Is it time to pack up my heart and let go of Virgo

I'm not afraid of being patient. And I'm not afraid to show him I like him.
and I'm not even afraid to sit quietly and wait this out.....

But the response from the Virgo of my eye has been very sporadic, and I am wondering if I can afford to wager too much of my heart on this.

Because of my history, I am getting alot of 'triggers' regarding being deceived, cheated on, lied to, and laughed at behind my back -- as a result of his communication/non-communication/communication/non-communication......

So I jump to conclusions - don't say anything because I know how they react to overt emotions - but just beat myself up inside.

It's not that I won't communicate with him.
It's that I am afraid that he is laughing at me, laughing at this foolish woman who appears to be smitten with him.

Before I let go. Can some of you male Virgos let me know how you think.
I know you are protective of your hearts as well.

I was born July 24, which technically makes me Leo. But I'm on a cusp.
I think there is alot of Cancer in me.
My marriage was extremely abusive, and I sometimes wonder if I am a Leo, or the spark was just emotionally beaten out of me.
That's where the 'trust' issues come up.
Not with Virgo, so much as leftovers from the Aquarius marriage.

I appreciate the insight Curious...

I may have been a bit too emotional in the beginning, not knowing about the sign, and how it can kind of shut down.
But then I also read how you have to let them know. Because they will not pursue, Virgos tend to like to be pursued.

I have stepped back, and made some space, and not chased after him.

I think he knows that I care about him, and am drawn to him. And it helps to know that he most likely isn't laughing at me behind my back. That's important to me.

I had a husband who was on dating sites as a divorced man, talking about how he had custody of his kids, and what a b*tch I was etc., and made fun of me....while we were STILL married. I uncovered it all, including the emails back and forth.

Did alot of damage, but I'm surviving and growing.

Just every so often...... something brings back the insecurity.

OMG!! I think we were involved with the same man!!!
That AQuarius sounds identical to mine. I so understand what you have been through.
That was me.

And it's not like I'm desperately hoping to 'find me a man'...

I am just very drawn to this particular Virgo. It's his mind, and sense of humour and all kinds of things.

Anyway. I was afraid to patiently wait, and allow him to feel he wanted to see and contact me.
It must be the full moon, I was fretting, and remembering the old days, when silence meant he was tomcatting around.....
and I couldn't bear to be the fool again, hanging on for someone that didn't want me.

I don't think every man will throw his wife under the bus just to date another woman.
Hopefully there are some loyals souls left.

I actually feel for the poor souls that fall prety to my ex-Aquarius' charm. They have no idea what they are in for.

They don't know right now, that he is actually involved with more than one.....