Stares
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Just a few straight questions to Virgo man. To you
No one 😄 Thank U guys, it is too an answer 😄
U can't even imagine how grateful now I am reading atleast one answer on my question. Drunk and happy to read... Thanx, Tonyt.
I'm a cancer woman and hurted to see that a Virgo I adore is now living together with unfair materialistic pisces woman, who even using black magic to tie this guy. Well, she got him, Im - not, even we both know that there is some fundamental connection between us mentally. It just fucking my brain.
Posted by tonyt
I'll give my take on it. I'm sure I am definitely a virgo. 😄
1: Love for me is reserved. If I throw the word love around often, then it loses its special meaning. Only after when I really feel like I'm going to stick with this woman for a long-time do I use the word. Love is a commitment to me; if I feel I cannot keep this commitment, then I do not use it. Even then, it should be used on real special occasion only, it is truly a delicate word with a strong meaning to me.
If a woman does use it, then so be it - some people do throw this word around a lot, I don't like it, but I'm sure people have their own take on their definition of the word love. So this situation would only raise a small yellow flag. A red frag would be "I love you, Do you love me?" If I do, you wouldn't have to ask. You know, action speaks louder than words?
2: So If I was in a committed relationship, do I see other woman who can be better for me than you? Sure, but I'm committed to you! And I wouldn't want a perfect match though, Its the small sacrifices and compromises you give up for the relationship that makes it strong. Any strong relationship is better than a "perfect one".
3: LOL, it could very well be that you have been concluded to not be appealing to me after all. A lost of interest from observing (too weird, too hyper, bad attitude, dumb stuff you said earlier) 😛
However, most of the time, I'm just doing me; I have my life too and maybe Im just currently concentrated on my work at hand or toward my great plan. You should say Hi!
Why should the love word only be used on special occasions? If you love someone why not say it when you feel the urge.
Why do you have to make sacrifices at all to make a relationship stronger? You must be single..
lol, more like a black spell. Pisces women that I know are fun, lots of very fun activities, I actually learn alot on how to have fun socially and all with a pisces women, but at this stage I need to focus on my career - and I surely don't have time to be high on a pisces women and also to focus heavily on my career.
Although I only know a handful of cancer women, I find them to have a much nicer vibe. A more relax one that is, and they do get pretty funny with their temperament too lol. Some flaws of a pisces women were that they weren't too blight 😛 and the cancer women is too hesitantant.
I suppose it's just a phrase, being with a pisces women is great way for a virgo to develop social skill sets! 😛
Although I only know a handful of cancer women, I find them to have a much nicer vibe. A more relax one that is, and they do get pretty funny with their temperament too lol. Some flaws of a pisces women were that they weren't too blight 😛 and the cancer women is too hesitantant.
I suppose it's just a phrase, being with a pisces women is great way for a virgo to develop social skill sets! 😛
Yes! I am single at the moment. That is because they will be moving me around this world a whole lot for my career job real soon. And I mean making sacrifices such as not going somewhere, coming home early, spending the day off with that woman, being thoughtful, rejecting other womans, and etc. I put that work in. All these sacrifices translates to effort for the partner and that is love to me.
I do all that, and what need must I have to tell her I love her all the time when I'm showing her that I do all time. If she can't recognize them then maybe I'd need a more suitable woman. An example of an occasion would be when the woman is feeling unhealthy, you can definitely tell her that love. Other than that, fireworks, exotic holidays, anniversaries, umm etc.
Now, seeing that your a libra, I must make sure you understand that this is all longterm talk, something like ones or twice in my life would I ever do this. If I was just tryna hit it, then ya by all mean, I'll throw all sorts of stuff around.
I do all that, and what need must I have to tell her I love her all the time when I'm showing her that I do all time. If she can't recognize them then maybe I'd need a more suitable woman. An example of an occasion would be when the woman is feeling unhealthy, you can definitely tell her that love. Other than that, fireworks, exotic holidays, anniversaries, umm etc.
Now, seeing that your a libra, I must make sure you understand that this is all longterm talk, something like ones or twice in my life would I ever do this. If I was just tryna hit it, then ya by all mean, I'll throw all sorts of stuff around.
my close friend is a cancer girl and my 11 years bf is a virgo guy. hahaha. okey.. let me give u an answer from my sight:
cancer girl is a sensitive and emotional girl. while virgo guy is a realistic guy (like my guy) hehe. so for him no time for 'emotional discussions or debates' like, usually cancer does. if he gone, it must be for a strong reason.
