virgo males..... what??

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Is it possible he lost interest overnight like that?

Yes but not over the night, rather much earlier.

Some Virgos can drag things to endlessly (thinking how to not hurt you), instead of saying how they really feel. Him keeping in touch, It's just politeness or boredom.

I might be wrong tho.

When Virgo is into you he will be consistent with texts or phone calls. Touchy and affectionate in person.

All the best girl.
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He's been consistent and sweet, then stopped. He initiated conversation with me 2 days before he went cold, was very warm and nice then poof. I have no idea what happened.
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he’s either super busy to think about texting you

or

he’s doing the notorious virgo hot & cold shit

ime, virgo’s arent the best texters unless they have super airy charts.

im constantly left on read by virgo energy friends, male & female.


He's always with his phone on social media and texting his friends back, ive literally seen it. He was consistent with me but then poof, done. i dont get what happened.

His ex works with in the same building with him and recently moved departments i think closer to his...She may be dating someone else anyway but is it possible he saw her in person and that made him lose interest in me?
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Is it possible he lost interest overnight like that?

Yes but not over the night, rather much earlier.

Some Virgos can drag things to endlessly (thinking how to not hurt you), instead of saying how they really feel. Him keeping in touch, It's just politeness or boredom.

I might be wrong tho.

When Virgo is into you he will be consistent with texts or phone calls. Touchy and affectionate in person.

All the best girl.

He's been consistent and sweet, then stopped. He initiated conversation with me 2 days before he went cold, was very warm and nice then poof. I have no idea what happened.

I know it's hard to understand it but they can be really sweet and charming on a date, making you feel special and like the center of the universe (intelligent beasts) then break up with you the next day.

You can always ask him - what has happened that he went cold on you all of sudden. The question is...if he's going to be completely honest with you.
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I did ask last week lol. and I said its fine I'll give him space. He told me hes just busy and stressed so bad at texting (i think its a lie)... so I said no worries have a great weekend. Then he texted me later "hi i hope you had a great day and are having a great night!" why even bother like...
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Is it possible he lost interest overnight like that?

Yes but not over the night, rather much earlier.

Some Virgos can drag things to endlessly (thinking how to not hurt you), instead of saying how they really feel. Him keeping in touch, It's just politeness or boredom.

I might be wrong tho.

When Virgo is into you he will be consistent with texts or phone calls. Touchy and affectionate in person.

All the best girl.

He's been consistent and sweet, then stopped. He initiated conversation with me 2 days before he went cold, was very warm and nice then poof. I have no idea what happened.

I know it's hard to understand it but they can be really sweet and charming on a date, making you feel special and like the center of the universe (intelligent beasts) then break up with you the next day.

You can always ask him - what has happened that he went cold on you all of sudden. The question is...if he's going to be completely honest with you.

I did ask last week lol. and I said its fine I'll give him space. He told me hes just busy and stressed so bad at texting (i think its a lie)... so I said no worries have a great weekend. Then he texted me later "hi i hope you had a great day and are having a great night!" why even bother like...

Ok so is this just a virtual relationship? As in little to no physical interaction? Honestly texting too much will lead to a disconnect and me personally smuthery.

If that isn't the case then you have been back burnered for some reason. As a virgo, if I don't think I can handle a full on possible relationship at the moment or anything with serious potential, I'll stay away. You know he really cares if he keeps tabs on you, even at a distance.
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No we'd see each other in person too. it wasnt virtual. we did sometimes text more than talk in person but thats cause in person he seemed busy at times so I kept it minimal on some days.

Is it possible for him to withdraw cause hes not ready for a relationship AFTER he'd pursued me? He was the one who asked me out/started flirting and all that. It seems like overnight he went cold. Now hes just friendly towards me but i can feel a disconnect for some reason....
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Is it possible he lost interest overnight like that?

Yes but not over the night, rather much earlier.

Some Virgos can drag things to endlessly (thinking how to not hurt you), instead of saying how they really feel. Him keeping in touch, It's just politeness or boredom.

I might be wrong tho.

When Virgo is into you he will be consistent with texts or phone calls. Touchy and affectionate in person.

All the best girl.

He's been consistent and sweet, then stopped. He initiated conversation with me 2 days before he went cold, was very warm and nice then poof. I have no idea what happened.

I know it's hard to understand it but they can be really sweet and charming on a date, making you feel special and like the center of the universe (intelligent beasts) then break up with you the next day.

You can always ask him - what has happened that he went cold on you all of sudden. The question is...if he's going to be completely honest with you.

I did ask last week lol. and I said its fine I'll give him space. He told me hes just busy and stressed so bad at texting (i think its a lie)... so I said no worries have a great weekend. Then he texted me later "hi i hope you had a great day and are having a great night!" why even bother like...

Where's the question mark to keep the conversation going? His msg sounds like a polite statement.

Did you ask him - how he sees you? Is there any romantic interest in you? What is he looking for ATM?

How about this week? Keep in touch?
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Up until he went cold, he made it pretty clear he was interested romantically...talking about my good looks, flirting etc. He was the one who'd asked me out and initiated conversations. Then it seems overnight just cold. His ex did start working in a new department recently so I'm wondering if his feelings for her came back?? She's moved on but maybe he hasnt...