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Virgo Housemate Stuck in my Head
Hahahaha 😆 Yeah, we're not all neatfreaks. Not at all.
Can I ask you, what is it about her that you think is kind of pulling you in her direction?
I mean, you've mentioned she's dating...are you? Sometimes when you're not actively out there and searching, yet wanting a companion, you kind of turn left and right and choose someone around you (out of laziness, perhaps desperation) that you normally would not go for.
Or, is it something more? That's what I'm trying to figure out. It seems you have a love/hate relationship with her (honestly, all the Scorps I know are the same with me, we can love each other on Monday and be hissing at each other on Tuesday, but I like them...then again, I have a Scorp rising...)
Can you give me a little list of reasons why you like her? You've given a list of things you don't like, I'd like to see the pro's now, lol.
Can I ask you, what is it about her that you think is kind of pulling you in her direction?
I mean, you've mentioned she's dating...are you? Sometimes when you're not actively out there and searching, yet wanting a companion, you kind of turn left and right and choose someone around you (out of laziness, perhaps desperation) that you normally would not go for.
Or, is it something more? That's what I'm trying to figure out. It seems you have a love/hate relationship with her (honestly, all the Scorps I know are the same with me, we can love each other on Monday and be hissing at each other on Tuesday, but I like them...then again, I have a Scorp rising...)
Can you give me a little list of reasons why you like her? You've given a list of things you don't like, I'd like to see the pro's now, lol.
The neat freaks I've met have mostly been Gemini, and Aquarius
Actually, that isn't accurate ... Virgos can be neat, organized .. but, usually dirty. Tidy dust
Actually, that isn't accurate ... Virgos can be neat, organized .. but, usually dirty. Tidy dust
Life is about experiencing .... nothing is suppose to last forever, except that you're suppose to want to have the memory of life experiencs that are lasting to be good ones, and not bitter ones.
Go for it, for now, in the moment ... and ride the rush as long as it lasts.
There's only one thing you need to keep in mind, actually all people need to keep this in mind, for it's the answer to all their relationship problems .......
..... the things you tolerate/overlook so a relationship can happen against your gut that tells you it's wrong, are the very things you will use later against them when the relation has run it's course and you look for something to hurt them with. They will fight to a bitter end .... fight .... to a bitter end.
Avoiding that ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ is the road best taken, by having the view that life is about experiencing, ride with it as long as it lasts, and walk away BEFORE a bitter end. Walk away while the smile is still on your face.
Enjoy, and buy some gloves .... looks like you have a lot of dishes to do daily.
Go for it, for now, in the moment ... and ride the rush as long as it lasts.
There's only one thing you need to keep in mind, actually all people need to keep this in mind, for it's the answer to all their relationship problems .......
..... the things you tolerate/overlook so a relationship can happen against your gut that tells you it's wrong, are the very things you will use later against them when the relation has run it's course and you look for something to hurt them with. They will fight to a bitter end .... fight .... to a bitter end.
Avoiding that ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ is the road best taken, by having the view that life is about experiencing, ride with it as long as it lasts, and walk away BEFORE a bitter end. Walk away while the smile is still on your face.
Enjoy, and buy some gloves .... looks like you have a lot of dishes to do daily.
Posted by CLCNY30
Hahahaha 😆 Yeah, we're not all neatfreaks. Not at all.
Can I ask you, what is it about her that you think is kind of pulling you in her direction?
I mean, you've mentioned she's dating...are you? Sometimes when you're not actively out there and searching, yet wanting a companion, you kind of turn left and right and choose someone around you (out of laziness, perhaps desperation) that you normally would not go for.
Or, is it something more? That's what I'm trying to figure out. It seems you have a love/hate relationship with her (honestly, all the Scorps I know are the same with me, we can love each other on Monday and be hissing at each other on Tuesday, but I like them...then again, I have a Scorp rising...)
Can you give me a little list of reasons why you like her? You've given a list of things you don't like, I'd like to see the pro's now, lol.
Actualy that's a good point. I'm not actively searching for anyone... maybe it's just because she's there? Then again due to generally being busy in other areas of my life I've never 'actively searched' before... just waited to see what happens, and this seems like one of those things that could 'just happen'.
