leogirl75
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question for virgo guys here...
"Promise u'll always be by me no matter the curcumstances,. That your love for me is real and you wont abuse me. I know I'm real and I want to get into you body, spirit & mind"
If he really said that then you should supporting him? he really loves you.. those words are not a simple thing for Virgos to say.. only to special one?!
If he really said that then you should supporting him? he really loves you.. those words are not a simple thing for Virgos to say.. only to special one?!
"That your love for me is real and you wont abuse me. I know I'm real and I want to get into you body, spirit & mind"
leogirl75, I might be a little afraid of a man who would say this to me: Don't abuse me and then turn around and say I know I'm real. But, that's just me and I tend to be suspicious when something doesn't sound right to me. Overlooking bad traits is easy to do and we all have to do this because nobody is perfect for us . . but, these couple of sentences would indicate to me that he isn't real because he fears his weakness in letting himself be abused.
That's how my mind would process these statements. The ordinary person isn't going to say something like this: Don't abuse me . . unless there's a reason for it.
If I let a man abuse me . . how real could I be? How true could I be to myself, or anybody else, if I ALLOWED somebody to abuse me?
This is a fear he has, or he wouldn't have said it . . people don't normally just casually say something like that . . for me, I would take this very seriously and try to find out WHY he would make such a statement. I wouldn't ignore it, if it were me because if there is something from his past that influenced him into having a need to ask you not to abuse him . . then I would want to know this. Without knowing what he meant, how would I know if something I did bordered on his perception of abuse?
But, that's just me, who's not a Virgo, nor male.
"Promise u'll always be by me no matter the curcumstances"
Promise to love me, no matter what I do? Stand by me, no matter what? Then ask you not to abuse me . . there's an issue here . . I would address it, if I were you.
leogirl75, I might be a little afraid of a man who would say this to me: Don't abuse me and then turn around and say I know I'm real. But, that's just me and I tend to be suspicious when something doesn't sound right to me. Overlooking bad traits is easy to do and we all have to do this because nobody is perfect for us . . but, these couple of sentences would indicate to me that he isn't real because he fears his weakness in letting himself be abused.
That's how my mind would process these statements. The ordinary person isn't going to say something like this: Don't abuse me . . unless there's a reason for it.
If I let a man abuse me . . how real could I be? How true could I be to myself, or anybody else, if I ALLOWED somebody to abuse me?
This is a fear he has, or he wouldn't have said it . . people don't normally just casually say something like that . . for me, I would take this very seriously and try to find out WHY he would make such a statement. I wouldn't ignore it, if it were me because if there is something from his past that influenced him into having a need to ask you not to abuse him . . then I would want to know this. Without knowing what he meant, how would I know if something I did bordered on his perception of abuse?
But, that's just me, who's not a Virgo, nor male.
"Promise u'll always be by me no matter the curcumstances"
Promise to love me, no matter what I do? Stand by me, no matter what? Then ask you not to abuse me . . there's an issue here . . I would address it, if I were you.
Thank you P-angel and Qbone.
Yes I told him I would stand by him no matter what but the abuse one I left it out. It acually got me thinking because that is a powerful word to use and I told myself that when next I call him..I'd ask what he means by 'abuse' within his context.
Oh well..weil keep you all posted. Thanks for the replies.
Yes I told him I would stand by him no matter what but the abuse one I left it out. It acually got me thinking because that is a powerful word to use and I told myself that when next I call him..I'd ask what he means by 'abuse' within his context.
Oh well..weil keep you all posted. Thanks for the replies.
Thank you P-angel and Qbone.
Yes I told him I would stand by him no matter what but the abuse one I left it out. It acually got me thinking because that is a powerful word to use and I told myself that when next I call him..I'd ask what he means by 'abuse' within his context.
Oh well..weil keep you all posted. Thanks for the replies.
Yes I told him I would stand by him no matter what but the abuse one I left it out. It acually got me thinking because that is a powerful word to use and I told myself that when next I call him..I'd ask what he means by 'abuse' within his context.
Oh well..weil keep you all posted. Thanks for the replies.
i think on the one hand it would be wonderful to hear such words from a man you love; however, on the other hand it would SCARE ME! I am scorpio and suspicious --i would immediately think -- i've only known you three months and you are already saying - don't ever leave me no matter what and don't ever abuse me? yeah, it would make me think this guy has some major issues/secrets behind the words of love...
