hey, just signed up on here. Would love some insight on my virgo man. We've been going out for about 6 months. Our relationship went really fast. After about a month He practicly moved in to my apartment slept over everyday. We had a very good relationshop, He was exactly what i can see myself being with forever. I love him very much. We've had some emotional outburst which i know he doesn't like, which I being an aries probably started it. He has been abusive a couple times when he has gotten mad nothing to serious but i have to say it really was me provoking him. He is a very good man overall communication has always been a problem but surprisingly he's made effort in the past as he know i really need it. 2 weeks ago, he disapeared for a week. I literally thought something had happend to him because before that he was practicly living with him. I automaticly thought the worst died, arrested, beat up,(had a bad past) and only once thought he dissapeared on me because he'd had enough or was with another women. I texted his family, left him numerous email messages as he didnt have a cell phone at the time. When he finally called me, He didnt see the problem he started talking to me as if nothign had happen, hi how was your day etc. His excuse was he was working, out of the city with his uncle(he's into contracting) didnt have my new cell number (got it a day before) and that i knew he didnt have a phone at that time I snapped, got mad hung up on him and went out with a girlfriend. Next night we talked for awhile, We smoothed things out. Well to him, to me i still cant comprehend dissapearing without a "hi dont worry im alive" message atleast. He came over the next day we were ok decent conversation/night. next night was ok a bit of a disagreement, which im trying to remember what it was about but i havent talked to him since probably because of what i had said i dunt know. He drives me crazy. He constantly told me he wants to build a future with me, he's not getting any younger, he told me he loves me, He's trying to work hard for his future everything that is his is half mine. I just feel emotionally drained I've decided a new approach im done trying, calling, I'm just living my life now trying to not think of him. Its funny i was the most independant attitude person, but this one really got to me. I dont understand some of his behaviour or appreciate his dissapearing, is he just playing with me or is this normal and do i just need to accept it.
