kitty69
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Posted by kitty69
PS Mr Cagin your input on this matter would much be appreciated, and any one else who cares, to throw their hat in the ring. Thanx for any comments, you;d care to make. Love to hear your thoughts.
I take it, you are referring to me?
I have been an avid follower of this most enlightening post, and must just add, not only do your followers display much inspiring enlightenment, but also some genuine brutal honesty, and for that, I am eternally grateful.
Enlightening post? or forum?
Followers—
Please excuse any typos as I am currently on moheto number three. I met and fell in love/lust with a virgo two years ago, and still feel very perplexed. On this post I'll just put forward a couple burning questions first if I could. Why does a virgo come back after six months, spends all day with me, apologizes for his behavouir, then apon leaving, suggests, that what ever happens, we,ll always be friends. Then fast forward six months later, arrives at my doorstep unannounced, then leaves saying hell come and visit next time he,s in Perth then doesn;t. I have so many other questions, but I;ll begin with this.click to expand
He wants to be friends and likes the fact he can be free while you are still on the "hook".
So long as you continue to entertain him and not demand a finite relationship status, he will continue to find amusement out of you at your expense.
Posted by CajunspiritPosted by kitty69
PS Mr Cagin your input on this matter would much be appreciated, and any one else who cares, to throw their hat in the ring. Thanx for any comments, you;d care to make. Love to hear your thoughts.
I take it, you are referring to me?
I have been an avid follower of this most enlightening post, and must just add, not only do your followers display much inspiring enlightenment, but also some genuine brutal honesty, and for that, I am eternally grateful.
Enlightening post? or forum?
Followers—
Please excuse any typos as I am currently on moheto number three. I met and fell in love/lust with a virgo two years ago, and still feel very perplexed. On this post I'll just put forward a couple burning questions first if I could. Why does a virgo come back after six months, spends all day with me, apologizes for his behavouir, then apon leaving, suggests, that what ever happens, we,ll always be friends. Then fast forward six months later, arrives at my doorstep unannounced, then leaves saying hell come and visit next time he,s in Perth then doesn;t. I have so many other questions, but I;ll begin with this.
He wants to be friends and likes the fact he can be free while you are still on the "hook".
So long as you continue to entertain him and not demand a finite relationship status, he will continue to find amusement out of you at your expense.click to expand
Whoopsie, try again
Yes Mr Cagin Spirit, my reference, was to you. Thanx for the quick response. Engage me, it's like the proverbial dog, licking at the empty can , yeah. Why bother , when you can pick and choose?
Posted by kitty69
Yes Mr Cagin Spirit, my reference, was to you. Thanx for the quick response. Engage me, it's like the proverbial dog, licking at the empty can , yeah. Why bother , when you can pick and choose?
Happy to oblige, yes if you have options you should put him behind you.
If you have other questions, I would be delighted to entertain.
Dear Mr Cajinspirit, I was with the virgo man for a year, i thought if they came back to you they were still interested. Also, seriously, how do you treat the women you love. How do you know the difference between caring, loving someone, or if your just a friend with benefits. The line seems somewhat blurred.
The woman who has won my heart, typically is showered in affection. I always want to be around her and miss her dearly when she is not around. I try to always be there for her and will go the distance.
I remember all her little quirks, likes and dislikes and try to surprise her from time to time.
Criticising increases as well as jokes aimed towards her and if she can appreciate that, even better.
I remember all her little quirks, likes and dislikes and try to surprise her from time to time.
Criticising increases as well as jokes aimed towards her and if she can appreciate that, even better.
Posted by Cajunspirit
The woman who has won my heart, typically is showered in affection. I always want to be around her and miss her dearly when she is not around. I try to always be there for her and will go the distance.
I remember all her little quirks, likes and dislikes and try to surprise her from time to time.
Criticising increases as well as jokes aimed towards her and if she can appreciate that, even better.
At what point do you start running away or disappear?
Is it true.
Is it true, that there are two types of virgos?
1. The type that chase,contact you daily,profess their undying love,
2. The ones that never admit feelings,tell you they love you, dont ever initiate contact?
Is it true, that there are two types of virgos?