Well, I spoke at length with my virgo guy and he wants us to get married next year. He said he likes me a lot..so much soo...isn't it wonderful..well the rest of the story is history.
cute cute combo. trust me.
i am married with a leo man.
my leo dreams of a perfect relationship, and so am i. constant communication, time and negotiation can make this combo work. my leo is possessive and jealous when i take him for granted or if i don't appreciate him. but this is not because of his ego but love. i also feel taken for granted and unappreciated but these are all a state of mind. we oftentimes do things or think about things that we often resent, until we learn how to be grateful and appreciative of the one we love we can have a fulfilling relationship.
he's a very contented man, i must say i am more financially stable than him but he fights for his love for me and my kid, we argue but we negotiate, he takes pride of his family. i don't know i just feel secure having him in my life. the kind of feeling that even if you don't get to see him often you know that he's there not flirting with other girls. i sometimes feel i can't make him happy, he also feel the same. and i really find it cute. we have different views on some things.
i am more practical he is sometimes superficial but most of the time he has a good point
that never fail to outwit me which i thought i am the one who outwits him. i flirt around he's not. i hangout alot he's a homebody.
i am more of a pessimist and he's an optimist. his loyalty and genuineness is highly valued. i don't know but there's just magic in our relationship.
my leo dreams of a perfect relationship, and so am i. constant communication, time and negotiation can make this combo work. my leo is possessive and jealous when i take him for granted or if i don't appreciate him. but this is not because of his ego but love. i also feel taken for granted and unappreciated but these are all a state of mind. we oftentimes do things or think about things that we often resent, until we learn how to be grateful and appreciative of the one we love we can have a fulfilling relationship.
he's a very contented man, i must say i am more financially stable than him but he fights for his love for me and my kid, we argue but we negotiate, he takes pride of his family. i don't know i just feel secure having him in my life. the kind of feeling that even if you don't get to see him often you know that he's there not flirting with other girls. i sometimes feel i can't make him happy, he also feel the same. and i really find it cute. we have different views on some things.
i am more practical he is sometimes superficial but most of the time he has a good point
that never fail to outwit me which i thought i am the one who outwits him. i flirt around he's not. i hangout alot he's a homebody.
i am more of a pessimist and he's an optimist. his loyalty and genuineness is highly valued. i don't know but there's just magic in our relationship.
yeah i notice you're seeing a virgo man. we kinda have a different man but just the same don't be swept away with confusion because when it piles up you'll explode with doubt, fear, anger and frustration.
best of luck sweetie. 🙂
best of luck sweetie. 🙂
He told you how he feels.....why are you asking US? Do yourself a favor and don't complicate something that doesn't have to be. Great guy, treats you wonderfully, expresses love and devotion. What part of that is giving you a brain fart— Just to with and enjoy. Chicks dream for that kind of attention and now you're getting it...don't mess it up by second guessing everything...
congrats leo lady!
stay firm in your love and continue to ask him questions that you have for his statements...follow his actions too, not only his words, and see where this will take you both. he will open up if he feels safe and since he loves you, he should be willing to build up the communication you too have.
you both will have to take care of your hearts...so don't forget that.
vll
stay firm in your love and continue to ask him questions that you have for his statements...follow his actions too, not only his words, and see where this will take you both. he will open up if he feels safe and since he loves you, he should be willing to build up the communication you too have.
you both will have to take care of your hearts...so don't forget that.
vll
it happens all the time though, me and my leo have misunderstandings due to lack of communication. some refuse not to some wants to.
i often refuse talking things through during my past relationships when i was young but it doesn't help me grow, until i found my leo, he's vocal in so many ways and demonstrative. he taught me a lot of things and i've always wanted to learn and grow from our relationship. i tend to teach him alot of things that he lack of and alot of things he excessively have.
he said i confuse him a lot with my words and actions which i find it hard to express and do sometimes but he helps me with it. a relationship will only suffer if our needs are not negotiated.
when i worry too much and i give him a silent treatment, chances are he'll feel contaminated with my attitude.
there's always a lot more to learn with each other in every relationship and it does take some painful adjustments when it happens.
i often refuse talking things through during my past relationships when i was young but it doesn't help me grow, until i found my leo, he's vocal in so many ways and demonstrative. he taught me a lot of things and i've always wanted to learn and grow from our relationship. i tend to teach him alot of things that he lack of and alot of things he excessively have.
he said i confuse him a lot with my words and actions which i find it hard to express and do sometimes but he helps me with it. a relationship will only suffer if our needs are not negotiated.
when i worry too much and i give him a silent treatment, chances are he'll feel contaminated with my attitude.
there's always a lot more to learn with each other in every relationship and it does take some painful adjustments when it happens.
