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This topic was created in the Virgo forum by jjessa on Wednesday, October 2, 2013 and has 6 replies.

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@jjessa
12 Years

I am a virgo woman. I am very independent. Which sign is less likely to try to control me in a love relationship? I want to be in a happy relationship but I always seem to end up in a controlling situation. Help!

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

Posted by jjessa

I am very independent.

I always seem to end up in a controlling situation.

lol

sounds like your self view of independent is severely skewed .... considering that it's your job to teach the other how to treat you, and you obviously teach them that you're co-dependent.

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@VirgoCupcake
12 YearsVirgo

I am a Virgo woman and I think another Virgo wouldnt be controlling.

The thing is I am independent too, but I want a leader!

So becareful to not fall for someone who doesnt know how to lead.

SMH thats a relationship that will bore us virgo women pretty fast.

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@jjessa
12 Years

Thanks for the advice. I have been with Aquarius and Virgo in the last few years. Love Aquarius types but haven't found them to be trustworthy. And I found my Virgo guy to be extremely controlling and dependent on me.

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@jjessa
12 Years

I actually thought Aquarius was controlling in a way. He didn't want me to spend time with my friends and constantly accused me of flirting with other guys, including his brother and my best friend's husband. I started spending most of my time in his apartment with him, unless he wanted to go somewhere. I ended up wearing his T shirts all the time and gave up make up to prevent anyone from looking at me to stop accusations. Didn't work. Eventually I found out he was doing all the things he was accusing me of and left him 3 months ago. I was willing to try to make him happy because I loved him but was miserable without my friends and family.

Just went on a date with an Aries. He was ready to jump to exclusivity on our first date. Maybe it's just me!