happykitsune
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Virgo in Venus and Mars
well I'm straight... LOL.. there you have it...
virgo and pisces are mutable signs... so you go figure it yourself.. and just be yourself..
hades
virgo and pisces are mutable signs... so you go figure it yourself.. and just be yourself..
hades
I'd just rather people gave me some of their experience that why I'm not getting my hopes up
I'd like to know some of this too, considering the Leo I'm trying to know more has his venus in virgo. He hasn't been huge on flirting either, but there is something subtle there that I think might be flirting, but going from one guy who'd just grab me and start kissing me to one who I can't even tell if he's flirting is one hell of a change lol. Though, it's pretty cute in a way lol.
I was reading and it says they like to get to know you better before they really try to invest into you. I guess that means in the way of flirting as well. I mean there is definitely chemistry there with him and I, but I'm used to at least some light touches, or teasing in a sexual manner.
He told me once touch was too sensual for him o.O
He told me once touch was too sensual for him o.O
Posted by happykitsune
I was reading and it says they like to get to know you better before they really try to invest into you. I guess that means in the way of flirting as well. I mean there is definitely chemistry there with him and I, but I'm used to at least some light touches, or teasing in a sexual manner.
He told me once touch was too sensual for him o.O
Yeah same here. I'm so used to like a least some form of blatant touching/flirting. I mean, it's not like I can't tell he's into me, but I just mirror people. So if he's not flirting heavily, I won't either. Or I'll sensor myself. For example, I was texting him last night and I told him if I was hiring him, he'd have no problem getting a job.
He said, "Ha nice. What's the position and how much does it Pay? Hmm... that could be read the wrong way."
In general, I would have said the first vulgar thing that came to mind. But instead I said to him "I'm trying really hard not to say something really dirty."
And he just said, "Why try?"
This is what took me aback. So I told him I felt I should have been on my best behavior.
It's so interesting. Like me being a virgo, I'm shy to begin with at first, but eventully I warm up. I have my venus in leo though, so I can be pretty big when I'm flirting or just being cute. So it's like... completely opposite haha. I guess I can understand him really wanting to get to know me first, because that's such a virgo thing. I should know. lol
Thanks MissKitty, that's very very helpful. I think I may wait a little to make any blatant signs that I like him. But I've tried to drop some subtles things here and there. Maybe more sexual than anything...but I'll definitely keep what you've said in mind. It's very hard for me to just come out and say I like someone tho because of my venus is capricorn. I guess you could say I'm slow :/
And I Candeh I mirror as well, which is why I usually don't end up flirting with him. But not that I know of their ways of "flirting" or whatever you call it, I won't be so afraid to give him a little nudge.
Glad the lying thing wasn't bad...it gave me mixed feelings, but I could tell he had his own lil intentions for it the stinker.
And I Candeh I mirror as well, which is why I usually don't end up flirting with him. But not that I know of their ways of "flirting" or whatever you call it, I won't be so afraid to give him a little nudge.
Glad the lying thing wasn't bad...it gave me mixed feelings, but I could tell he had his own lil intentions for it the stinker.
Posted by MissKitty
We aren't flirts at all, no. My 'flirting' consists of just talking to you about anything, shared interests, etc. If we're paying attention to you at all, doing things for you (big or small) we like you.
This seems understandable. When the leo I'm talking to and I went out on our date, we found out that we both love Radiohead, like quite a bit. Today, while I was just hanging around, the leo texted me randomly and said, "Radiohead is coming out with a new album on Saturday!!" Needless to say, I didn't rreally know this, but he seemed so excited and I thought it was cute that he shared that with me (I mean, I'm excited too). So would this be a typical example of what you're talking about, Misskitty?
That's good. I don't like desperate guys, but I do like regular contact.
Would you happen to know what the sex was like Claire?
Would you happen to know what the sex was like Claire?
I have read. Thanks 🙂
What is your mars claire?