virgo guy is not a kind of guy who will just comes and goes like other guys. if they are into a relationship, they will into it with serious and strong reason and if they're gone, also bcoz of strong reason. so, instead than blaming ur ex-virgo and his pisces girl, why dont u look into urself a little, perhaps? i dont mean being rude, but i have close friendship with my cancer friend for so many years, and it takes a longgggggg patience to face them. their emotional side sometimes just too hyper. hmmh 🙂
cancer girl is a sensitive and emotional girl. while virgo guy is a realistic guy (like my guy) hehe. so for him no time for 'emotional discussions or debates' like, usually cancer does. if he gone, it must be for a strong reason.
virgo guy is not a kind of guy who will just comes and goes like other guys. if they are into a relationship, they will into it with serious and strong reason and if they're gone, also bcoz of strong reason. so, instead than blaming ur ex-virgo and his pisces girl, why dont u look into urself a little, perhaps? i dont mean being rude, but i have close friendship with my cancer friend for so many years, and it takes a longgggggg patience to face them. their emotional side sometimes just too hyper. hmmh 🙂
And needed a straight numbered answers too. Deal?
So:
1) How do you feel when a woman that you're not deep into her says "I love you". Your behavior in this situation is...
2) Do you see around you any other possible "perfect match" woman for you if you have an relationship with a woman already? See it or dont see?
3) If u stop staring, stop this pointed eye contact with some woman - what does it mean? You were staring and staring and then suddenly even avoid to watch in the eyes.
Answers-
1- I'd wonder what she would be going on about
2- No. Neither
3- It'd mean you have stopped staring at each other
Is that more to the point?
So:
1) How do you feel when a woman that you're not deep into her says "I love you". Your behavior in this situation is...
2) Do you see around you any other possible "perfect match" woman for you if you have an relationship with a woman already? See it or dont see?
3) If u stop staring, stop this pointed eye contact with some woman - what does it mean? You were staring and staring and then suddenly even avoid to watch in the eyes.
Answers-
1- I'd wonder what she would be going on about
2- No. Neither
3- It'd mean you have stopped staring at each other
Is that more to the point?
and sorry I dont do deals with anyone, ok?
Posted by Stares
1) How do you feel when a woman that you're not deep into her says "I love you". Your behavior in this situation is...
Depends on how long we have been together and what experiences we shared. I tend to define love and ask for the person in question to define their view of it for me. It it matches either definition I believe it and embrace it.
2) Do you see around you any other possible "perfect match" woman for you if you have an relationship with a woman already? See it or dont see?
Only if the woman I am currently dating is being negative towards me or the relationship and give the impression she wants out.
3) If u stop staring, stop this pointed eye contact with some woman - what does it mean? You were staring and staring and then suddenly even avoid to watch in the eyes.click to expand
Most women I have encountered find my staring unsettling. If they expressed discomfort in the past then I would hesitate to stare. I can not imagine any other way.
Posted by Stares
I'm a cancer woman and hurted to see that a Virgo I adore is now living together with unfair materialistic pisces woman, who even using black magic to tie this guy.
LOL.
Posted by Stares
3) If u stop staring, stop this pointed eye contact with some woman - what does it mean? You were staring and staring and then suddenly even avoid to watch in the eyes.click to expand
It means the magic spell wore off.
Posted by tonyt
I'll give my take on it. I'm sure I am definitely a virgo. 😄
1: Love for me is reserved. If I throw the word love around often, then it loses its special meaning. Only after when I really feel like I'm going to stick with this woman for a long-time do I use the word. Love is a commitment to me; if I feel I cannot keep this commitment, then I do not use it. Even then, it should be used on real special occasion only, it is truly a delicate word with a strong meaning to me.
If a woman does use it, then so be it - some people do throw this word around a lot, I don't like it, but I'm sure people have their own take on their definition of the word love. So this situation would only raise a small yellow flag. A red frag would be "I love you, Do you love me?" If I do, you wouldn't have to ask. You know, action speaks louder than words?
2: So If I was in a committed relationship, do I see other woman who can be better for me than you? Sure, but I'm committed to you! And I wouldn't want a perfect match though, Its the small sacrifices and compromises you give up for the relationship that makes it strong. Any strong relationship is better than a "perfect one".
3: LOL, it could very well be that you have been concluded to not be appealing to me after all. A lost of interest from observing (too weird, too hyper, bad attitude, dumb stuff you said earlier) 😛
However, most of the time, I'm just doing me; I have my life too and maybe Im just currently concentrated on my work at hand or toward my great plan. You should say Hi!
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2) Do you see around you any other possible "perfect match" woman for you if you have an relationship with a woman already? See it or dont see?
3) If u stop staring, stop this pointed eye contact with some woman - what does it mean? You were staring and staring and then suddenly even avoid to watch in the eyes.