The Virgo Stare...what's it all about? Alfie

I've caught my VirGuy staring a lot at me lately. Are our eyes bumping accidentally or is he working something out?

HELP!

Catfish36

Dystr8z,

I've caught him in brief side glances but this was a major, deer in the head lights stare.

Thanks D.

Catfish

Dystr8z,

I've been away from the bar scene for a while but you are right. He has been doing the "eye" thing more lately, especially last Friday. Today, there was an unmistakable intensity about it. I've felt this before when I saw him sing and play guitar for the first time last summer. I could swear he was singing directly to me. There was no one between us, well, Married guy was sitting next to me. Married Guy told me later that I was mistaken and he wasn't singing to me. However, the experience was so overwhelming to the point where I could no longer look at him. I had to bury my head in Married Guy's back. It stripped me to me my soul. I couldn't even bring myself to tears - it went beyond that. OK, it sounds corny.

I sense his insecurity at times, that's when I am very gentle with him. I don't ignore him, just maintain a respectful distance. Normally, I am the initiator but for once i would like the MAN to take the helm. I am in no rush. I am older than him so I have my own set of insecurities.

I am breathing deeply...not getting overly anxious...

Catfish36

where have u ben Dyr?!?! uve ben missed🙂

too grand for words 🙂

Dyrstr8z,

The music "thang" is so strong between us. It's a deepest connection we have. As I say, M used to give me money all the time to play the jukebox. He would say "play me something mid-range by the Black Crowes", then I'd play the exact song he was thinking of. This was/is constantly happening with us. It freaked me out the longest time, but I am used to it by now, yet, it can take me a back sometimes. When the storm btw. us finally passed, when fell right in sync again. It's not just music either...anything having to do with the arts.

BTW, I love that Stones song.

Thanks again D. You've really made my night.

Catfish36

Dyrstr8z,

Reading your posts reinforces my love for you guys. You sound giddy when you write about her. Virgos don't always dial direct but when they get your number - WHAM!
OK, so I should I lead in this dance? We don't live near one another. Now, unfortunately, is not the best time. I have to travel next week - leaving for Fl. from May 6-12. I have to figure out how I am going to ease into this. Or do I just grab. I mean, he's rail thin but has the cutest butt.

Catfish36

Dyrstr8z,

You've given this Lioness a little more courage than she had before. Thank you for your insight and directness. Off to bed to dream sweetly...

Ciao Bello D.

Catfish36

Dyrstr8z:

The Stare? If you get the stare from them after a couple of months and it last at least 5 seconds but felt way longer, does that mean anything? There was already a beginning stage and other stages and now it has been two months and the stare came and I felt weak at my knees. It was overpowering. My Virguy has me hooked and I can't get over these feelings for him and then he watches me and then the stare we had with each other is way too much for me. I want him and I felt he wanted me but I don't know what happened in the first place to stop us from going forward so is there anything to that or not?

Oh, I'm glad things are going good with your Scorpio women.