Ah I see... hmm hope scorpio and virgo mars are a good match...that always worries me cus Idk how the sex would be till I actually do it...would rather not waste my time if I can just know if making love in the bed room will be good or not
Posted by CancerMoon
I don't think Venus in Virgo and Venus in Leo matches very well. I had some pretty bad experiences with it. I hope that helps you a little. 🙂
Awww... :/
well anything is possible I always say if you can work through your differences. I think it helps that I'm a virgo because I can empathize with this leo and his no flirting.
Hmm I enjoy being romanced but I love the idea of someone who will be loyal to me and who I can trust to be stable.
Posted by happykitsune
Hmm I enjoy being romanced but I love the idea of someone who will be loyal to me and who I can trust to be stable.
I feel the same. I've been romanced many times before, but with the romance came flightiness and some other negativities. Not saying there is anything wrong with being romanced, but somemone who isn't particularly romantic will find ways to romance you. And you know, while I LOVE the big displays of affection, there is something really endearing about someone who tries even if it isn't huge. You just know it meant something, and it can be really adorable in the long run. I mean, the leo did some really subtle things that caught me completely off guard sometimes.
For example (and I still debate if he really said this), I asked him if he felt homesick sometimes being away from friends and family in colorado (he lives on the east coast now). He said to me, "I mean, I miss them sometimes, but you get to experience new things. Like, I wouldn't have gotten a chance to meet you." Now when he said this, I had been partially distracted and the sushi bar had been kind of loud, but I swore he said this. But I was just so caught off guard... but extremely flattered. So, if it's subtle, it can still pack a punch.
Yeah, just those little things that give you reassurance. I guess for me the romancing can seem almost clingy at times, but when they are subtle and aloof about it, but still reassure me, it keeps me interested. I haven't heard my leo say anything like that to me. I think mine is taking the route of the lil 4th grader who still pulls the girls hair he likes. >.< I'm hoping mine will get to the point where he will say stuff as sweet as your leo Candeh
Posted by happykitsune
Yeah, just those little things that give you reassurance. I guess for me the romancing can seem almost clingy at times, but when they are subtle and aloof about it, but still reassure me, it keeps me interested. I haven't heard my leo say anything like that to me. I think mine is taking the route of the lil 4th grader who still pulls the girls hair he likes. >.
Lol it's nothing really serious with this leo guy yet. I just thought of it and how cute it was. But he's a clever guy. The main reason I went on a date with him is because he said to me (and this is in response to me adoring the comedian Daniel Tosh and wanting to marry him) "Did you still want to go out sometime? You might as well because I'm pretty sure Daniel Tosh is gay."
Witty fella he is. 😛 But yeah, the subtle things keep my interested. Like, where does he come up with this stuff? So, we'll see where it goes lol.
Haha nice. I think that may be a leo thing cus I used to date a leo who was witty like that
Lol here's another one he said to me that I seriously can't get out of my head:
Me: "So what frat were you in in college (he graduated a couple of years ago)?"
Him: "We don't really use the term 'frat'."
Me: "Why is that?"
Him: "Would you call your country a 'cunt'?"
Me: "What... oh... I get it."
Him: *he just smiles*
Leos are so interesting lol.
Me: "So what frat were you in in college (he graduated a couple of years ago)?"
Him: "We don't really use the term 'frat'."
Me: "Why is that?"
Him: "Would you call your country a 'cunt'?"
Me: "What... oh... I get it."
Him: *he just smiles*
Leos are so interesting lol.
