Not sure what this is with the virgo

Ok so I've read a lot of posts on here and hoping to get a bit of advice from a Virgo.
I'm a Leo female (July 27th) and I'm in a friendship/relationship with a Virgo (August 28th)
We are really good friends and spend quite abit of time together we are more friends with benefits well that's how things have been for the past year.
But I want more than just friends with benifits I know Virgo men are very particular I know he has feelings for me as when he misses me he will call or send a message stating he wants to see me but i dont know how to go about the whole relationship talk as he's a Virgo that don't show much emotion.

I'm not a Virgo, but have you just tried talking to him about it? You don't give a lot to go on as far as if he's really interested or not. Has he admitted feelings? Does he call you for more than just talking/hooking up? Is he dating other women? A year is a long time to be in a FWB type relationship. If he hasn't given you any indication in that time that he wants more, I'm guessing he's good with how things are as they are.

I don't think men of any sign are hard to figure out if they REALLY want to be with you. But you should definitely at least try to talk it out and see if he feels the same way. Just try to go in with no expectations, and make a decision on whether you can continue with all this if he says no.

You can plainly ask him if he is interested in something more with you. there is no trick or beat around the bush to it.
The only thing id keep in mind is... well virgos can feel obligated to enter in a relationship even if they dont want to..

Ok so we have spoke about a relationship in the past which was like 6 months ago and he stated he's not ready for a relationship just yet as he had other issues going on in life which I knew about and understood so your all saying I should just ask? I don't know why as I Leo I'm so shy around this Virgo

Describe what a more than a friend, friendship you have with this guy already? So do you know that being a friend, more than a friend are different. So are you having sex already, or just waiting? Till the right time. If you want a fwb then do it but no feelings involved whatsoever.

See this is the thing it's more than FWB as I know feelings are involved I have feelings for him he's addmited he has feelings for me as well. We go out together festivals out to eat cinema.
Yes we have had sex. He don't call just to hook up he will call to see how I am how my days been if he has his daughter he will arrange for us all to do something together.
As far as I am aware he isn't seeing anyone else I have asked.

Posted by Missriri
Ok so we have spoke about a relationship in the past which was like 6 months ago and he stated he's not ready for a relationship just yet as he had other issues going on in life which I knew about and understood so your all saying I should just ask? I don't know why as I Leo I'm so shy around this Virgo

Yes, you should ask.

Btw....the last Virgo I was dealing with initially told me the same thing and had the EXACT same birthdate. I later found out after digging around, he was just a narcissist who told this to every woman who dealt with to keep them hanging on. I hope this turns out well for you. Good luck!

@OP. Lets see as a fixed and an earth sign. Hmm are there any red flags that are preventing you on taking it to another level more serious.? There is one question. It's about the kid situation.How are you doing with that lately, are you okay with that?

Friends with Benefits and women who CHOOSE to be in them do NOT have a right to whine nor are they entitled to a relationship with the guy they CHOSE to spread their legs with. He clearly is fine with how things are. He stated six months ago he does NOT want a relationship.
You CHOSE to remain with him. If you don't like it...walk away.

I am not sure about you but Iove face to face interaction, during sex or love making, then do whatever you want if I can do it..

I don't know but I love cuddling and spooning..

No emotions maybe or maybe not..depends..

I have Aquarius moon and Cancer rising, and VIT.. I will lose my mind if I can't express myself just alitttle bit. God damnit.

Did I mention I love talking about current events and random ass questions I really want to know.

How about a hey babe hope you have a good day and ttyl..Come over later for dessert. That depends on my needs atm. Haha.

Did I mention constant rescheduling or silent treatment get on my nerves. Don't my mood would change..

Oh wait. I would love to fall asleep in each other arms..

If I find out you are doing something you shouldn't be doing.. I will never talk to again for like 12 years. I pack, leave, and relocate while you're gone and I have a chance..

If I become pregnant during a FWB I hold you accountable and will not get an abortion.. Unless you tell me you're an abuser, a druggie, a felon, a serial killer, a pedophile, a rapist, have a serious mental illness like schizophrenia or you're into cults.. You will pay. And then I never want to see you around ever.

Oh wait I will know everything about you before I even do a FWB. So I will hold you accountable for your actions. It takes two to make a baby by accident.. and don't ask for an abortion..

This thread took a weird turn.

I'm sorry I was just reading the booty call agreements. So basically I was not agreeing to any of that as I am a Taurus and that's my realistic outlook on that list. I just changed everything I need in a relationship vs a fwb argeement list.. Lol booty call list. .. Sorry. And can't and won't..