Virgo men - What makes u feel secure —?

in a relationship—?

I have been with a 40y.o divorced virgo man for a year or so who shows me he cares in a million and one ways...by doing countless small unasked things all the time for me ....little less verbal though on his part and im just a mushy romantic Libran ,,, and yes it is very confusing...all the caring things he does for me he can do for other ppl close to him so sometimes its hard to differentiate that being part of his nature or if the caring things he does is peculiar to me..i guess i am asking if he cares in the romantic sense and what can i do to make him feel cared for and secure ...since he doesnt seem to like words so oo much and touchy feely expressions.... he said a man needs to feel secure—? and that i am not taking control of things —? what on virgo earth does that mean — virgo Libra relationship is so strange...but he is the most caring man ive ever gone out with in a while.... the thing is i think i show his i care and try to make him feel secure....at least the libran way 😉

Seconded on the reassurance part. We need to know the girl is always there, no matter what happens.

For me, I think above all I want/need to know the truth and where I stand. I have had a lot of trouble with my ex because she would tell me important things then later on deny that she said them or that what she said before was actually true or that she didn't remember saying it etc. I don't know whether this is some particular problem that she has or if women in general are like this but I found it very destructive to our relationship (together with her not being very adventurous in the bedroom over many years - if she had been that would have been reassuring as well!)

My Virgo needs the reassurance all the time, I dont have a problem letting him know that I will be by his side through good and bad. I think its sweet that they need the reassurance.🙂 Just give him lotz of love and show him how important he is to you.

Posted by TaurusBadGirl
My Virgo needs the reassurance all the time, I dont have a problem letting him know that I will be by his side through good and bad. I think its sweet that they need the reassurance.🙂 Just give him lotz of love and show him how important he is to you.

That's why I think taurus are so awesome.

What makes me feel secure in a relationship?

Im going to go with: Proof of her orgasms.

Posted by wgamador2
What makes me feel secure in a relationship?

Im going to go with: Proof of her orgasms.

Remind her to do her kegels everyday.those muscles never lie. 😉