Hahaha yeah that just sounds like something a leo would say. I can't think of the word to describe leos, but they have this cocky yet impressive air about them that really just draws me in. Idk if you notice it, but a lot of leos I know have this boyish charm, but yet they can still be sexy. Idk maybe that's just me. What funny conversaters
Posted by happykitsune
Hahaha yeah that just sounds like something a leo would say. I can't think of the word to describe leos, but they have this cocky yet impressive air about them that really just draws me in. Idk if you notice it, but a lot of leos I know have this boyish charm, but yet they can still be sexy. Idk maybe that's just me. What funny conversaters
I know what you mean! They do have such an endearing, innocent quality about them, but they come off as if they know exactly what they are doing. Like incredibly playful, but not overtly so. It is very sexy. They have a way of charming me, and I don't even realize it until it's too late lol.
Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by happykitsune
I think mine is taking the route of the lil 4th grader who still pulls the girls hair he likes. >.
Tat's not a bad thing imo, I tink it's funny so long as it isn't too mean🙂click to expand
Yeah I suppose. I guess if it's just to get emotions outta me, the "shock effect" or whatever, I don't mind it so much. It just throws me off sometimes, which is weird because I pride myself in being able to contain/control my emotions, but he says things like this and it's just like "ugh! why are you doing that? I want to punch you!"
Posted by CancerMoon
I think you and that leo can work well. I think I read somewhere that you are attracted to the Venus sign your ascendant is in. Meaning that since you have your ascendant in Virgo his Venus is perfect for you...or at least attractive. Just keep us posted. 🙂
Yeah I read something like this too. Even one article that went as far as to say you will marry someone in your ascendant.
Mine is in aquarius, but I just couldn't see myself with an aquarius. Easy to talk to, but a lot are full of drama, which I can't stand >.
I am a Leo and have Virgo in Venus but I am a woman, so I don't know if that counts... I would say that a virgo in venus leo would love the tender affection that a pisces or cancer can give. We want to feel loved a woed the old fashion way.
I think though, if your leo is calling you to chat he's interested in more than just friendship. If he wants to push your buttons even more so - he's interested no doubt. But he probably want's to feel safe with you.. At least thats how I would feel, but as I said I am a woman.
I think though, if your leo is calling you to chat he's interested in more than just friendship. If he wants to push your buttons even more so - he's interested no doubt. But he probably want's to feel safe with you.. At least thats how I would feel, but as I said I am a woman.
Posted by leoowoman
I am a Leo and have Virgo in Venus but I am a woman, so I don't know if that counts... I would say that a virgo in venus leo would love the tender affection that a pisces or cancer can give. We want to feel loved a woed the old fashion way.
Can you explain this a little more? I've had plenty of exp. with cancers, but not all necessarily work out.
Posted by happykitsunePosted by CancerMoon
I think you and that leo can work well. I think I read somewhere that you are attracted to the Venus sign your ascendant is in. Meaning that since you have your ascendant in Virgo his Venus is perfect for you...or at least attractive. Just keep us posted. 🙂click to expand
Yeah I read something like this too. Even one article that went as far as to say you will marry someone in your ascendant.
Mine is in aquarius, but I just couldn't see myself with an aquarius. Easy to talk to, but a lot are full of drama, which I can't stand >.
Aquas actually aren't all that bad. I was seeing one before this leo, and I swear if things had worked out Iwouldn't have wanted anyone else. lol
Posted by leoowoman
I am a Leo and have Virgo in Venus but I am a woman, so I don't know if that counts... I would say that a virgo in venus leo would love the tender affection that a pisces or cancer can give. We want to feel loved a woed the old fashion way.
I think though, if your leo is calling you to chat he's interested in more than just friendship. If he wants to push your buttons even more so - he's interested no doubt. But he probably want's to feel safe with you.. At least thats how I would feel, but as I said I am a woman.
Why is it that pushing my buttons would be a good thing tho? I mean, why would you do it?
Posted by happykitsune
I was reading and it says they like to get to know you better before they really try to invest into you. I guess that means in the way of flirting as well. I mean there is definitely chemistry there with him and I, but I'm used to at least some light touches, or teasing in a sexual manner.
