VIRGO ladies please help. I will make this short and condensed. Met this VIRGO lady with celestial beauty and asked her out. We date for 3 weeks. During this time she is textig me all kinds of DEEP mushy texts like shes falling for me. She even text that exact statement by th way. Anyway she goes on and on about how wonderful i am and that i am so good to her and shes never been treated so well. SO i fall to head over heals and madd crazy for her. She invites me to meet her family i spend the night with her a couple of times and then suddenly like a freaken light switch shes moving in reverse at light speed. wont text me, she might teturn a text once a week if im lucky. im freaken out wondering what the heck have i done. I ask her why wont she talk to me why wont she go out with me again and she replies shes terrified of getting to close and getting hurt. GET this the first time i spent th night she had to stop us from going to the next level then the second time i spent the night i had to stop us fromgoing to far. WHY you ask— I did it just to prove to her shes more than a fling to me. Now shes gone . My question is this [1] how long do i wait? [2] do i wait at all? [3] can any of you VIRGO ladies enlighten me as to what the heck just happened. I have never been thru this in my 41 years. I have never been so cut off without any dialogue hardly. With me being a GEMINI its practically torture to me. I have no closure what so ever here and its torment on a daily basis LOL. THanks so much to all of you for your replies. Im willing to wait because this lady is stunningly beautiful and the Virgo love is worth waiting for from what i read.
VIRGO HEART BREAK How long should i wait
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VIRGO ladies please help. I will make this short and condensed. Met this VIRGO lady with celestial beauty and asked her out. We date for 3 weeks. During this time she is textig me all kinds of DEEP mushy texts like shes falling for me. She even text that exact statement by th way. Anyway she goes on and on about how wonderful i am and that i am so good to her and shes never been treated so well. SO i fall to head over heals and madd crazy for her. She invites me to meet her family i spend the night with her a couple of times and then suddenly like a freaken light switch shes moving in reverse at light speed. wont text me, she might teturn a text once a week if im lucky. im freaken out wondering what the heck have i done. I ask her why wont she talk to me why wont she go out with me again and she replies shes terrified of getting to close and getting hurt. GET this the first time i spent th night she had to stop us from going to the next level then the second time i spent the night i had to stop us fromgoing to far. WHY you ask— I did it just to prove to her shes more than a fling to me. Now shes gone . My question is this [1] how long do i wait? [2] do i wait at all? [3] can any of you VIRGO ladies enlighten me as to what the heck just happened. I have never been thru this in my 41 years. I have never been so cut off without any dialogue hardly. With me being a GEMINI its practically torture to me. I have no closure what so ever here and its torment on a daily basis LOL. THanks so much to all of you for your replies. Im willing to wait because this lady is stunningly beautiful and the Virgo love is worth waiting for from what i read.
whats the chemistry like between you and what is it about her that's different? we are very deep people and see a lot more than most people. sometimes too much or too persistent is a turn off. patience my dear. things might have moved on a little more quickly than she was ready for. we can definitely turnthe cold shoulder when no longer interested or if its too much too soon. not intentionally most of the time. for me, if its not there, its not there. i move on. if directly asked i will definitely tell someone why, in a nice way.
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