart, if you know someone likes you , then you won't be afraid to expose your emotions.
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Yeah, I think I'd take a paddling with a 2x4 over the "dating" scene just about any day... Is it any wonder so many VirGuys never marry, or marry late in life??

LOL! Oh my goodness,

So Virguys are not easy to date but they are easy to marry ... well how on earth do they ever make it to the altar -- wouldn't they have to date first—

Well, personally I don't date for my own reasons ... I prefer to be friends with the man first and see what goes from there.

True, there's more risk of being hurt using my methods but I feel more real doing it this way -- there's way too mush BS involved in the dating scene right now.

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>BTW, with all that talk of "diggin'", are you a bruthuh or you just watch a little too much of That 70's Show?

Heh.. I'm a product of the 70's, so still use some of the lingo = ) I was born in 1960 so was a teen thru the 70's and graduated HS in 1979.

I'm not a "bruthuh" but have respect for them as they are the "elder race" of man... we ARE their children so to speak... But that's another subject. = )

Clydesdale? heh... I call myself Clydelover because I own a Clydesdale filly. She's a great gal, but not quite old enough to ride... that will happen in a year or two, when she turns five.

Dating is weird for me... I'm usually hooked by the first gal that I'm attracted to, and is attracted to me. So I end up not dating much, LOL. Even this last time, when I SWORE I was going to date, date, date... and then make a good choice... the FIRST gal I dated was this Cappy gal and we kissed on the first date and I was hooked... D'OH! I did reserve myself a little, until I knew her better... but all along I was hoping she'd be a match.... so far, she is = )

But I get impatient as I've said above, if I think someone doesn't REALLY dig me... but after Cappysweetie gave me some timely advice about Cappy gals... I'm going to cool my jets and be patient, hehe.