I am a virgo woman and met a virgo man (age 33) about 3.5 months ago while he was in town for business. I wasn't extremely interested when I initially met him because I was recently getting over someone else but he didn't give up pursuit even after leaving town (3.5 hours away), and finally I gave him a chance and he became probably the best person I've met. He has always been caring, encouraging, always letting me know he was there, overall, I never questioned the way he felt towards me even while he was living in another state. After about the first 2 months, mostly emailing, some phone calls, and hanging out for weekend getaways since he lives in NYC, it seems like he is distant now. The past month and a half, we don't email as much because he always says he so busy with work but how we need to make solid plans to see each other and how he misses me. Although he says we need to make solid plans and I give him dates and try to make plans, its like he never finalizes them and I have a feeling he almost is scared to? Deep down, I know he still does care for me, but its really hard since its been almost two months since I've seen him and seems more distant. I want to be understanding and have patience but a part of me wants to let go because I don't want to get hurt holding on and realizing he may never come around like he used to be or the fact I may never seem him because its already been almost two months. I want to hold on knowing that he still cares for me but reality is his actions don't seem to reflect that as much although he may say it. I know ultimately its up to me but any words of direction or advice would be appreciated.