It's wierd I actually have to think longer about her good points than her bad points! A sign perhaps? Anyway she's probably the most interesting person I know, in terms of what she does and how she thinks. I swear ideas come out her head at a mile a minute. She has a habit of being incredibly cute without really trying, and we met at the same course at university so we have some stuff in common. When she's at her best she can actually make me feel comfortable... at ease with myself. (pretty damn difficult for me)
Anyhow, it's only been decided today but in a week I'll be moving out to a cheaper place... so having a bit of space from her might bring fresh perspective.
Ah, okay--that's a bit more to go on 🙂
Hmmm...this can be interpreted in different ways--one could argue that you're kind of being...smacked together by fate, lmfao. Same course, same living space, and she makes you feel comfortable with yourself--which you mentioned is hard for you.
Here's the thing...we do that, lol. Just at work, alone, I've had a Capricorn female whisper to me that she has never been able to be as carefree around someone else as she can with me. I had a Leo male admit that he loves that he can say anything to me, and I'll either add to it or laugh at it, rather than get upset or be appalled. We stress ourselves out enough, when we're around friends we try to relax as much as possible or it'll just seem like MORE work for us to stress over. We're goofy, and dirty-minded (dirty jokers). We also have a way of making people want to confess things to us, almost like a therapist that doesn't charge, lol. So if it helps, that's just a quality about the sign, not so much a quality about her--don't be fooled by the smooth!
It's nice that you'll be moving out on your own, I think it'll do you much good. Do remember, however, that if you pursue a relationship with her you'll still have to put up with the same untidiness you're putting up with now.
My advice would be to date. Get out there, give others a try, and if you and her are meant to be the opportunity will still be there later. You want to make sure you won't regret not venturing out before settling on her.
Hmmm...this can be interpreted in different ways--one could argue that you're kind of being...smacked together by fate, lmfao. Same course, same living space, and she makes you feel comfortable with yourself--which you mentioned is hard for you.
Here's the thing...we do that, lol. Just at work, alone, I've had a Capricorn female whisper to me that she has never been able to be as carefree around someone else as she can with me. I had a Leo male admit that he loves that he can say anything to me, and I'll either add to it or laugh at it, rather than get upset or be appalled. We stress ourselves out enough, when we're around friends we try to relax as much as possible or it'll just seem like MORE work for us to stress over. We're goofy, and dirty-minded (dirty jokers). We also have a way of making people want to confess things to us, almost like a therapist that doesn't charge, lol. So if it helps, that's just a quality about the sign, not so much a quality about her--don't be fooled by the smooth!
It's nice that you'll be moving out on your own, I think it'll do you much good. Do remember, however, that if you pursue a relationship with her you'll still have to put up with the same untidiness you're putting up with now.
My advice would be to date. Get out there, give others a try, and if you and her are meant to be the opportunity will still be there later. You want to make sure you won't regret not venturing out before settling on her.
Thanks for the advice guys! I think I will play the long game, get out there, and see how I feel later.
Now if you'll excuse me I have some kitchen countertops to sandblast.
Now if you'll excuse me I have some kitchen countertops to sandblast.
Thanks! I was a massive astronomy geek long before I ever got into astrology, so I know a lot of pointless stuff about the stars and planets... including the brightest star of the Scorpio constellation. 🙂
Posted by impresswho
All the Virgos I know are messy, but there is a method to their madness. When they do clean it's done to perfection.
Too true!!
My virguyfriend was telling me about his first camping trip with his new gf and how he had to stop and ask her to use one thing for soapy water, one for rinse, and some other nitpicky details. I must have had a look on my face because he started laughing and said yeah yeah I know my house is a mess, but camping is different.
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But then just when I think I could see something happening she comes up with a new way to annoy the hell out of me. Ugh. Stuff has happened though. No sex but Misters John and James Finger have seen plenty of action. I've worked out some of the reasons for differing ideas and opinions from basic chart comparison but if anyone who actually knows what they're doing would like to chime in I'd like to hear if astrologically there's anything significant between us.
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