Virgo pulled away - Lost interest or fell in love?

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LizzyKitty
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Since my previous question was too long and unclear, here's a short version that is more straight to the point.

I'm a Taurus woman - 24 , The guy I'm interested in is a Virgo, also 24.

Had the best time together first two dates. Kissed passionately, and had the most emotional moment together. Were both emotionally vulnerable on the second date (which I know is a big deal for Virgos).



In any case, after that amazing day we had, my Virgo pulled away big time. He's been avoiding texting or seeing me for a week now. He did text me one morning apologizing for his strange behaviour and saying that he has no control over it. (to which I said "No, it's okay. I completely understand. Have a great day ahead ^^")

Thing is, before he started all that, he told me that in the last 10 years of his life he didn't know/talk to a girl like me. He told me I'm above all the women he's known. And told me he feels like he won the lottery. Then the next day he disappeared pretty much.

I'm being very patient and giving him his space. Not bugging him with texts or anything. I left him be. But I need to understand, since he's not communicative and I'm at a really vulnerable place right now. Did he pull away because he lost interest all of a sudden? Or what is this behavior?

Thank you
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LizzyKitty
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Posted by bittercupcake
☝🏻 What he said...

And my nephew is dating a Taurus and he never went MIA on her. What he’s telling you is BS, you just don’t fit his mold.
To be honest, I don't think it was BS. I can tell when a person is genuine.

We really left on a great note last time we were together. Then he decided to take his time away. He didn't go completely MIA. But very distant and not so communicative.
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LizzyKitty
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Posted by TomSawyer
You outmasculated his ass.

that's wassup
But...how? 0.o
By slappin him.

+ this dude doesn't sound right if 1 slap from a chick can make him act like a bitch.

Idk what to tell you smh

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Haha nah. I really don't think it's about the slap. Why do you all keep going back to that? It was a joke and you know he jokingly bruised my arm. We were "joke-fighting" leave that.

As I said, everything ended on a great note and it was such an awesome day. He just freaked out or is overwhelmed with emotion or whatever Virgos do...I just need to understand this from a Virgo perspective.
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LizzyKitty
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Posted by LizzyKitty
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Posted by LizzyKitty
Posted by TomSawyer
You outmasculated his ass.

that's wassup
But...how? 0.o
By slappin him.

+ this dude doesn't sound right if 1 slap from a chick can make him act like a bitch.

Idk what to tell you smh


Haha nah. I really don't think it's about the slap. Why do you all keep going back to that? It was a joke and you know he jokingly bruised my arm. We were "joke-fighting" leave that.

As I said, everything ended on a great note and it was such an awesome day. He just freaked out or is overwhelmed with emotion or whatever Virgos do...I just need to understand this from a Virgo perspective.
Okay..you want a Virgo perspective...





































He doesn't like the color of your socks.









there, I said it.

Me=Sun/Venus/Mercury in VIRGO.

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Screw him then. xD

You guys made me lose all hope. I'm over this guy. That's it. Lol
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Breeze
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Posted by Breeze
Reason i wont do virgos. 2 females were on my nuts hard in the beginning then went MIA.
Wow. What did you do? Did they just change their minds all of a sudden? Lol
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First one wanted to slow things down because it was going too fast but i let her set the pace. Feel off the earth. Second one i learned from first one and kept it funny and light a never really heard from her after i she canceled plans one night due to working late.
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LizzyKitty
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Posted by Virgosaurus
Posted by LizzyKitty
Since my previous question was too long and unclear, here's a short version that is more straight to the point.

I'm a Taurus woman - 24 , The guy I'm interested in is a Virgo, also 24.

Had the best time together first two dates. Kissed passionately, and had the most emotional moment together. Were both emotionally vulnerable on the second date (which I know is a big deal for Virgos).



In any case, after that amazing day we had, my Virgo pulled away big time. He's been avoiding texting or seeing me for a week now. He did text me one morning apologizing for his strange behaviour and saying that he has no control over it. (to which I said "No, it's okay. I completely understand. Have a great day ahead ^^")

Thing is, before he started all that, he told me that in the last 10 years of his life he didn't know/talk to a girl like me. He told me I'm above all the women he's known. And told me he feels like he won the lottery. Then the next day he disappeared pretty much.

I'm being very patient and giving him his space. Not bugging him with texts or anything. I left him be. But I need to understand, since he's not communicative and I'm at a really vulnerable place right now. Did he pull away because he lost interest all of a sudden? Or what is this behavior?

Thank you
He's terrified of you. You're giving him his space? We don't want space unless we say we want space. He's blasting his radio thinking of you, probably not eating or sleeping well, and waiting for you. Lay it on, Taurus. He's waiting. We don't say stuff like that unless we mean it. Please don't take forever. We get angry fast and we will think you're playing us and run so fast you'll never see it coming. Lol
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How can that be? He's kind of back into my life now and we're taking things super slow. I leave him random notes in unexpected places, like rolled him a note and put it in his cigarette box for him to read it next time he goes for a cig break. He's more communicative now, but we're still all casual. I feel like I'm walking on eggshells with him. Waiting for him to ask me out again, because first time it was me initiating pretty much.