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Posted by Capricorn91
I had the same relationship a few years back. I always acted like her bf but was just a friend and she responded mostly like a gf but again we were just friends. But she was an Aqua so the line between friendship and love is a bit blurred there :-p. If you don't approach he will be forever your friend only acting like a bf.


Are you intimate with your Aqua? Who ended the relationship? Did you get to meet her family and friends and vice versa?
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Noooo. Physical Intimacy is going too far. But emotionally yes we were. We had our secret codes to say each other good night. She used to trust me with a lot of personal information which was quite difficult for her with others. We would ask each other whether we had dinner or not and other regular stuff like when she would work late she would tell me that she is working late. But there was a bit of understanding between us which even though it was just regular chat we wanted to know more about each other. We cared for each other. And yes I did meet her family. She was a bit apprehensive initially as to how her family would take me. I liked her family not sure whether they liked me or not. But she used to talk to her mother about me but mostly as a friend even when she knew I had feelings for her. She never once told her mom about it as her mom would have asked her to stay away from me then lol. There was no official end as there was no relationship. We just drifted apart. She went for her higher studies for 2 years and we didn't talk much during that time. And then when we met, it was a bit awkward initially but we tried to connect like old days but we just couldn't. She would still tell me everything during our chats after that but we just couldn't connect like before after that.


When a Capricorn protects you^^




When a Capricorn realises his true potential^^
I had the same relationship a few years back. I always acted like her bf but was just a friend and she responded mostly like a gf but again we were just friends. But she was an Aqua so the line between friendship and love is a bit blurred there :-p. If you don't approach he will be forever your friend only acting like a bf.
There is one that got away but not because of my busy schedule.

There is one who might have some feelings for me and she is a Taurus. Very emotional and gets hurt easily. But I have no interest currently. I might like friendship but if she tries to come on too soon I'll have to withdraw. Also I have other things to do which require most of my time so investing time in a relationship will only disappoint the other person. You see love is like a long road where two people meet. Both have to come out of their houses and both need to make an effort and cover the distance themselves. And you cannot cover someone else's distance just because you have strong feelings. That is not fair. You wait till they reach the point where you both can meet comfortably. It can be either in the middle or a bit towards him or a bit towards you but never entirely towards anyone's. Otherwise you will always doubt the other person. So don't panic. With Capricorn it is a long drive a little bit of patience is recommended.
Don't be too aggressive, don't be meek. Stand for yourself. Stand for something right. Impress us with your views. Your heart is more important than your looks to us. Looks might deceive but not your character.

Also we might be slow to approach you because we are very shy and quiet types. But if we want to we will.
Energy wise we are compatible. My brother is a Leo and I had worked with one Leo lady. She was like my elder sister. Very caring and protective. It was fun. She taught me to how to be professional :-). Also Leos don't like to be corrected. A bit of ego work here. You have to be careful otherwise they take it to the heart. Similarly for Caps. We don't like to be wrong.
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What's wrong with it? Just had a scorpio guy friend of mine flip out on me over me mentioning that maybe I should try that... Let me be clear, he and I are strictly platonic. My girlfriends would laugh at me claiming I'd do that, and yet he flipped out. And he won't even say why.

So, question to the scorp males (and females too), why flip out on a friend for mentioning that?

I need perspective because I can't figure out if he's just being a little possessive or if he's really bothered by something else - no idea what that 'something else' could mean... I've mentioned "darker"/worse things to him, and he's never lost his cool.

Maybe he wants to bed you.


While calling me his "little sister" often? I don't think so.


I think his response seems pretty obvious since he considers you as his little sister. He is protective about you and cares for you and hence was averse to such an idea. I mean what kind of brother will be happy to hear those words coming out from his 'little sister' whom he is very protective about.


But what kind of breather is okay with me getting drunk? Or going to meet with a stranger I've never met before in the city? His reaction last night made no sense at all. I've done worse.


I too have a girl whom I consider as my little sister and I don't have a problem with her drinking or talking to strangers as such. But one night stands I will feel angry about because it is wrong for her and is a very irresponsible thing to do. Rest is your choice. Nobody controls you.


