i WANT a Virguy IF.....

hes anything like this 😛😛😛 :

He's faithful, thoughtful, and cool-headed during a crisis.

A Virgo man will be home in time for dinner, help you balance the cheque book....

he will always be by your side. He's conscientious, capable, thrifty, kind, and loyal. Sounds like a real boy scout, doesn't he? Well, he is - the bargain basement version.

Argue with him, and he'll stare at you as if you've just lost your mind, for he can't believe you dared to disagree. Then he will repeat, word by word, the conversation, question, or disagreement that led you to throw the toaster at his head. HAHAHHAHAHAHAA... thats the fun part 😛

A male Virgo will feign anything from a headache to a heart attack if he feels cornered. He's as loathe to confront a situation as is his opposite, Pisces....

hahahahahaha... is that true Virguys—

I just saw in a paper that toasters are on sale. Shoes work really good too, because you have two and get at him from two angles.

Yes, that is true . . . there ARE all kinds of dead toasters laying about my house. I leave them there to remind him that if he doesn't listen to me . . . he's gonna get bashed upside the head.

Actually, Eliza, that pretty much sizes up my man. But, you can't have him . . . he's mine, bought and paid for.

"He's faithful, thoughtful, and cool-headed during a crisis."

Ummm not....

1. that's why i'm no longer married to the first one...

2. that's why i didn't marry the other one....

From my experience with them, they don't know how to deal with and handle attention from other women. Both of these men were insecure with themselves and induldged in any attention from other women. That didn't bother me, until it was taken too far, as i'm not a jealous person.. so the flirting, never upset me. BUt once the line was crossed.. UGH.

I am also more aggressive than people say Virgos are.

hmmmmm.... ur Mars is in cancer branh0913 and that should make u 'shy away from direct confrontations' but i've noticed u dont...

IMO ur the way you are coz of your upbringing coz i checked ur chart again and u seem quite different from what it says you SHOULD BE like over there.... or maybe thats coz we dont know you in person and maybe you just arent yourself online.. i dunno........

I have a question for you, BG. You said that your Virgo man (one of them) that he didn't know how to handle the attention from other women, and let it go too far.

So, my question is this: If you knew that he was handicapped in this area, then, why didn't you go to his aid and help him, rather then letting him fall?

This was a tough situation. He was just divorced when we started dating, and she knocked down every last ounce of self respect he had. I worked hard at helping him feel better about himself. And he did the same for me.. he is a great guy honestly. The first time he cheated on me.. yeah the first, i actually had an understanding of it. And we worked it out. I knew he was sincerely sorry for it, it snuck up on him blah blah blah. But he started doing the same thing over again. i saw the signs and we talked about it and i told him i wasn't going to watch this happen again.. Then of coarse i became the insecure one. Well.. it's like this.. you are a geek and your online all the time, and you start something online, if your in tune with your relationship, you can sense if your mate is umm 'occupied' mentally with something else... i can.. so I knew something was going on again.. online.. so he tried telling me i was full of shit. I knew better cuz i know him very well. Well, of coarse i was right. And he was cheating. Yes it was online and off the net, with my best friend. so, i don't know how else to have helped him. he makes his own choices and knows if they are wrong or not. he said and she agreed that it started with friendly emails, then flirty emails.. and went from there... how can i help him with that. He knew as she did when they crossed the line. I refuse to be a person that says, no i don't want you online or you can't do this or can't do that. we make choices.. simple as that.

Actually, Eliza, that pretty much sizes up my man. But, you can't have him . . . he's mine, bought and paid for.

hahahahha...dont worry i wont steal ur man... im NOT a home wrecker 😛

"I think most Virgo guys are geeks and are fairly distant from the opposite sex, or aren't confident about how they relate to the opposite sex. So with most Virgo man, they are jumping at every woman that winks at them. "

Brahn - i agree with that.. 🙂And, most of the time I handled it and let him get that boost to his ego cuz he needed the confidence.

Yes it was online and off the net, with my best friend.

im really sorry to hear that BG....jeeezz...thats crazy..

yeah falls in that ultimate betrayal stuff. but i got over it. I don't talk to her anymore.. she tries. this was a few years ago.

"it was online and off the net, with my best friend" . . . ouch

I hope like hell you kicked your girlfriend to the curb, too.

Everyone is different, but to me . . .

The fact that it was my girlfriend (best friend), would hurt me more than the pain from the guy. That's just wrong, no matter which way you slice it.

I refuse to be a person that says, no i don't want you online or you can't do this or can't do that.

same here....a person is free to do whatever but please dont cheat on me 😢....

u know what really sucks though is a guy cheating on ya and hiding it.. i mean please tell me if u've messed up ...dont lie to me...... i'll make life much much easier for him by leaving him coz im not the kindda person who ties others down... ah..ah... it aint me...

BG, you know, just because he was a Virgo, doesn't mean they are all like that. Mine isn't like that. Maybe, it was just HIM.

So, do tell?

Are the ex and the girlfriend still doing, whatever . . . or was it a passing thing?

Are the ex and the girlfriend still doing, whatever . . . or was it a passing thing?

ya baby gurl———?

