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Posted by Capricorn91
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Aquarius. I have let her go. But still try to keep in touch. But she is the One. Lol.


I hear ya. There is a Leo in my life like this. Is it timing? Will it all be all figured out one day? Or are you there to care about each other always. Just because you can't quite let go..


Well depends on the closeness. She was my first and a very close friend. She actually understood me. She was the only one who thought about my career, future rather me. So there is some attachment also. But am a bit detached now. I care about her but she has her own life. I respect that. I do like to meet her. I feel better but there is also a feeling that it might not be. Moreover if she talks to you like a distant friend that hurts a bit . There is still hope inside(it never dies lol). But mostly it is not able to let go. It is like removing a band aid. The quicker you do the better. Initial pain and relief after that. The slower you do, pain continues over a long period and still you have to remove the band aid.

I know it is so hard. My first love was this way, but eventually you have to move on. I didn't mention him because I finally did let him go. It was a lot of years though. No closure is difficult. There is always hope.

The one now reaches out, stays in touch & always has hope. This is different though. Neither of us can rip the bandaid, so we have remained friends. There is a lot of history more friendship than romance though.( he always wanted the romance though lol) He is always there when I need him. All I have to do is ask. I have finally learned to ask. I have known him for 30 years, but 18 of those we were not in touch. I don't think either of us wants to lose touch again. I have no idea what that means. We are very close obviously.
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I can understand. Even am there for her if she asks. But she doesn't. But I guess letting go is the right thing. Past is history future is a mystery but today is a gift that is why it is called present.
Posted by youngali
Posted by Capricorn91
Aquarius. I have let her go. But still try to keep in touch. But she is the One. Lol.


interesting! i find many caps and aquarius' fall hard for eachother.
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Yes we do . We bring the best out of each other.
Posted by Rindaroo
Posted by Capricorn91
Aquarius. I have let her go. But still try to keep in touch. But she is the One. Lol.


I hear ya. There is a Leo in my life like this. Is it timing? Will it all be all figured out one day? Or are you there to care about each other always. Just because you can't quite let go..
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Well depends on the closeness. She was my first and a very close friend. She actually understood me. She was the only one who thought about my career, future rather me. So there is some attachment also. But am a bit detached now. I care about her but she has her own life. I respect that. I do like to meet her. I feel better but there is also a feeling that it might not be. Moreover if she talks to you like a distant friend that hurts a bit . There is still hope inside(it never dies lol). But mostly it is not able to let go. It is like removing a band aid. The quicker you do the better. Initial pain and relief after that. The slower you do, pain continues over a long period and still you have to remove the band aid.
Aquarius. I have let her go. But still try to keep in touch. But she is the One. Lol.
A man should pay for dinner. But if the woman insists on going Dutch that is also fine but still depends on the man. But complete payment is a no no for me.
Success is when I make the best use of my day. I know little efforts take us far hence I try to live each day as best as I can. Living with my ethics and making an impact to my work gives me the satisfaction of success.
I go with the attitude we are what we consume. So I don't consume any negativity(no bad thoughts, no bad words, being calm, no negative news until am in the right mood to handle it). Being positive even though it might seem alien at first it will become second nature to you in due course of time. Try to love what you do. Remember carrying unnecessary weight will only make you tired.
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Posted by Capricorn91
Can I get one too, please?


Hello Cappy....sure

*Wait*

"don't rush into action right now, bide your time for better results*

Hope that helps....Cappies are good for being patient aren't they?

I felt a little nervous when shuffling...have you been anxious of late or someone around you?
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Sorry hadn't seen your post.

Yes they are but not me. Was just thinking of whether to act or wait. Thanks for the suggestion. Will wait now .

Yes been anxious for quite a while now and I guess my roommate as well.
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omg


Is that a good OMG?


He was imagining the things which you said you will do. Lol


i never get a scorpio girl, but i'm questioning myself

😂 Likewise with you Capricorns thats why I'm so intrigued and it's refreshing.
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The way a Capricorn gets a Scorpio and vice versa goes deeper than the oceans.
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omg


Is that a good OMG?
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He was imagining the things which you said you will do. Lol
Posted by d0s3r
Posted by Capricorn91
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i mean if u wanna look the "cerebral part" just go watch spelling bee or countdown


I did not mean to look for math wizards. And beauty doesn't need to be shown through a swimsuit segment. Do you really find no issue with it? What are you trying to promote with that? Fitness? Still not needed.


beauty is subjective, but there are also beauty standards which are relative to culture
beauty is to be celebrated. you can celebrate it perhaps too much. you are suggesting to not celebrate it at all,
why
you do not look more deep than others pretending to not care about beauty. you seem miserable.
it is miserable to avoid looking in the mirror lest you be vain
you also deprive yourself of sexual attraction pretending to not prioritise looks in a relationship
you can appreciate looks and mind
but a beauty pageant doesn't care about the mind
much like how countdown doesn't care about beauty (apart from carol vorderman - but she likes to be beautiful. her perogative)
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Just don't say this to the promoters "beauty pageant doesn't care about the mind" they will lose their business.

