Relationship Anaylsis? (Cancer F + Virgo M)

I'm a cancer with a moon in libra (june 25th) and my bf is a virgo with a moon in capricorn (august 25th).

We started going out last summer. It was great, but we were still getting to know each other. After a time of no communication, I got depressed and things weren't working out so we broke up after about 2 months. A few days later a capricorn male told me that my virgo and my libra friend were going out. I was in a state of shock and betrayal. I asked both of them and they admitted it was true. My libran friend asked if they should still go out and I felt bad so said it didn't matter to me. They only lasted for about a month when the libra was tired of his shyness. Then the virgo went out with another libra - the first libra's friend. She was crazy about him but he wasn't as into it. They broke up after about a month or so. After about six months since our breakup, we were still friends and on good terms. (This was all after I stopped crying over him. I guess my cancer clingyness refused to let go.) Then he asked me out in february and we've been going out since. However, my best friend - a scorpio girl (libra moon also) - has had a crush on my virgo ever since she met him. She was kind of crushed when she found out we were going out at first but didn't mind for my sake. When we broke up and I was a wreck she hated him even though still crushing on him. I'm simply terrified to tell her about our secret relationship. I pulled an april fools joke on her where I said he asked me out and she simply freaked at the idea of it.
Thoughts? Opinions?

A funny thing I noticed in these forums was some of the relationship things I read about virgos and cancers. It talked about how in a workplace for example they may have a secret relationship to keep things dangerous and would keep flirting to a minimal. That's how things are with us - secret relationship. Also, it said that rape scenes turn on male virgos where the girl rapes the guy - 1000000% true for my virgo.

(whoever was willing to read this much I thank you for your boredom.)

I see more crying over him in your future....

Posted by tiki33
I see more crying over him in your future....

Explain please?

He dated your friend, that says a lot about what kind of person he is and on top of that your relationship now has to be a secret that's not a good idea....You will cry more over this one because for some odd reason him dating your friend was not a deal breaker and most likely should have been a deal breaker....Any man that comes between friends can't be all that great.

I am crying over a Virgo right now and I am a Cancer too. They are tough to figure out, and at 6 months I wonder if you've gotten to know the real him yet. They take a long time to open up, and we cancers crave that closeness that they often cannot give right off the bat, if ever. Also, he seems like he cannot make up his mind... Why is he so into dating in this same circle of girls? That would be hard for me, knowing that he might see one of my friends and leave me for her.

He sure is making his rounds. What is so great about this guy, that you could date him again after he dated one of your friends? And for the record it is nobody's business who you date and with the friends you have I wouldnt trust them with a bag of doo doo. Is this guy the last guy left in your town or what?!

Posted by tiki33
He dated your friend, that says a lot about what kind of person he is and on top of that your relationship now has to be a secret that's not a good idea....You will cry more over this one because for some odd reason him dating your friend was not a deal breaker and most likely should have been a deal breaker....Any man that comes between friends can't be all that great.

How did he come between friends?

Too many people involved. How come he dates your friends, your friend has a crush on him and you can't tell her you two have gone back together...It seems too much fuss. They guy probably loves being the center of admiration of all of you...ego boost!!!

but I don't think in the long run this will be good for you, being emotional as Cancers are..it will definitely impact on your feelings and I agree more tears will come..search for a fresh guy out of that circle!!
I know, easier said than done....

I just can't believe your "friends" are acting like that and even going as far as to tell you they want him. I'm sure his ego is boosted x10 since he knows you and all your friends want him. I don't know I thought Virgo was a good match but this guy is too immature ugh. Strange how all your friends have Libra influences. Hm.