He told me once touch was too sensual for him o.O
thats your venus in capricorn....sensual 😉
Posted by happykitsune
Ah I see... hmm hope scorpio and virgo mars are a good match...that always worries me cus Idk how the sex would be till I actually do it...would rather not waste my time if I can just know if making love in the bed room will be good or not
mars in virgo is known for being good in bed. virgo pays attention to details and is a perfectionist.
mars in scorp will have a field day with that. you will feel catered 2 and at the same time, the virgo will be submissive enough.
Yeah the sensual touch is nice. It's the one thing that can excuse the guy not being rough in bed. It was the only reason why I continued to have sex with the scorpio
Can you explain this a little more? I've had plenty of exp. with cancers, but not all necessarily work out.
I don't know.. It might just be me but I looovvveeee cancer. I love the tenderness and warmth and love they give. That warmth makes up for all the sulking and moping they do for me. Pisces I love because of their romantic skills and depth. A pisces will take me flying without even touching me, as they are so romantic. However I haven't had a lasting relationship with Pisces because they hurt easily and as I am a leo I can be a bit outspoken now and again and Pisces don't forgive very easily.
Posted by happykitsune
Why is it that pushing my buttons would be a good thing tho? I mean, why would you do it?click to expand
I just mean that (and I might be wrong) that if he is interested in "playing" with you he is interested in you. Obviously this is depending on how and why he is pushing your buttons... If he is doing it in a playful way he's just a big cat and likes to play! I like to push peoples buttons to shake them up and make them see another picture - especially if I like them. For example if you say you don't like indian food I might take you to the best indian restaurant and order something that you are going to love just because I want you to see that there is no generalisations. Or If you say that you cant handle people that lie - I might try to argue that sometimes people lie for a good reason.. Because they want to protect someone or something like that. We push buttons to open minds. Because we want to spend time with openminded people.
Posted by aquilascorpiusfemina
Mars in Virgo is helplessly curious, analytical, and self absorbed, focus on his or her self. But when you pass all the tests of trust, then you will see all the passion waiting to come out to you. Mars in Virgo sexually and when in love, we notice the hidden details, and we will notice your hidden hot spots, and will want to please you until you roll your eyes backwards and be in the heights of multiple orgasms and etc...This is definitely true, I possess both this planets in Virgo, and I am quite a pleaser, but I am extremely picky with man, meaning he gotta be very special too me so he can deserve the pleasures of Venus and Mars in Virgo! So just be patient with your Leo; he might look distant, detached and cold, but on the inside he must be burning for you. Girl, he is just being a gentleman!!If he's with you now, it's because he must really like you, it's just that his Venus and Mars in Virgo is making him be very careful and analytical at what his getting himself into.
mmmmm mars in virgo.
Candeh15,
When I say I love Cancer it's because they are calm and loving. However I don't think Cancer thinks as much of me as I do of them.. I have had some beautiful, beutifull romances with Cancer (fallen head over heel) but they have been the ones pulling out in the end. I think leo is too bold and forward for them.
When I say I love Cancer it's because they are calm and loving. However I don't think Cancer thinks as much of me as I do of them.. I have had some beautiful, beutifull romances with Cancer (fallen head over heel) but they have been the ones pulling out in the end. I think leo is too bold and forward for them.
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I've read a lil on it and it appears that they don't flirt much or at all and tend to go very slow.
This leo hasn't flirted with me at all, but we seem to have very deep conversations and a lot in common and when he's alone in the art studio it's me he calls up to talk with while he draws. I seriously can't tell if he likes me or not because of these mixed signals.
So I need some people to give me their experiences with people who have dealt with venus in virgo and/or mars in virgo.
Also, it seems like he wants to get at me somehow, like push my buttons, because I mentioned that I hate lying and he picked up on my change in voice and the look I got in my eyes. He could tell he hit "money" and told me he was going to lie every so often now just to get at me. What's up with that? Is that a virgo thing or leo? or is it his moon in pisces?