Exactly P-Angel. I ended our friendship after that.. it was hard but i felt soo betrayed.. and it's even worse than how i told it.. i mean, we were friends from high-school. She came to visit me and i was living with that guy at the time. And it was great.. i was excited that my best friend and my boyfriend got along.. it was great. it wasn't but maybe 6 months after she came and left that i noticed him being distant from me. Staying up late on the computer.. not coming to bed.. ya know all that tall tell signs. Well i'm very trusting so i really didn't make an issue of it. But then when i realized how much those 2 were talking.. i got kinda jealous, as i NEVER thought either one would betray me like that. So i sucked up that jealousy. Well a year after her first visit, she came again, with her mom, who was like my mom. ANd i couldn't beleive how different she and my BF were.. I mean SUPER close. Well i felt very threatened.. but again, trying to rationalize and telling myself again and again.. there's no way either of them would do that. Well i finally had enough.. and i'd say about a year after her second visit.. maybe just shor t a year.. i had suspisions he was cheating on me. Well i know it's wrong.. but in that frame of mind, i did what i did and broke into his email. that's when i found all the naked pics of my best friend. i mean.. to the point of before and after 'shaving' pics. I was mortified.. felt stupid and shit hit the fan.

Well...LOL after i found out all of that.. i told her if i ever catch her in the state of wisconsin again, i was going to beat her ass right back to Seattle. ANd made it crystal clear that neither of the two were to talk anymore. That lasted a while.. but then i couldn't get over him betraying me too and we split up a few months later. i am not aware of them and what they do.. so i don't know. She did have a boyfriend during ALL of this so who knows.

"BG, you know, just because he was a Virgo, doesn't mean they are all like that. Mine isn't like that. Maybe, it was just HIM."

My ex-husband cheated also. He was Virgo. So i don't have very high expectations from Virgos. I actually haven't dated one since the last one betrayed me.

Oh i forgot to tell you guys.. the one that messed with my bestfriend.. i have known him since i was 14.. he was my brothers best friend. So as you can imagine.. i trusted him to know end....

You're more patient than I would have been . . waiting a couple months after finding out. His ass would have been booted . . IMMEDIATELY.

awwwwwwww....

I am... when i'm in love.. i'm over tolerant.. that's why i'm so guarded with my heart.. cuz i know how i am. And that's also why i'm so damn picky. lol I'm actually friends with him still. took a while. but i do understand him.. so i couldn't hold that grudge. I'm forgiving.. i just don't forget. He has tried getting back together.. ummm NOT.

i have known him since i was 14.. he was my brothers best friend. So as you can imagine.. i trusted him to know end....

its such a TOUGH situation.. i really dont know what i'd have done if i were u BG...

He has tried getting back together..

thats what they always do... when they realize how rare it is to find such an awesome and patient woman like urself BG... they want u back... heck.. neva take such a loser back... ur awesome how u forgave him after hurting ya bad but u did right in not gettin' back with him...

yeah i couldn't. I forgave him, but when i look at him i'm reminded of it. I don't do well with being cheated on. That's such a huge blow. The only times(that i'm aware of) were with the 2 virgos LOL I'm sure it's happened before..lol, but i consider that MINE and the thought of being cheated on.. can't get past.. but i tried to.

The only times(that i'm aware of) were with the 2 virgos

im really sorry to hear that... but u know what i dont think their signs (ur 2 virgos) had to do anything with their cheating....they were just losers... some men are prone to wander and cheat on ya... he could have been a cancer and done that.....i have seen men of EVERY sign cheat on their woman so its just an individual thing.....

ur an awesome lady BG and u deserve a better man who'd love and appreciate your loyalty and faithfulness... i wish ya meet that kinnda guy soon if u havent met him already 😛

awe aren't you so sweet..lol yeah i know cheating isn't sign exclusive.. lol just makes me much more cautious, more hesitant. At least.. i don't take bullshit when i'm not in LOVE. LMAO so it just takes me alot to get there.. what said.. is there are so many stories people have that go through this.. male and female.. it's just human nature.. it's a shame..

You gave it your all, tried not to be suspicious, tried to be understanding, tried not to invade his privacy, tried everything . . . that's all you can do. If he couldn't see those qualities as something to admire and respect, then it's his lose.

There are men out there who would appreciate a woman like you . . . somewhere. where that is, exactly, seems to remain hidden from us women. If you find them, let us know, ok?

Lol, just kidding . . I love my man, wouldn't trade him for the world.

But, you will find one who respects you . . . keep smiling and being your happy self in the mean time.

Yep... 🙂 this happened awhile ago.. i'm great now...lol still on the hunt.. LMAO nah i have given up hunting. Someone will just have to like, drop out of a tree.. hit me upside the head.. knock me unconscious and i wake up like.. oh it's you.. hahahaha

eliza- i don't know who wrote those 'blame his star sign' articles but they are DEAD ON!!!!!!! 100% BABY.

I have been in MANY relationships with MANY signs, and let me just say that when i read those articles I just die laughing cuz its all sooooo damn true.

oh man i hope they don't do one of those for women.

Ok all.... I'm seeing a Virgo who has just officially told me he likes me (we've been seeing each other only a few weeks). He also told me he wants us to wait to be intimate, because he wants it to mean something and also so I dont have regrets that it might be too soon. Wow.... I thought theres got to be a catch, what man says he wants to wait and means it.. Is this normal— Or is this some reverse pyschology? Can some of you male Virgos give me a clue on this— I hate to sound insecure...

ALV.. Thanks 🙂

This happened a while ago.. and yeah hurt like hell.. but i got over and past it. ALl it did is just, make the people close to me closer, and I question more now. I learned alot from it. We all go through som ecrazy stuff at some point.. ya know?

We all go through som ecrazy stuff at some point.. ya know?

ya we all do... heartaches are part of life 🙂.....