Is my VIRGO man a player?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Guest on Monday, July 17, 2000 and has 9 replies.

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@Guest
21 Years1,000+ Posts

My VIRGO man says he loves to be with
me but he still wants to be single. He lives 1 1/2 away from me and I see hem
on Sat. night/Sundays only. He goes out
during week. I love him but it hurts...

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@Guest
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Girl, he proably likes you but, wants to have his cake and eat it too. My brother is a virgo and I'am a virgo and we like to have that special someone but like to go out and do our dirt and expect that person to take what we dish out. Basically, saying make sure you do what you have to do so your heart will not be hurt.

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@Guest
21 Years1,000+ Posts

girlie, im to a virgo and my opinion for u is dont get to hooked up on this guy,as a virgo i too like to be with someone but have a very very bad cheating problem..i have a problem of liking a variety of sex partners and like to explore i like my partner to ok with this 2.

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@Guest
21 Years1,000+ Posts

girlie, im to a virgo and my opinion for u is dont get to hooked up on this guy,as a virgo i too like to be with someone but have a very very bad cheating problem..i have a problem of liking a variety of sex partners and like to explore i like my partner to ok with this 2, and if he's not its bye bye..

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21 Years10,000+ Posts

Possibly. Maybe your Virgo is afraid of commitment, and feels more comfortable with coming and going as he pleases. Put your foot down, and tell him straight out that you don't want a part-time relationship. If he doesn't budge, tell him he's history!

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@Alana
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Hey unregistered.....OK so your virgo guy goes out during the week and you would like to see him more - so you have to play the game kid!!! YOu have got to become "slightly unavailable" and develop a bit of mystery about you (Not saying that you haven't already but just saying - don't become too dependend on anyone)!

So, why so down....why don't YOU go out during the week too....have a whale of a time, if you know what I mean...at the weekend when you see your virgo guy you tell him all your adventures that happened during the week...make it as exciting as hell (even if it isn't).....tell him the outrageous clubs you went to, the guys you had to beat off......make him jealous as hell.....and if you can, just for once, say you can't see him for one weekend.....you're going somewhere fantastic for girly weekend away.....you've got to get yourself "a file":-)

Let him do the chasing, the ringing, the everything for a while - make him "work" to get to see you!:-)

Chin up lady:-) Start manufacturing what you got to manufacture:-)

Alana x