I was thinking about....

HOW did I come to the conclusion by being 10000% sure, that I really loved my virgo and will marry him for the rest of my life?

Caps have this tendancy of being suspecious as well as not trusting their own emotions. They basically do not like or handle too many emotions. In our case, I was slower than my virgo- that is true! At one point he had started getting frustrated with me and at once, when we were ON, he had flirted with another woman. That was a wake up call for me, I knew if I did not make my decision FAST, I was about to loose him. Only when we are at the edge of loosing something/someone we realiaze how much we love/like/want them.

It did not take much for me to make up my mind after that.

He is the best thing that has ever happened to me. He tolerates me more than I do, and, is very giving and SENSITIVE with my needs.

As we are approaching the "D-day", every thing is going right before my eyes, those initial days, our fights, push-pull games, not talking for weeks and then making it up with tornadoes of emotions, his subtle seduction techniques to get into my head and my not feeling it genuine, later on my understanding of his subtle ways of communicating and expressing his emotions by actions, comments from our families/"observers" of our dramas (my mom had said from day one, that this "headache" is going to be with me for the rest of my life like she has it till day with my virgo dad :-) , my not being able to focus at work/home and my sagi brother's "ultimatum" to get out of this mess before going mad, MY ACCEPTANCE OF HIM COPYING MY EVERY THING AND DOING THE SAME THING TO ME THAT I DO TO HIM (oh that was big time), his using heart instead of head and my learning of using head instead of heart to understand his "motives"/actions/no-actions, oure reading each other's mind and competing half sentences, unbelievable telepathic rappo especially when he is away, his adpting to all of my hobbies and on and on and on and on.... I think we passed through a lot and have almost passed it. The final TEST starts in Nov. as per my mom after you marry a virgo, he will show yet another side of him!! I am ready for it as I have mom's experience and I am in touch with all capricorn wives in out circle that has virgo husbands.

In addition, I have support from Mrs. virgos across this board.

He thinks and is extremely happy that I am virgo rising, I think I am leo rising.
In any case, it's all win-win and hope to stay the same for the whole life.

So ladies,in particular caps, should not take too much time in trusting some one. Life is not that long.

I am in touch with all capricorn wives in out circle that has virgo husbands.

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I am in touch with all capricorn wives in our circle that have virgo husbands.

I must say, both cap and virgos are stubborn , hot headed, SLOW, do not trust their own emotions, do not like many emotions and can't handle intimacy well.

So the intial rounds can be really rough, S...L...OOOOOOOOOOO.....W and tiring..,but, that wait and effort is worth it for when it works between a cap and virgo- they can bring the heaven on the earth,rest assured, every one else will be jealous! Even my mom compliments me that I handle my virgo better than she could, I am controlling and submissive as per the demand of the situation. In her case, she being the scorp, things generally turn noisy and more dramatic compared to our classy, cold battles no one would know about, until we let them know about it. Both of us are wells of secrets at times and yet completely open to each other.

I bet, I have shared one of my past lives with this man, I just know him inside-out.

I wish I did not feel so many emotions for him like this.

I feel I am loosing my self control.I gave my first poem to him and he did not laugh or made fun of it, instead, he became sentimental and just stared at me.... Oh that was so touchy....I do not like that stupid poem of mine, but, he liked it :-)...

Once these virgo creatures get into your life, you can't kick them out, as we- caps generally do with others. Beware before letting virgo in,but, generally they get in before you know!