My virgo women, Need some input.

I met this virgo woman. The short time we spent seeing each other, i dont think she will remember or even think of me, cause we just met right? But I can really tell shes into me cause she was checkin me out, shes uncomfortable around me but when we talk face to face we stare at each others eyes dead on!. I feel like a spell was casted on me, I was hit so hard. So, i went for her number, we texted... a bit, i confessed I like her before we seperated. So, a bit of texting... Then days past no response from her... no big deal cause you virgos hybernate and marinade in your thoughts and need space, i know that. But damn! I just want to know if theres a sign that women give or do subliminaly to tell a guy they dont like or not interested anymore. Im not in panic mode or anything, i just want to know what goes in your heads when distant, i know it could be a lot of things. Or maybe I scared her off already? Cause i told her i like her, i told her shes beautiful and i meant that!! OR! You girls can tell me what scares you when it comes to men.

Ps. What sucks is that We wont be seeing each other since we hardly know one another. So thats probly why, she probly lost interest or something... God hope not..

Well, Im seeking enlightenment ladies, please help me figure this out. Thank you in advance

Why don't you ask her to go to a movie or something?
If she says no then you move on to someone who can appreciate a man with balls.
If she says yes then your not sitting around wasting away wondering.

Also the only kind of guys I've had relationships with have been pretty persistent. For some I needed to see that it wasn't all about
the chase and others I was attracted to but was unsure since I didn't know them very well and needed some time find out more about who they were.

Posted by ieatpizzaforfree
Well, coming from a virgo.. What is your sign? I could describe what's possibly going through her mind if I knew what sign you were. 🙂

I do believe he is a cancer man...

I appreciate you ladies responding. Im a cancerian male, and am in love indeed. I can't just DROP Her, without atleast doing my best to know if I have a chance to win her heart. I'm moving slow cause I don't want to scare her away if I go all out with my feelings, I know thats not a smart move.

But should I tell her again how I feel about her?. I do feel like texting her, but this week is not reall a good time I think, cause its mid term exams and I want to give her her space and not cloud her mind about me or what i'd say.

I'm planning on sending her a msg to let her know im serious and I like her a lot. But isnt that going to be another 'scare tactic'? Im thinking of how i'm going to approach her through text that I think about her and want to get to know her, could you ladies help me?. I need help cause i want my actions to be precise that can enable me to draw her into me. I may be moving slow, but i'm just being cautious.

My last relationship was 3 years ago, and it felt like ages since then, so I hardly know how to date or approach a woman effectively on my own, I need you virgo ladies help.

Its not wrong if i tell her how I feel right? But I dont want to look impatient, in fact I can wait and be persistent. But if I do tell her, i think it is what will set me free. Im stuck in between 'should I? or i shouldn't yet' tell/text her. How do you ladies want to be approached in a situation like this?.

I havent texted her, cause im giving her space. I dont text everyday too, cause I dont want to come up as needy, and that I do my own stuff too.
But i check on her sometimes and see whats up. No replies but I understand that it is in her nature, just to let her know im here.

How many times have you texted her? and she didnt respond to any of them??


Me personally...I would say something like. "Hey you seem like a cool girl...I really would like to get to know you better. Let me know the next time your free...we could go have coffee or lunch..dinner...fill in the blank on that one. If she texts you back...you go forward. If she doesnt...then you know she doesnt/didnt feel the same....and you move on.

Don't start getting all overly chatty about how you feel about her...it will scare her. You're a stranger at this point..

Thanks for responding, I guess its my fear of rejection is whats holding me back, I'm highly doubtful that she'll say yes. but i'll try and I'm gonna ask her that this weekend so atleast I know if shes interested or not.

We texted for 2 days, she seemed enthusiastic about it. Our conversation was ended by a question by her and I answered it, but no reply yet, im thinking shes just busy with school cause her exams was coming the week after that day we talked. It's no big deal to me, but I did text her every other day just to check on her, not really trying to start a conversation, just 'good morning' 'have a good one' 'good luck on your tests'. Just those short texts, i'm not really looking or waiting for a reply on those msgs cause to me its just a show of 'im here, when u need me'

But this week i havnt texted her to give her space, since I know she'll be busy studying.

Yeah you'd better ask her something. She's not going to ask you out. Fear of rejection is something you will have to give up on. My ex Sag was super persistent because I was so unsure of him but my aloof behaviour didn't phase him (or maybe it drew him in) His confidence and security with himself was very attractive to me.

Also Soultalk already said be consistent if you didn't tell her you are giving her space and just disappeared that could be thought of as game playing if you regularly switch everything up. Instead of sending her messages all the time and then skipping a week pace yourself better. Don't message her all the time but be in touch with her the same amount of time regularly. Probably though as a Virgo you taking space won't really phase her. My BF (Cancer) used to get mad at me and vanish for a few days here and there when we were getting to know each other it wasn't a big deal to me but we were already kind of established. You don't want to make your Virgo think that you are unsteady.

Honesty is the best policy as they say :0) Do you really want to be left wondering if she likes you or not ? I know its daunting throwing your feelings out there to someone and not knowing if they feel the same but it seems the only way you will know is by asking her if she feels anything will progress further then the odd text message .

At least that way you can move forward whatever the outcome .

Thank you all for the response. I just texted her after 4 days, its the end of her examination week. I didnt tell her I was giving her space, i thought she'll know that already. But I did text her before the week started and wished her good luck on her tests. Now I just texted her "I've been thinking about This woman I really like. I wonder how she's doing"

And after i sent that i thought, "i cant be really direct to her" its that fear holding me back. Maybe I should really dive in and ask her if she feels something mutual. How do i say it? Ugh!

Im thinking

"Hey, If you're not busy this long weekend and you have free time maybe we can go see (movie). I really want to spend time and know you."

Should I also ask her if she feels something for me? I dont think so, cause I'm thinking she'll be more distant and I dont want to look like im forcing her for an answer. How should i say such thing?

Yeah I understand that. Calm yo tits down. Look, I'm just being cautious, alright? Thats why I needed help and suggestions because I want to do the right thing. But thanks to all you ladies, I really do appreciate the inputs.

Posted by LowKey


"Hey, If you're not busy this long weekend and you have free time maybe we can go see (movie)."

yes ^^^^^^^^^^^^

Posted by LowKey

"Hey, If you're not busy this long weekend and you have free time maybe we can go see (movie). I really want to spend time and know you."

no ^^^^^^^^^^^^^

Posted by LowKey
TMaybe I should really dive in and ask her if she feels something mutual. How do i say it? Ugh!


Should I also ask her if she feels something for me?

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NO ^^^^^^^^^^^^


For me personally anyway.
Everyone is different and our personalities go beyond signs. Still I wonder what the other Virgirls here would think of the "Do you have feelings for me approach" so get a second opinion on that 🙂
From my point of view you already sent the text about someone you like and how are they doing which was nice but piling on too much of this
feelings stuff would be too much too soon because while she might be attracted to you and interested but she still needs to get to know you first before talking about feelings - again that's how I'd be personally - she could be different, but I think the text was a good start and the movie suggestion would be a nice second step. You don't need to go for so much reassurance she already gave you her number I don't think she would've done that if she wasn't interested.

You are wanting to get to know her right? You cant get to know someone while watching a movie. Go have coffee or something where you can have a convo with her face to face...feel things out. Like I said you are a stranger at this point...and for me if a stranger said "hey I like you" I'd be a little freaked out...you don't know me..how can you like me etc.


You cant go pushing your feelings all at once in her face...she'll run!