I Think Virgo Is a Great Sign.

Hello Everyone,
You know, I just wanted to share my opinion on a Virgo. As you can see from my user name, I'm a Pisces of the 2nd Decan. Honestly, I really don't know how a Virgo might be within a romance, but I know how they are as a best friend. My best friend is a Virgo of the 1st Decan. Our friendship developed over time. I'm talking 3 1/2 years. It took that long, because getting me to open up is like prying open a clam, and my best friend has had so much patience with me. I'm really amazed by that now that I look back. This Virgo is serious about friendship and he is a fierce friend. As astrological opposites, we came to see that we are very much alike at heart, but mentally we approach things differently. Communication was like the plane used for a see-saw. From him, I learned that Virgos will treat you like a prized possession if they really trust you. He admitted to watching me interact with other people before we became good friends and saw that I was a good person.I unexpectedly gained his trust and he would spill his guts and feelings to me all the time. That was when I learned that they do indeed feel very deeply. Virgos love in a quiet, sweet, tender manner. I mean, they would fluff the pillows under your head, the small of your back, and under your feet to make you comfortable while catering to you with their culinary skills. This Virgo becomes protective of you from those who are dis-respectful to you. This Virgo shows affection behind closed doors by giving you a big full contact bear hug with a sweet peck on the cheek followed by a "I Love You." This Virgo would pretend like he didn't remember you birthday, then when you come home from work, he's lounging on the couch watching you go into the room to find a touchingly, sweet bithday card on your pillow. You turn around to see he quietly followed you into the room, he smiles and hugs you lovingly. He does things that makes me all teary eyed. We would share a couch alone listening to Techno, Classical Music, and Oldies from the 80's to create a peaceful and serene. When one is going thru a hard time, we save eachother. I don't want to bore you all by talking about how much I love my best friend. We know how each other feels, and chose to be friends. Special Friends. I love it.

Very rare species of the Virgo, I would say. Enjoy with your rare Virgo.

Sounds like the virgo guy I know but like you just friends.However he thinks im hot but there isn't any genuine feelings in the more than that factor so I'm really cautious about not leading him on.Aunt,a couple female friends and step sister is like that too so it's not really that rare.But if I recall correctly they may be of that decan too,thier b-days are really close to the start period of the virgo time frame.

Hello Everyone,
Thank you for hearing me out. I get so embarrassed after I get thru talking about my best friend. He's the Virgo of my life, and he's awesome. He has his negative habits as well, but I understand him. I really took that time to understand him, just like he took time to understand me. He's attentive to detail. This guy would pick up on my slightest facial expression, to the change in my breathing patterns. He knows me like the back of his hand. If I leave the room, it won't be long before he'd go on a search for me.If anyone ever gave me any trouble, he'd quietly pull them aside to take care of them or his thunderous temper would flair and he'd get them for what they done. Once, a Sagittarian dissed me during a Immunization rally. My best friend was one of the people giving the shots. He was smiling at me from afar, but when he saw that Sagittarian bad mouthing me? Man, he briefly came over and asked the Sagittairian to come over to his line. He gotten a 5cc syringe with a needle, then jammed it into the guy's deltiod. I wasn't paying attention as it happened, but then I heard a cry of pain. I looked up to see my Virgo best friend rushing up to me in a protective, consoling manner. He started asking, "Are you okay? What did he say to you? What did he say? Did you see what I did? I took care of him for you. Nobody messes with you, alright? No one. I'll protect you." I was speechless. This guy genuinely cared about my well being. Plus, he's protective in a quiet manner. Once, a Libra ried to get in between us by trying to play us against eachother. Unfortunately, the Libra lost. The Virgo kept his cool the whole time while I was emotionally upset from the un-true things he said of my Virgo. Though, even though the Virgo kept a cool facade, he was pissed. When he saw what the Libra was doing, he like "Alright, that does it! He's done! He's definitely done! Especially when you mess with the ones I love!" Virgos can have an analysis of you that can sometimes be abasive as sandpaper, yet they have no intention of ever hurting you. Once, I got my feelings hurt by him. I stayed in my room for the rest of the day. He came in after me all misty eyed asking, "Are you really mad at me? I'm sorry, I didn't mean it." I was very silent, yet I was surprised to see that he was actually hurt that he hurt me. I then had a 2nd thought and was convinced that it was an act, but then the next morning I woke up to find him sitting up in the living looking down to the floor being genuinely hurt that he hurt my feelings. He started beating up on himself by constantly calling himself "Scum" or saying that he feels like crap. I couldn't bear to see him beat up on himself like that. I love him to death, yet I was hurt. So, I gave him a hug and told him,"Pain is temporary, Love is forever." Then I suggested we go to Waffle House for breakfast. That was like a symbol for making up. It's awesome.

