So I've heard a lot about Virgo men being in control and not displaying their jealous nature, blah blah blah... But is that really so?!I think otherwise coz I have seen glimpses of it in MOST of them!
SO anyone wants to share any Virgo episodes with their guys (current or ex) where their 'real (and often) hidden' jealous natures were displayed?!
baby, that ALL you're gonna SEE....glimpses of jealousy, and if he's the cooler type, EVERYTHING will be in GLIMPSES IF AT ALL....don't worry boo, you'll get used to double-taking your Virguy....but before you do, pick up some advil....your neck is gonna SCREAM....😉
Being a Virguy, I REFUSE under ANY circumstance to give way to any personal feelings around anyone other than loved ones because I don't like the outside world to know how I think, and behave...anyone who can decode you is someone who should be knocked off, or let in....but the others who can't.....well, I suppose they can be play things.....lol
seriously, I don't know many jealous Virguys....but then, how honest/aware with their feelings are they?.....lots of variables to access/weigh....
It's because he's ALREADY figured you out christina....Virgos operate on a tactical level, and don't move in a direct manner.....he may NEVER show you any form of emotion YOU want him to unless it pleases him...he's not the type of man to just follow merrily along with something you said....DON'T play mind games with him, he knows all the tricks all too well, and if you're not lucky, you'll see that he has something of a stinger too....
I would NEVER get jealous of a person who tried to use me for their form of excitement/entertainment.....if you made it that easy to see, than I bet he saw it too, and he's not too happy....but then, we mostly look on jealousy as petty, and not worthy of us....I know that I can't be weak, and lacking in anyway so why feel jealous?
VE - well, what if the Virguy says: "I'd be jealous if you see/speak to so and so" - Are they just kidding when they say something like that? Sometimes though their facial expressions show they are indeed not very happy to see others (especially men) giving you attention.
So my question is: 1.Can they 'really' be jealous inside? 2.What to do when there is no intention of yours to arouse their jealousy but they still feel jealous anyways? 2.How do you handle it?
Peronally, I don't care....I'm more trusting of my partner because well, I know I'm the creme de la creme as far as guys go... and If I trust her, than we've got a stability that need not be questioned....IF it becomes an issue, and I have to play 'psycho, controlling boyfriend' (which I'LL NEVER BE) I'll end it. I don't like bearing my stinger and claws....
1.ANYONE can be jealous on the inside....INCLUDING virgos....but we surrmount it because we realize that it's a 'wasteful' emotional state....to be jealous is to feel some amount of inferiority, and I can't feel that way, it's just intolerable for me to feel 'less than' so I don't....or I don't ENTERTAIN that feeling, not to say I don't feel it though...
2.If he's feeling jealousy, than it's his own imagination working aginast him....jealousy RARELY IF EVER has anything to do with the person that it's aimed at....it's his own stinkin' fish, that he hasn't learned to surrmount yet....that would explain why despite you gave him no reason to FEEL this way, that he is this way....
3. How do I handle it— I acknowledge it, and try to focus on the TRUTH: truth being the basis for WHY I feel the way I feel, and to see if it's imagined or based on something real....I ask myself introspective questions to investigate to see if this feeling is worth the effort/time it's taking from me....'is this a genuine feeling?' 'is it her or me?' 9x's outta 10, I have the power of OBJECTIVITY that sees me through from transforming into the Scorpio I keep inside me....that's the difference between a Virg and a Scorp....we take a step back to gain perspective, and they just jump in....
Well I don't know about Virgo men, but I'm (Vgal) definitely the "cool" chill Virgo who does not show jealousy tendencies often (but they're there). I don't think it's actually jealousy though, I think it's more possessive tendencies (not that it makes it any better). I can get very possessive of my family and friends especially (not really material things).
I guess I feel like people belong to ME. lol. Crazy right.
SO anyone wants to share any Virgo episodes with their guys (current or ex) where their 'real (and often) hidden' jealous natures were displayed?!