Question for Virgos

I think earth signs are pretty forward, straight to the point and don't beat around the bush when it comes to telling people how they are feeling about them. And I think Taurus takes the cake on this one, or maybe even on a par with Capricorn, but I don't see Virgo as straight forward as these two.

If you as a Virgo (being a very sensitive sign), find Taurus people straight forward, do you see this as a good quality or do you find this hurtful? Because I honestly do think Taurus do not always think about what they say, and it's not that they mean to hurt people, it's just their way.

I know from the other Taureans in my life, that they are very straight talking but don't mean to hurt anyone by their words. I have a few close Virgos in my life, and I'm very mindful about what I say to them because I find them very sensitive.

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ugh i so know what u mean actually its not taurus i have this problem with its really more capricorn. taurus i find are mostly the ones to not say anything hurtful but not lie and say something flattering, but instead just keeping there mouth shuts. but yes its sooo awkward when some1 says something hurtful even without that intention to somebody and im just left in the situation thining ummmmm.... this is awkward what do i say lol because usually its something i noticed about the person too but wasnt gonna say anything. and then they do and im just like hmm

From my experiences, Virgos are just very sarcastic with their straightforwardness--lending to the appearance that we may not be taking things seriously--but we know that if we don't laugh about it, we'll either cry or choke someone. In any event, the sarcasm is annoying, and rude--especially to those who don't know if we're joking or not.

Capricorns are more talkative/dreamy about their thoughts/feelings, there's a serious tone to what they say.

Taurus are very--just being truthful in how I feel--childish in how they speak the truth, in that they tend to blurt things out like a 3-year-old without thinking about how they may hurt whomever they're speaking to--but if you dare give them a taste of their own medicine, all hell breaks loose (but it proves to them, once you point out that you're just giving tit for tat, that they need to really stop with that sh.it, because it's not cute, and pushes a LOT of people away).

Posted by CLCNY30
From my experiences, Virgos are just very sarcastic with their straightforwardness--lending to the appearance that we may not be taking things seriously--but we know that if we don't laugh about it, we'll either cry or choke someone. In any event, the sarcasm is annoying, and rude--especially to those who don't know if we're joking or not.

Capricorns are more talkative/dreamy about their thoughts/feelings, there's a serious tone to what they say.

Taurus are very--just being truthful in how I feel--childish in how they speak the truth, in that they tend to blurt things out like a 3-year-old without thinking about how they may hurt whomever they're speaking to--but if you dare give them a taste of their own medicine, all hell breaks loose (but it proves to them, once you point out that you're just giving tit for tat, that they need to really stop with that sh.it, because it's not cute, and pushes a LOT of people away).

Bulls don't like confrontation and try keep the peace whenever they can. I do think they blurt things out but I don't think it's done maliciously ... if you can look at bulls in that light, you may have a better understanding and relationship with them.

^^^I definitely don't think it's done maliciously, I think it's just been a "say the first thing that comes to my mind" kind of mentality with the Taurus I've met. It became malicious when they were called on it, they quickly came back with unecessarily mean retorts that were just like woah...

Seriously, I think all 3 signs are blunt, and hurtful about it sometimes in their own ways.

Yes I must say that as a Virgo I am unfortunately very sensitive (they say that after the Water signs Virgo is the most sensitive) and I have noticed that "hurtful" is a word that Virgos (including myself) like to use. However I do not think that I am very sarcastic myself. My main Taurus experience has been with my father who is usually very tactful, but this may be because he knows that I am sensitive and he hates confrontations. With regard to Tauruses being blunt, my main experience of that has been with Taurus females who have made it clear that the reason that they did not want to enter into a relationship with me was because I did not have money.

Taurus's are usually honest, but in a blunt way. They can be pretty intimidating about it, though. You just have to learn not to take it personal. Taurus may not like confrontation, but I sure don't want to do battle with them. Something about their manner makes me feel they will just get mad. My old college roomate was Taurus and we knew she was mad when the foot got to tapping -- like a bull stomping the ground. You knew she was fixing to let someone have it! lol There are always warning signs.

Caps are direct in a more serious way and I get accused of saying things a little harsher than I meant, although I try to be sensitive to other peoples feelings. Sometimes it is interpretted different than what I meant. I'm always having to back up and explain. I sooo respect people that say "you just pissed me off" rather than get hurt and act all huffy. I want to be able to explain what I meant. And some jokes are so sarcastic people think I'm being mean, but I'm really only teasing or trying to kid around.

Virgos are more sensitive, but are also pretty honest about things. But I think they sugar coat a little more than the bulls and goats. Virgos aren't shy about letting you know what they think, though.

I think all three say what they mean and mean what they say, except there some obvious differences in how its done.

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