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virgo anger
I agree. We take and take and take, all the while making a mental note of everything you ever did to us. Eventually, we get to the point of "I've had enough". In my experience the other person seems to be totally unaware of anything. LOL I don't know, maybe it's just the people I end up with. LOL I'm more of a "cut you out of my life" person when that happens. I've never been to the rage point. I think it would be more of a screwing your life up if I can type of thing. (ex. telling your secrets, little things that cause problems)
I do agree we take note when everything is done like we writing a diary and when we end that chapter we wont go back no matter how the person pleads... That's how i am in a relationship i will watch u go on and on and on give u warnings maybe... but when i felt like you've done enough..im a monster child and you can win or cross me again i will never give you the opportunity to..
i'm a second decan virgo (sep 9th) and i'm a monster when i'm mad. watch out for flying objects xD n though im pretty frail health wise, i get this massive surge of strength when im furious. rawr :3 ..im so leo in this aspect. but i have my mars in gemini.. hence the razor sharp tongue. n till abt a year back, i was quick to anger...now im docile n far from being easily provoked. but when i am..it gets ugly.
Posted by VIRGIE
I agree. We take and take and take, all the while making a mental note of everything you ever did to us. Eventually, we get to the point of "I've had enough". In my experience the other person seems to be totally unaware of anything. LOL I don't know, maybe it's just the people I end up with. LOL I'm more of a "cut you out of my life" person when that happens. I've never been to the rage point. I think it would be more of a screwing your life up if I can type of thing. (ex. telling your secrets, little things that cause problems)
so Virgie, do you think you act this way because you are a virgo, or do you think it has to do with being a female? just curious because as you, I have taken and taken etc. from several family members and two friends who have done so much to undermine our relationships over the course of over 25 years.
I am probably one of the most giving persons you'd ever meet. I always go the extra mile, even if it means that I lose out in the long run. I don't do things for reciprocation; i do things for those i care about because that's just me. My mother was a very giving as well. I enjoy making people smile and know they are apprecaited. Often, however, my efforts go unappreciated.
This has been the case with my In-laws (have done so much for them, i could write a book, including financial help). they couldn't spell the word "tact" let alone demonstrate it once in a while. Although I have two boys, their only grandsons, we have basically stopped "doing" for them and moved on. I also had a friend in HS (was my tennis double's partner). I did so much for her because she was very naive etc. Throughout the years, she's taken what I did for her and turned it around to use against me. Recently she stabbed me in the back by fabricating total lies about me to a mutual friend that we both have known since HS; someone i totally revere and he knows this. I'm done with her, period.
So you see, you and I have similar issues, but don't share the same sign. So do you think it's because we're female that we take things more personal? Or is it because we both share mercury? I don't know. I don't want to change because of a few bad apples. But even just typing this, it pisses me off thinking about these people. and lord knows they aren't worth that.
Completely agree. You will never meet a more dangerous kind than when you take advantage of, lie to, break a promise, disrespect, or try to control a virgo. that being said, people say scorpios and taurus are the two worst to piss off, id beg to differ. the difference is we take it out on ourselves too, doing a moral, mental, and emotional inventory and come out one hundred percent stronger. it is because of this reflection that makes us so dangerous, once you are out, you will get torn to pieces and never be welcome back
Posted by gemini64Posted by VIRGIE
I agree. We take and take and take, all the while making a mental note of everything you ever did to us. Eventually, we get to the point of "I've had enough". In my experience the other person seems to be totally unaware of anything. LOL I don't know, maybe it's just the people I end up with. LOL I'm more of a "cut you out of my life" person when that happens. I've never been to the rage point. I think it would be more of a screwing your life up if I can type of thing. (ex. telling your secrets, little things that cause problems)click to expand
so Virgie, do you think you act this way because you are a virgo, or do you think it has to do with being a female? just curious because as you, I have taken and taken etc. from several family members and two friends who have done so much to undermine our relationships over the course of over 25 years.
I am probably one of the most giving persons you'd ever meet. I always go the extra mile, even if it means that I lose out in the long run. I don't do things for reciprocation; i do things for those i care about because that's just me. My mother was a very giving as well. I enjoy making people smile and know they are apprecaited. Often, however, my efforts go unappreciated.
This has been the case with my In-laws (have done so much for them, i could write a book, including financial help). they couldn't spell the word "tact" let alone demonstrate it once in a while. Although I have two boys, their only grandsons, we have basically stopped "doing" for them and moved on. I also had a friend in HS (was my tennis double's partner). I did so much for her because she was very naive etc. Throughout the years, she's taken what I did for her and turned it around to use against me. Recently she stabbed me in the back by fabricating total lies about me to a mutual friend that we both have known since HS; someone i totally revere and he knows this. I'm done with her, period.
So you see, you and I have similar issues, but don't share the same sign. So do you think it's because we're female that we take things more personal? Or is it because we both share mercury? I don't know. I don't want to change because of a few bad apples. But even just typing this, it pisses me off thinking about these people. and lord knows they aren't worth t
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