Jamming the needle into the guys deltiod for just words,Uh,yeah,okay,sorry but thats kinda crazy lol.I don't know whatever works for you and him I guess.If someone was to be that protective over me they'd have an aguement on thier hands for the fairness factor or they wouldn't have to because im already badmouthing back,I tend to not let that petty stuff get to me and let it slide.But the libra on the other hand i've met some like that and it just proves words are just words and not something to take that seriously.The ones like that libra are the ones who need to be put in thier place.Like I got told to shut up the other day because of a petty disagreement so I played stupid to avoid having to be really mean.

Yeah, I know. Jamming a needle into someones arm is kinda over protective in a psycho-kind of way. I didn't expect him to do such a thing. I did let it go, yet he didn't want anyone to dis-respect me. I really never knew of antone to be protective of me like that. I was scared by that unpredictable reaction, but then later on I was flattered.

2ndDecanFish:

Thank you so much for the kind words. Even if we do nott show it, we Virgo's are suckers for "kindness".

Also my best friend(over 17 years) is a Pisces. Although I live in New York, and he moved to Florida 5 years ago, we are still the best of friends. I will do anything for him. He also reciprocates...

After I got separated (and eventually divorced) from my wife,three years ago, and I was really really destroyed - suicidal toughts, wanting to join the French Foreign Legion, destroying a very succesful business, and overall just self-destructing myself - who really helped me out? You guessed it. Although I have good friends, who I love and respect dearly, nobody is even close to my Pisces friend. He is the only one who trully understood me. My other friends just assumed that I am a rock, and that I am indestructible! I love you guys so much!
In the end, I credit him with helping me rebuilding my life. I just called him and told him that I was really f#% ^ $ @ up, and I really want to leave New York for a while, and I told him to rent me a house there. Imagine somebody with emotional problems, living by himself, and drinking everyday! He intuitively knew that what I needed the most was human contact with somebody I love and respect, and he insisted that I live with him, for whatever long it takes.... I will never ever forget that!

After almost 4 months of solitude, warmth from my friend, and lots of bottles of wine by the ocean, I regained back my old self. In fact I was stronger then ever.

Thank you Pisces everywhere.

Hmm...

You guys arent like you show youself, though.

Haffo,

I may not show it on trivial matters, or affirm it verbally. My motto is: "words are cheap"

However, when it really matters, and everybody else deserted you, most likely then not, a Virgo is there for you. I would do anything for my friends or for whomever I love. Trust me when I say, there are no limits.......

BUT, when I do trust somebody, I'll show it. Unfortunatelly it is very subtle, and they may miss it.

As I get older though, I am trying to be more expressive. I know that is a long shot, but I am very very patient.....

2ndDecan:'Virgos love in a quiet, sweet, tender manner.'

aw, that's so squishy....😛 lol I come off more tender than what I actually am, I'm actually not comfortable with 'softness' I need to express what I'm feeling deeply, and I need to be COMPLETELY open and expressive with people (and I expect that on both ends), otherwise, I won't acknowledge them as an equals, and will probably look down on them and push their buttons out of frustration....I'm not the tender type of guy, I need to hold you and say, 'I love you with everything inside of me' I used to be 'weak' emotionally, (didn't know where I started and others ended, I soaked up everyone elses feelings and tried to shy away my feelings) but I learned to adamantly speak up for what I want, and to jump into my feelings head first: life's been a gas ever since. Life's a helluva lot better when you feel with everything you've got.....what the hell's the point in going halfway? Just bitch shit.....I don't go around saying I love everyone, and I'm so emotional in fact, if I don't love you, or you don't envoke feeling in me, you don't exist to me. I live by my feelings, which is why I appear to be cold, I don't like feeling cold by life, I respond to my environment, with calmness when life is no longer exciting: I hate placidity, but I can deal with it.

but if you do make me feel.....I'm a nutcase for you.....can you say obsessive?

one thing about being logical most of the time is that you don't really get to THOUROUGHLY enjoy what's going on around you becuase you're caught up in your head. I've chosen to enjoy my life rather than to endlessly analyze/worry it away. You've got one life, and you mean to say you'll just worry it away paranoid over every major and minor fret, worry, or criticism? lol...when put like that, does it even sound like an option?

I agree since they are trailing behind the great lion.

If I'm stubborn in any respect it's to maintain a pure and positive out look on life....one that is objective and evaluates the WHOLE of life rather than just little parts of it.....just like I believe I was meant to.