In what theory or ideology is it wrong to have one night stands? Who says it's wrong? And what's wrong about it? If two people consent to sex and never speaking again after that, and both are happy with the end result, how is it wrong?

You can't restrain other people with your own ideals of how the world should be.
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Okay. Your choice. Then please don't get offended when your friend feels angry with you on this. That is his freedom to react.
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What's wrong with it? Just had a scorpio guy friend of mine flip out on me over me mentioning that maybe I should try that... Let me be clear, he and I are strictly platonic. My girlfriends would laugh at me claiming I'd do that, and yet he flipped out. And he won't even say why.

So, question to the scorp males (and females too), why flip out on a friend for mentioning that?

I need perspective because I can't figure out if he's just being a little possessive or if he's really bothered by something else - no idea what that 'something else' could mean... I've mentioned "darker"/worse things to him, and he's never lost his cool.

Maybe he wants to bed you.


While calling me his "little sister" often? I don't think so.


I think his response seems pretty obvious since he considers you as his little sister. He is protective about you and cares for you and hence was averse to such an idea. I mean what kind of brother will be happy to hear those words coming out from his 'little sister' whom he is very protective about.


But what kind of breather is okay with me getting drunk? Or going to meet with a stranger I've never met before in the city? His reaction last night made no sense at all. I've done worse.
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I too have a girl whom I consider as my little sister and I don't have a problem with her drinking or talking to strangers as such. But one night stands I will feel angry about because it is wrong for her and is a very irresponsible thing to do. Rest is your choice. Nobody controls you.
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What's wrong with it? Just had a scorpio guy friend of mine flip out on me over me mentioning that maybe I should try that... Let me be clear, he and I are strictly platonic. My girlfriends would laugh at me claiming I'd do that, and yet he flipped out. And he won't even say why.

So, question to the scorp males (and females too), why flip out on a friend for mentioning that?

I need perspective because I can't figure out if he's just being a little possessive or if he's really bothered by something else - no idea what that 'something else' could mean... I've mentioned "darker"/worse things to him, and he's never lost his cool.

Maybe he wants to bed you.


While calling me his "little sister" often? I don't think so.
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I think his response seems pretty obvious since he considers you as his little sister. He is protective about you and cares for you and hence was averse to such an idea. I mean what kind of brother will be happy to hear those words coming out from his 'little sister' whom he is very protective about.
Tactless in a good way. A bit too simple minded. Genuinely caring. Impatient. Way too emotional. Don't move on easily and get stuck on a particular thing. And also like to talk a lot.
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Like i'm actually really dead inside i'm not motivate about anything, i lost my ambitions and i feel i dont mind having a butterty job where nobody would break my balls. i feel like tyler is gone





but maybe he'll be back.


Same here bro. But we always come back :-)

What is his age? Sounds a bit immature and he is infatuated with you.
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Where are you running? Dirt is easiest on body parts.. concrete you should never do. Asphalt is more forgiving.


Treadmill. Actually I have a bit of curved spine(scoliosis) so a lot of weight falls on one knee due to the unevenness and causes some pain.
That is our nature. Take it on the warm side. The cold side is just for defence. Eventually it will go. Just stick through.
How do you take care of them? I have been running for a few days now and my knees are aching a bit these days after I run for long. I can't stop running but the knee pain makes it difficult to sustain the run for long.
Empty your mind. Try running. It will remove all unwanted thoughts and will give you some confidence.
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Is it true that libra balances the insanity of Aquarius?

Once I dig deep into my thoughts, it hard to sweep out. I become filled with anxiety and paranoia, thinking at high speed, like the universe has been opened up to me and I'm off into space, its too much too handle... that's where libra comes in.


Well my personal suggestion would be to rely on your strength only rather than seek out another person to help you. This is the Aqua energy I am aware of. I know sometimes we all struggle within our minds but in struggle lies strength.