It seems all too shallow to appease the hormonal boys and men to get money. Am just against the objectification on the basis of beauty and there is no need for swimsuit rounds. Are you saying those 40+ year old judges need to see a woman in a swimsuit to judge her beautiful?

Also you are born a certain way you can't change your physical features as such but still you will be judged on that. Don't you see the wrong in here?
Posted by d0s3r
i mean if u wanna look the "cerebral part" just go watch spelling bee or countdown


I did not mean to look for math wizards. And beauty doesn't need to be shown through a swimsuit segment. Do you really find no issue with it? What are you trying to promote with that? Fitness? Still not needed.
Posted by Gemitati
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Capricorn91
Beauty pageants glorify the outer beauty and not the person as a whole. There is no need for a swimsuit segment there. But still people are continuing these. They rarely focus on the cerebral part of the person. It is all about objectification.


So don't watch it! I don't! So I have no problem with outer beauty!
Inner is too hard to find so outer is right there - enjoy! Or not...
Wtf? World problem...the biggest one!
Beauty pageants! I wish.
Don't you???


I don't. But just that you don't see something it isn't wrong. It isn't like if you don't look it will go away. It is not difficult to focus on the person for who he/she is. You can't be this shallow.


Why not? I can.
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Are you still in your teens?
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Capricorn91
Beauty pageants glorify the outer beauty and not the person as a whole. There is no need for a swimsuit segment there. But still people are continuing these. They rarely focus on the cerebral part of the person. It is all about objectification.


So don't watch it! I don't! So I have no problem with outer beauty!
Inner is too hard to find so outer is right there - enjoy! Or not...
Wtf? World problem...the biggest one!
Beauty pageants! I wish.
Don't you???
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I don't. But just that you don't see something it isn't wrong. It isn't like if you don't look it will go away. It is not difficult to focus on the person for who he/she is. You can't be this shallow.
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I dont know. I saw most of this year's miss Universe. Looks were involved but it was also about what they were doing, how they answered questions, etc. which went into it. Even as a spectator I took all that into account. There are elements of the "whole picture".


Is there a need for looks? They are looking for a role model not a swimsuit model. The person should have a good character. A swimsuit round doesn't show that or may be am not able to get the deep meaning behind it.
I think people need to stand against these things. A person dressed appropriately for the job and and having the required skills should be promoted rather than just outer beauty. It is too shallow. I know glamour sells but people don't realize it is just like getting drunk. They are setting a wrong example for the future generations and not encouraging other aspects of a person's character.
Beauty pageants glorify the outer beauty and not the person as a whole. There is no need for a swimsuit segment there. But still people are continuing these. They rarely focus on the cerebral part of the person. It is all about objectification.
Posted by sakuraflowers
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Posted by Capricorn91
How do you define someone as Earthy. Is it being more realistic, grounded, practical or more towards the physical?


Physical as in PDA?


No not PDA. I meant physical as in more in touch with your body, being comfortable in/with it. Living in the real world not in the fantasy world of illusion. Many people take physical as lust, physical attraction. But I guess that is not Earthy even though it is physical. Lust is there but with a different perception. Earthy according to me is being in the real world. Understanding the laws that govern the physical world.Reality. Being serious about it, as it is the only thing that exists.Not in a bad way. You are practical, don't like waste. You don't have the illusion of love as the romantic kind yet you do like it but still prefer the realistic version of it.

I'd definitely go with realistic, grounded and practical. Physical by your definition, I think, has a lot to do with self-esteem and self-image, which I think, does not depend on how much earthy is in your chart.

IMO
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Am still not sure what astrologically contributes to Earthy. I don't think earth signs as they say are Earthy. Or maybe earth activates a bit late. Maybe Saturn keeps it real.
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How do you define someone as Earthy. Is it being more realistic, grounded, practical or more towards the physical?


Physical as in PDA?
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No not PDA. I meant physical as in more in touch with your body, being comfortable in/with it. Living in the real world not in the fantasy world of illusion. Many people take physical as lust, physical attraction. But I guess that is not Earthy even though it is physical. Lust is there but with a different perception. Earthy according to me is being in the real world. Understanding the laws that govern the physical world.Reality. Being serious about it, as it is the only thing that exists.Not in a bad way. You are practical, don't like waste. You don't have the illusion of love as the romantic kind yet you do like it but still prefer the realistic version of it.
How do you define someone as Earthy. Is it being more realistic, grounded, practical or more towards the physical?