and always remember that the moment you want to stop learning, you're in trouble.
i hope your virgo man will stay real and true to you. may both of you grow together and not apart.
i hope your virgo man will stay real and true to you. may both of you grow together and not apart.
meaning? the line says it all chocolate 🙂
every relationship grows over time. your man needs a mature woman and your man should also be mature enough to handle that relationship.
he had kids from his past, and you have to accept that, he also need to realize that this is new to you. as long as both of you are responsible for each other, and with the commitment you both have, your relationship will never go wrong.
we grow from what we learn, but if a person refuse not to learn because of useless pride, or self-preservation we will never grow.
every relationship grows over time. your man needs a mature woman and your man should also be mature enough to handle that relationship.
he had kids from his past, and you have to accept that, he also need to realize that this is new to you. as long as both of you are responsible for each other, and with the commitment you both have, your relationship will never go wrong.
we grow from what we learn, but if a person refuse not to learn because of useless pride, or self-preservation we will never grow.
the people we are in relationship with are always a mirror reflecting our own beliefs and we are mirrors reflecting their beliefs. so relationships are one of the most powerful tool for growth.
if we look honestly at our relationships we can see so much about how we have created them.
if we appreciate a trait on someone else, we can find it in our self. but if we only look at the likable parts of a person this is so self-affirming.
truth is that we only want to have relationships with people who reflect who we are. the people who irritate us the most are the once we might want to observe the most for they're reflecting back to us those things about ourselves that we haven't learned to feel grateful for and love.
reminds me of the days when i was young, i settle for someone whom i thought was the one for me even if i knew all the while that they were playing with me, my ex sag had a ex gfs all the while during our relationship and was so confused about whom to pick among the two of us. i settled for less because i was not that serious, i was also playing around, all the while i thought i was but i wasn't . because if i am consciously aware about this, i wouldn't ever want to settle for less. especially with the worth of my love. i let it go.
then i met my leo who turned out to be my husband for 20+ years, i came to know what i want from my man and how he should be. i came to realize that i don't want a hanky-panky relationship, but something more serious. i remember when we were still in the courtship stage, i pushed him away so many times, but he insisted and proved that his love for me was real that's how i felt that he was the one for me. it took time for us to get there, all we had was a chance.
the purpose of every marriage or every relationships isn't just about so-called happiness as far as most people imagine, but it's all about self-discovery.
if we look honestly at our relationships we can see so much about how we have created them.
if we appreciate a trait on someone else, we can find it in our self. but if we only look at the likable parts of a person this is so self-affirming.
truth is that we only want to have relationships with people who reflect who we are. the people who irritate us the most are the once we might want to observe the most for they're reflecting back to us those things about ourselves that we haven't learned to feel grateful for and love.
reminds me of the days when i was young, i settle for someone whom i thought was the one for me even if i knew all the while that they were playing with me, my ex sag had a ex gfs all the while during our relationship and was so confused about whom to pick among the two of us. i settled for less because i was not that serious, i was also playing around, all the while i thought i was but i wasn't . because if i am consciously aware about this, i wouldn't ever want to settle for less. especially with the worth of my love. i let it go.
then i met my leo who turned out to be my husband for 20+ years, i came to know what i want from my man and how he should be. i came to realize that i don't want a hanky-panky relationship, but something more serious. i remember when we were still in the courtship stage, i pushed him away so many times, but he insisted and proved that his love for me was real that's how i felt that he was the one for me. it took time for us to get there, all we had was a chance.
the purpose of every marriage or every relationships isn't just about so-called happiness as far as most people imagine, but it's all about self-discovery.
self-discovery that is.
i often see my leo dramatic and sometimes he's giving me a cold shoulder. he can be very impatient and so am i but our relationship will never grow if we continue to wait who'll take ownership with the tension that's built between us.
i've learned a lot from this relationship perhaps because i am eager to do so.
i often see my leo dramatic and sometimes he's giving me a cold shoulder. he can be very impatient and so am i but our relationship will never grow if we continue to wait who'll take ownership with the tension that's built between us.
i've learned a lot from this relationship perhaps because i am eager to do so.
..rather i love my leo to bits 🙂
hey i think my post doesn't suit the title of this thread.. hehe
hey i think my post doesn't suit the title of this thread.. hehe
Congratulations leoGirl75!
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"Promise u'll always be by me no matter the curcumstances,. That your love for me is real and you wont abuse me. I know I'm real and I want to get into you body, spirit & mind"
what can I make of this?..what's going through his mind.
Any comment from someone here?...thanks.