1. The type that chase,contact you daily,profess their undying love,
2. The ones that never admit feelings,tell you they love you, dont ever initiate contact?
^^^they're one in the same. depends on the stage of your relationship and what you mean to them that determines what you get. dunno about that undying love part though. i think they'll profess it just don't expect it to be overly flowery and dramatic like a leo.
Posted by ariesgal
At what point do you start running away or disappear?
I'm not really the "regular" disappearing type I read about, here on these forums.
Posted by valeria25
He criticises and jokes a lot (which are all directed to me). I should have taken that as maybe a huge fondness/love?
Yes, when we take the time to honestly make you better, that's how I show my love.
If we criticise without suggesting improvement, then we're just being annoying.
Posted by kitty69
1. The type that chase,contact you daily,profess their undying love,
2. The ones that never admit feelings,tell you they love you, dont ever initiate contact?click to expand
Errr... it's not so simple.
But yes, in a way.
Based on my cumulative analysis
First [August 3rd - September 3rd] and Third [September 14th-23rd] Decans fall more into category 1.
Second Decans [September 4th - 14th] fall into category 2. Though we do admit to feelings eventually.
But the moment I feel that she would be 'moving away' i cannot even entertain that thought and games i will NOT play.
I know you mean "moving away" in the metaphysical sense, but what if someone you were close with was to move away in the physical sense. How would you react to that?
Thanx wgamador, for your honesty. Well yes and no. When I met my Virgo, we were living in the same town, now Im home, but its only an hours drive from where I used to work. Plus, this virgo comes home every week, its a one week on one week off roster. We saw each other almost daily, for a year whilst I worked there, then I quit, back home. He left me after I resigned, by text no less.So any way,I didnt chase chase him, I stopped all contact. I mean when someone tells you good luck with the rest of your life, hope youll find, some one who will give you way more than I could, I will miss you, its kinda saying, I dont want you any more. I love this man still, not a day goes by without, my thoughts leading, back to him. He has been back to see me, on three occasions. I asked, why he sent that message,he responded with, I dont know,and sorry. He left and said, what ever happens, well always be friends. Fast forward, hes been back two more times, still, no discussion about us. Im so tired, Im not interested in anyone else, Ive not dated anyone since either, it really is a sad situation, and yes he is the only man I have ever fallen in love with, and given my heart to willingly, Virgos just get under my skin. And yes I know I need to move on, I really am trying.
Hahaha, your so funny Dytryin, I really am going to make a concerted effort to let go, the sad part is, my intelligent self is saying one thing, my heart on the other hand just wont heal....
So, package deal yeah tubby scubby, why no consistency, you never really know what your going to get, re; cadbury chocalate all sorts !!!!!
Hey guys, I don't think I was extremely clear on my last post. When I was with my virgo, we both worked on a goldmine- 1 hours drive from home perth. The thing is, we were working on a one week on one week off roster, away for a week ,home perth for a week. I am now home, perth for good, but he still comes back to perth for his weeks break each week. So Mr DyTryin, I absolutely do feel the connection, thats the difficulty, but we were very much together for a year, and have been apart, for ten months. But surely, I ask you, why would you waste your time , returning three times, to see me, when all is said and done, he would surely have,to have had, many women, a whole gamet, of admirers to chose from, it defies logic, although when he does visit, he's sure to be able to feel my pain with seeing him again? He did used to discuss his feelings in the start -re stating how much he liked me,how he could see me in his future {twice}, and then nothing. When I quit my job, poof seeya later, that was the end of it.—?? So Mr DyTryin, what made your scorpio so special? how did she win you over? And Mr wgamador please dont take this the wrong way, but is it true, that virgos cant be alone? and cant go without, ahem- women for more than a couple weeks? So does friendship loss,mean more than love loss, in regards to exes ? I really miss our friendship - it was bliss, but really I just miss him, he ticked every box- how is that even possible? No one can cause palpatations, breathlessness, when they enter a room, quite like him.... Funnily, when this virgo does return, I ask him each time, if he has missed me, he avoids eye contact, squirms in his seat, then admits it under his breathe, this brings me much joy hehe. Okay then enough already, just one more question, have any of you virgo boys returned to your exes, and for what reasons? dont be shy now - the TRUTH, and did it work for you. It's been a pleasure......Oh forgive me dear virgos for the typo's and errors, im working night shift, hence the incoherance hehe.
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