SHOULD I BREAK UP?

MY BOYFRIEND OF 11 MONTHS (i am a cancer) went away for 1 week alone and happen to meet someone he has become smitten with (out of town). He comes back to town and tells me about it, breaks up with me, prides himself on being honest and wants me to be his "friend" now. I told him to hang up the phone when he called. I havent talked to him in two months - I am just so furious - why wasnt he honest with me before he went away - this has been so painful -
Because I refuse to talk to him or answer emails right after the breakup- he basically sends me a "good bye" email if he "never speaks to me again"...what am I dealing with here? Someone help me! He is a virgo.

Yes! Break up and you'll never be sorry!

THANKS - - I HOPE HE REALIZES WHAT HE LOST. BUT HE'S A BIG PLAYER AND WILL JUST KEEP PLAYING PEOPLE. YUK!

You should definately break up. I am a Virgo girl, but I don't understand Virgo boys! The sign is all about intelligence, but Virgo lads don't show any sign of that whatsoever, unlike us Virgo lasses !

uGH - -I know the sign is all about intelligence, but I always say -"knowledge is from college, wisdon is from God"! - and unfortuntately, he lacks much of wisdom and emotion. Good riddens to his "virgo" ass!

I feel for you and the pain that you feel inside because you were lied to and used. Virgo's, yes. I'm a female virgo. It is the sign of intellegence, yet we are so stupid as far as keeping lasting relationship's .I think he knows that he will never meet another lady like you and you need to be strong enough to just let him go and move on.
It is his mistake- not yours.

thanks - actually I am gay (cancer) man that fell in love with this virgo guy. The healing has been a very tough one for me - but still staying strong. Cancers have a hard time letting go, and it's to finally realize that I have to totally let go of someone I really did love.

I feel for you my friend. I'm a virgo lesbian who's suffering the loss of my Pisces girlfriend. She dumped me a few months back for someone else and it still hurts everyday because I was so much in love with her. I thought she felt the same way about me but gosh was I ever wrong. After a year I found out that I never meant anything to her. I still feel like she used me and that our relationship was all a lie.

Oh - I am so sorry - I know how you must feel..I'm surprised that a Pisces would do such a thing. My virgo guy I think really does still love me, but he is just confused, and I'm not waiting around for him to figure it all out.
Go on with your life sunshine -take time to heal ..it's soooo hard, I know, but be strong.

I am a virgo male and I would have to say dump the loser its not that he is a virgo is just that he is immature and needs to grow up. If he is an adult then he is still playing childish games.

To those of you that disrespect virgo males, you can KISS MY ASS!

Here is my two cents worth...yes, he hurt you, but he was being completely honest about it. Would you have prefered for him to hide it and be dishonest about his feelings? It may be too painful for you to consider him as you a friend right now, but think about it from another perspective. I would rather have a honest friend than a dishonest lover!

Well, we certainly have come a long way since January. We have rekindled a friendship on a small scale. Step by step. I realize that he is immature, and has much "growing up" to do on his own. I emotionally have moved on and beyond all the hurt and anger since my first email. But, when I do leave him after seeing him, he has that sad, puppy dog look in his eye, with almost a disappointing look, which makes me smile. Hmmm....I wonder?

...perhaps the grass isn't always greener?

Alot time the grass isn't greener but it may be softer and it may feel alot better then what you have now.

This can very true, yes.