Should I back away?

I met a virgo man during a one year masters program in Europe. I always felt that he was attracted to me, we would chat sporadically and I would always walk away thinking how 'awkward'... wtf was that?

He would always get all weird, and awkward but I really didn't think anything of it or him. Fast forward to a month ago and the program is winding down, and the entire class is partying like crazy.

We run into each other at one of the Balls, and he shows up with his clique (somewhat mutual friends as we are in the same program) and opens the bottle of champagne in his hand, takes a gulp and asks me if I want some. Weird I thought, because I would think that he would offer the people he showed up with first versus me. They had queue jump tickets, so we end up meeting up inside and partying the night away together. He tells me he hadn't seen me in a while, goes and get me drinks, brings back grapes and feeds me some... hmmm.

The following week, I sent him a message on FB saying hi, and inquiring about his plans for the summer. We trade messages over a few days, and we run into each other again the night before I leave.

He shows up, stares, but doesn't approach me until the second club where he approaches me, toussels my hair and teases me on the fact that my flight was leaving at 7am the next morning, and I was out that late. Again we party, he is making crazy eye contact, and I'm like wth is going on here.

At the end of the night, I walk back to say goodbye to him, as I approach he grabs my arm, but one of my classmates who was standing next to him said goodbye first. So I exchanged pleasntrties with her, gives him a hug, and he says have a nice trip, so I tell him I will be back in August.

As my girls and I are heading to the taxi stand we run into him again, and I nonchalantly grab is arm and playfully ask if he's gonna make it home ok? He blushes, and says something intelligible.... I know he was surprised because his Dutch accent came out big time, and he turned beet red. The only reason why I grabbed his arm is because I wanted him to know it was cool, and i digged the fact the he grabbed my arm earlier.

I wait a few days, and I send him a message asking how he was and asking if he wanted to hang out 'sometime' when I return to the UK in August.... that was a week ago and no response.

Virgo men, or women who have been in a relationship with virgo men. Should I just back away completely? Could I have scared him away?

You're reading too much into this. Try relaxing a bit.

You haven't indicated any substantial information here that indicates in any way whether he's interested or not. As a matter of fact, it almost seems like you might've made the mistake we've all made in our lives and this is projecting/over-analyzing really simple cues, making it out to be something more than it really is. A lot of times, this occurs subconciously because we are simply emanating what we deeply feel and desire inside; for you, that is your attraction to him and your desire for him notice you. Hence, regardless how insubstantial his behaviors are, you will try to over validate them; and oftentimes when this happens, you cloud your jugdement and they also become very skewed. Which will make you suspicious over every little thing.

Take a step back and don't jump the gun so fast. One thing To know about Virgos is that they are highly in-tuned with human behaviors. If you're already projecting this kind of reaction, compulsive need for assurances, you will really peeve him out. Virgo is a very observant sign, allow him to see this instability and you are good as gone. Be calm and collected and you will see when he's comfortable with you ahd trusts you, nonquestions about it, you'll get your answer with no ambiguity.

You're reading too much into this. Try relaxing a bit.

You haven't indicated any substantial information here that indicates in any way whether he's interested or not. As a matter of fact, it almost seems like you might've made the mistake we've all made in our lives and this is projecting/over-analyzing really simple cues, making it out to be something more than it really is. A lot of times, this occurs subconciously because we are simply emanating what we deeply feel and desire inside; for you, that is your attraction to him and your desire for him notice you. Hence, regardless how insubstantial his behaviors are, you will try to over validate them; and oftentimes when this happens, you cloud your jugdement and they also become very skewed. Which will make you suspicious over every little thing.

Take a step back and don't jump the gun so fast. One thing To know about Virgos is that they are highly in-tuned with human behaviors. If you're already projecting this kind of reaction, compulsive need for assurances, you will really peeve him out. Virgo is a very observant sign, allow him to see this instability and you are good as gone. Be calm and collected and you will see when he's comfortable with you ahd trusts you, nonquestions about it, you'll get your answer with no ambiguity.

Yes I believe you are right. He did not express any specific interest directly to me however at the beginning of the term last year, his now bff invited a bunch of us out to dinner. In chatting with one of my classmates wives, she let it slip that he likes me.

I did not think anything of it as I was seeing someone long distance at the time. Every time I ran into her the 2nd or 3rd question out her mouth was if I was still with the guy.

We broke up in February, and sure enough she asked me again when she saw me, I run into her husband last month and the second question out of her mouth is if I am still single.

Nevertheless you are right. Although he may have found me attractive in the beginning, he never came out and expressed interest in me, there is nothing there. When I do see him when I return, I will play it cool.