This is the man I'm thinking about. We are both Virgo sun/cancer moon/ Libra in Venus. My rising is Aquarius. Our other planets are pretty much the same just switched around (his Mars is Leo, which is my Mercury and cusp; his rising is Taurus, which is my Mars). I live in Florida and he emailed me off a dating website from California. He's 42 and I'm 37. He told me that he's from near my area, is thinking about moving back and would if our chemistry supports it. I said, ok, when are you coming to take me out? He immediately made plans for 5 weeks from that date to fly to Florida to meet me. We were in communication by email nearly every day during that time, and he called me a few times a. I was honored that he wanted to meet me enough to fly cross country for 3 days and I was looking forward to him coming. He planned to rent a car and stay with a friend, his suggestion which I thought was respectful. We liked each other and he told me twice in emails that he thought I am amazing. If a Gemini said that I wouldn't think twice about it, but this is coming from a man whose astrology would tell me he really meant it . So about 13-15 days before his flight I don't hear from him for 3 days. Now I know 3 days is nothing, but when we were communicating every day, it seemed like an eternity. When I got an email from him it was 3 short lines. I was like whats up with this? And my mind started to wander...I was busy and kind of confused and didn't return his email for 4 days. When I sent it, he called right away, but I missed his call and he didn't leave a message. He called the next night and left a message to call him back that night, but I was already asleep. I called him back the following day and he told me that he had cancelled his trip that morning because he thought I wasn't interested! OMG! Really??!?! It had only been a week since he had heard from me and the first half was because he went MIA. We talked it though, both apologized for the misunderstanding, and we went on to have another great conversation. He was already planning another trip to Florida to visit his family 7 weeks later and said that we would meet then and that he was still looking forward to spending time with me and getting to know me. Ok, sucks. I can be patient to let a relationship evolve slowly, but we haven't even met yet. I told him that we don't know what things will be like when we're face to face and if it's good, we'll figure it out.
