ughrrrr! what does this virgo man want————

if a virgo man observes u all the time in public even if he stares at u.. and u feel like that every piece of u and every word out of ur mouth is being analyzed and given an immense attention.. it feels like he adores u.. and then sometimes he tries to insult u in front of other ppl like he is taking some kind of revenge.. and that he has some kind of grudge against u which he was holding for so long.. and u get the negative vibes.. and u feel humiliated...

what all this means? he hates me? he likes me? or both? or what else? im really confused and a bit irritated by this strange behavior.. as far as im concerned im not interested in this guy. i never noticed him before.. we are just colleagues.. but i really want to know what is causing him to behave like this.. i never did anything intentionally if i ever did it. i just dont want to get such response from anyone ,, which is so unexpected and leaves me thinking like am i guilty or something? did i do something wrong with that person etc etc

virgos are known for being overly critical.

But he might like you, it kinda sounds like he does

sounds a lot like what i went through with a virgo guy. he was very kind, gave subtle compliments, did that cute little smile thing, and of course, the stare. at the time, i didn't think much of it because i thought he was just being nice. then it seemed on occasion, he'd resort to criticizing me and finding faults that didn't exist. he'd walk away with that angry look on his face and go sulk. it was the craziest thing. i recall wondering if he was bipolar. he wasn't, but man they can do that "i now am pissed at you" act on a dime. then the next day, it's as if nothing ever happened.

now this was a long time ago. i was young, a bit naive, and certainly didn't realize what the signs are of someone falling for you. however, now i realize that what he was doing was displaying attraction for me with the compliments etc., smiles and stares. Guys will do stuff as this, and then realize they've being doing this and freak out because they don't want you to realize they are attracted to you. So that's when they kick in the criticizing or getting upset with you for reasons that make little sense. it's they're way of protecting their image, ego and heart; basically it's self preservation. They do this because of the uncertainty of knowing how you feel about them. It's the fear of rejection thing.

If you're not interested in this guy at all, just be yourself and don't give him any signs of being attracted to him. IE: the same things he's shown you.
If he continues to criticize, just ignore him, period. any time you give him your attention, he will take it as you being interested. I'm not saying be a jerk to him. just do your job and concentrate on that, not him. in time, he will realize you are not interested. most guys will back off after time, unless they are obsessed. guys hate rejection. so for him, it will be easier to walk away than make a move, only to be rejected face to face.

hope this helps.

Sounds like a Virgo in love. I get extreme emotions like that when strong feelings are in play. It's probably not so nice at times but it does mean real emotions are involved, if the virgo is only mildly interested then it means he isn't really into you.

gemini64, possibly because before these Virgos have been hurt. I've been in this sort of "unconditional love" situation before twice and both times it ended badly. It's an extremely uneasy and unnerving feeling when you're so into someone.

Posted by sv
gemini64, possibly because before these Virgos have been hurt. I've been in this sort of "unconditional love" situation before twice and both times it ended badly. It's an extremely uneasy and unnerving feeling when you're so into someone.

i agree with you SV. back in the day, i just thought the virgo doing these weird things involving me was a nut case. now i understand, and almost laugh about how naive i was at the time. maybe it was a blessing in disguise.

the other factor that probably made it very hard on him was that he was already in a relationship. so it was both the emotional attachment and desiring something you can't have. if something like that happened today, i would have handled it differently. you know the whole wisdom thing.....

btw, in your reply to the OP telling her that her virgo was probably in love, thus showing these signs etc., does love come on fast and furious for you guys or take a long time? if that love is not reciprocated, does it make you angry, almost despise the affection of your unrequited love for a long time?

If he's staring he likes you. The bitchiness might be because he feels like youre ignoring him or just not responding how he'd like.

Posted by sv
Sounds like a Virgo in love. I get extreme emotions like that when strong feelings are in play. It's probably not so nice at times but it does mean real emotions are involved, if the virgo is only mildly interested then it means he isn't really into you.

kinda like this maybe...

Can I have Virgy's opinion on this Gemini64 question here?:

does love come on fast and furious for you guys or take a long time? if that love is not reciprocated, does it make you angry, almost despise the affection of your unrequited love for a long time?

Thanks for directly answers 🙂

I second that. Been waiting very patiently for a male virgo's response to my previous question. I know virgo's sometimes move slow, but I think waiting patiently for 5 months is long enough. 😉

btw, i ran into this virgo male last spring. he did the same crap, starring, a couple of small compliments, but a handful of passive aggressive comments and subtle criticisms. this time around i was not young and naive. i told him to stop his passive aggressive crap and to take his criticism and shove 'em where the sun don't shine. pretty much ended our conversation right then and there. and you know what? it felt damn good. should have done it years ago.

Posted by Stares
Can I have Virgy's opinion on this Gemini64 question here?:

does love come on fast and furious for you guys or take a long time? if that love is not reciprocated, does it make you angry, almost despise the affection of your unrequited love for a long time?

Thanks for directly answers 🙂

Not me but I hear it happens often and I have a virgo friend who up and randomly married a woman out of no where. so i'll go with yes to all the above. but sometimes virgos just like to fuck with people they like to study their reactions.

Posted by gemini64

Been waiting very patiently for a male virgo's response to my previous question. I know virgo's sometimes move slow, but I think waiting patiently for 5 months is long enough.

huh?

Sounds like you have the notorious doormatism.

If you'd wait 5 months in the dark, then you don't have much self-value .... in which case, your only purpose is to be abused, according to your own actions.

Posted by P-Angel

Posted by gemini64

Been waiting very patiently for a male virgo's response to my previous question. I know virgo's sometimes move slow, but I think waiting patiently for 5 months is long enough.

huh?

Sounds like you have the notorious doormatism.

If you'd wait 5 months in the dark, then you don't have much self-value .... in which case, your only purpose is to be abused, according to your own actions.

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Oh give me a break. that was a joke. you have zero sense of humor. all you seem to know is attack, attack and attack. even during Christmas season, you can't refrain from being a total hag.

Yea, I don't have any self value....um ok. I've been happily married for 15 years, have two awesome 12 year old boys, and have a very successful career in the medical field. But hey, you're much smarter than I am, right?

You know what's even more hilarious is that it's been a long time since I ventured over to this site. someone brought up this old thread and i found it amusing, so i added my two cents. you OTOH, practically live in this world of make believe. What the hell would you do with your life if you couldn't live to berate other people on this board? I've always found people who live to criticize others are the most insecure, self absorbed people on the planet. It must be rough being infallible as you, P.

Thank God my low self worth and my pitiful family have better things to do then hang here 24/7 criticizing the sh*t out of every one.

Have a Merry Christmas Grinch!