Also if you really want to lighten your mind I suggest reading some good books which will keep you away from such thoughts eg any P.G Wodehouse book (a Libran). He is the most hilarious writer I have ever read and his books depict a happy and beautiful life. It might help you in times when you are down. It surely helps me ☺.
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Posted by hydorah
indians have no racial solidarity or hidden handshake.Have an ass backward culture.
Servile and self loathing mentality.
Racialized caste system where everybody wishes they were white and blue eyed.
designated butterting streets, etc, etc...
they're going nowhere.


Damn, bro.

Any real Indians here to chime in?

@realindians
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Well I thought initially I would ignore the post as it was a bit negative but the ignorance here needs to be cured.

We have a very rich culture. Our dances are graceful, they show so much depth of emotion just by facial expressions and the body movements, there is no vulgarity there. It requires a lot of practice and dedication to master such things. Try watching some videos on Kathak, Theyyam, Odissi. You will understand what I mean.

There is so much compassion and forgiveness in our country which people misunderstand as servility. Mistake not, we live by ethics and morals and hence we respect life. We do not do drugs and partying which you consider as backward culture as we see no reason to do such things as they are utterly wrong.

Our wisdom is such people from the west are studying our scriptures and finding a better understanding of the universe as a whole. Though most of the ancient texts has been lost and destroyed by the invaders still we have our Bhagwad Gita which has all the answers to life's questions.

But yes we have strayed from our ways and become lazy and corrupt in many places but one thing to note is this is all because of the British and Mughal invasions(no hard feelings). Before this we were called the golden bird. We had so much gold and were very prosperous. Most of our gold has been looted and we were so much oppressed that it took us some time to recover and come out of that state. Our economy is still developing but it is going good. The people are changing and becoming more proud of their lineage and culture. We mean no harm to others. Our main "motto is we are one big family". But people have betrayed us in the past and hopefully we will be vary of this.

Also please watch the video of A.P.J Abdul Kalam our late former president on our country's ancient wisdom. Note he was a Muslim but an Indian first and he respected all religions. We are privileged have had him in our country.

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Yes, stress, bird's eye view to understand a particular issue and get a solution, these could be a few of the reasons we like to be distant. But the thing is we sometimes like to be in our own world, to recharge, better asses the things in our lives, we sometimes need solitude to come back better. Sometimes emotional detachment is also needed as it can be too draining for us constantly being out there which is not our natural thing. And also we have been like this since the beginning (being alone and doing things ourselves) so it is also in our habit. But sometimes when we are not in the best of our moods we become distant to avoid these dark moods from affecting others which people perceive as being distant and cold. Also we are a bit detached so being distant is a natural thing for us.


Yeah that makes sense. I'm just learning & getting used to how he functions. He still wants me around during his moods. Sometimes I can really feel it, he's just not as affectionate although a little. Partially has a lot going on & is preoccupied but still asks to see me on his day off & texts or calls everyday. He trusts me enough to tell me these things, so I know that means a lot. And makes plans with me I think the biggest thing is to understand that it is this kind of ebb and flow as he processes and handles things in his life.

For me, this is a good thing. I've been married twice to men who did not handle or deal with things, so I had to. It is good for me to watch this processing but hard to get used to also.
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To tell you frankly I think he is doing a lot if he still calls and messages you daily. I usually shut out if something is bothering me. People accuse me of not calling them and being distant. But this is a design issue need a few upgrades and patches to come to a level which others want lol. We like things to be BAU but sometimes production issues keep propping up
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Yes, stress, bird's eye view to understand a particular issue and get a solution, these could be a few of the reasons we like to be distant. But the thing is we sometimes like to be in our own world, to recharge, better asses the things in our lives, we sometimes need solitude to come back better. Sometimes emotional detachment is also needed as it can be too draining for us constantly being out there which is not our natural thing. And also we have been like this since the beginning (being alone and doing things ourselves) so it is also in our habit. But sometimes when we are not in the best of our moods we become distant to avoid these dark moods from affecting others which people perceive as being distant and cold. Also we are a bit detached so being distant is a natural thing for us.



I like your reborn avatar!
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Thanks. But those eyes though *shudders*.