Virgo guy driving me absolutely insane!

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capricornus87
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12 Years

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Omg, everytime I think I have this guy figured out, he suprises me
again and again and it's getting so frustrating.

So here's the story:

Met the guy about 2 months ago at a social gathering,
and noticing him staring and gazing at me when he didn't think I would notice
him doing it. I fell for him right there and then, and his "I can read your soul
stare". After that I saw him on numerous occasions, always staring but too shy and
reserved to make a move on me. So I decided to send him a fb message, asking about him
and just talking everyday stuff, figured I had to make the move since he wasn't gonna do
it in a nearby future. He did actullay reply to my messages, but only with 1-2 sentences
and a smile, sometimes he did not reply at all, which made me confused if he like me at all
or only play games. Met him again at a gathering about 2 weeks ago, and he was super shy,
could barely say hello and did not look me in the eyes, and was ignoring me. It made me
again sad and confused since we talked a lot on fb.

I decided to be honest with him and wrote him a message saying that I was sorry that I did
not speak to him more on the last time we met, and that I was shy. After that he writes a
long message (longer than ever before), asking questions, complementing me and being really sweet.
So we started to write to each other again, but after some time he's messages gets shorter again
and I have to do all the asking and keeping the communication flowing.

He's pushing/pulling makes me really confused, seems to me like he is interested in me, but still I have do everything to make it happen, I really want it work, don't want to let him go yet.

/confused cappy
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miamivirgo
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13 Years500+ Posts

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Oh he's in love with you and he thinks your magical and so scared that you'll leave him before you two have a chance to start that he's terrified.

Keep meeting him at public places and arrange to be places he is and he'll get more confident and then watchout if the tables turn my Cappy girl, Virgo men and Cappy women are all deep emotional connections.

You two may end up in a very very long relationship.
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gemini64
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what you are describing is the Virgo Male Paradigm when involving someone of the opposite sex they admire/attracted to.

I'm sure some of the Virgo guys on this board will chime in on their own time.

One thing to remember....Virgo men take a long time to determine if you are worth going for. They have to size up your qualities and see if it meets their criteria. And then they take a long time to make the move.

When they make a move, if they sense any rejection or uncomfortable feelings which they can't understand, it's takes them a long time to analyze their feelings and put them into proper order. Once they have that, they will decide to make a serious move for you or move on. That's been my experience with every Virgo male I've known in a dating experience.

The key to Virgo men over everything else is PATIENCE. If you are like me and have a patience quota, then virgo men will drive you crazy. They are analytical to the core. They have emotions, but unlike you and I, are not ones to emote. Therefore it's hard to read them sometimes. They will be open to you when they are ready.

Good luck. You'll need it. 😉
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lftybklyn
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12 Years

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BTW, that stare must be a Virgo "thing" because I see it every single day from my Virgo man. I guess all I can say is you'll get used to it. Sometimes it'll make you feel like you want to fall to your knees and beg them to stop, but you'd miss it if they did. Stay strong and enjoy it. Close your eyes and let it burn though you on the rough days. Sometimes it will be all you'll have to stay sane. I'm totally with you, but honestly, I wouldn't have it any other way. I'm totally smitten by my Virgo man and I'm learning to take the good with the "bad," which is never really all that bad. Just confusing as hell.