Posted by DepthAndDeath
Caps, what state of mind that drive you want to make as much money as possible?


Well there can be multiple reasons.

- Didn't have a privileged childhood so want to provide as much as possible for his family.

- As a status symbol. Having luxury items, nice house good clothes to feel good , feel that they are better than others.

- As a way to be self sufficient and investing that money in their business. An entrepreneur.

- As a philanthropist. They earn to give back.

There can be many others but not able to write them right now.

But if you want to know why we work a lot. Then it is not for the money. Work is our soul. We like to work. It gives us happiness. Work gives us confidence,it helps us emotionally, it teaches us a lot of life skills, it is like water to us (I might be exaggerating a bit here). We don't mind working late, long and hard. We revel it. I can't even imagine myself not doing anything. Relaxing is important and I do take time off and do nothing sometimes but on regular days I need work.
Posted by LadyAnon
Is it a Capricorn trait to push you away and then pull you back in?

6 weeks ago I told my guy that I have emotions invested. He stated that he doesn't know if he can make me happy and doesn't want to cause any pain. I stopped communication. Done. No crossing paths, no back and forth.

A few days ago, I figure I don't need to see his updates and won't be reaching out to him, so I go ahead and delete him off my social media account. Within the hour, he texts me to say he misses my cuddles.

Do any Capricorns on here do anything aimilar to this? Capricorns are the last species I would think to be wishy washy like this.


Yes. Seems kind of like a bit of me. You see we might like you so we will be all sweet and gushy with you but sometimes we are also not sure of ourselves that whether we can keep the other person happy. So we might say things like these and try to keep you at bay. But the truth is what he wrote you later.

But the right approach would be to talk directly if he is not going through any personal upheaval. As to and fro only causes the thread to break. May be he is not ready yet for a commitment and relationship.
Well I don't know exactly what "World Studies" is but if it relates to knowing about various countries, their politics, culture, economic situation and knowing about the things happening around the world in general then we are very much interested in it (at least I am). I remember when I was 14 or 15 I wanted to know the time in each country before I slept. It would be good if you encourage her in pursuing this as it would help in expanding her mind and opening her to the world in general.
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Posted by Algol
"It is good to appear in their will, but bad to appear in their presence."


By will did you mean the will which is read out after we die? And presence as in general presence which makes you feel bad?


Yes but I'm kidding
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You better be. Otherwise no Cap will include you in his/her will. Jk.
Posted by Algol
"It is good to appear in their will, but bad to appear in their presence."


By will did you mean the will which is read out after we die? And presence as in general presence which makes you feel bad?


26 days
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His birthday date has been given as Jan 6th but still people debate that is just a random date. But could Sherlock with all his eccentricity be a Cap? His observational skills, his selective knowledge gathering(discarding of knowledge which is not useful) his practical, grounded and realistic approach to all his cases, his lack of emotions, a cold approach to everything in his life , his selective but close friends and a bit of pride in his extra ordinary skills.


He must have a Pisces placement tho


How can you say?

Druggie
Artsy
Moody
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Capricorns are prone to addictions and many have dabbled in drugs and we are known to be moody.
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Posted by Capricorn91
His birthday date has been given as Jan 6th but still people debate that is just a random date. But could Sherlock with all his eccentricity be a Cap? His observational skills, his selective knowledge gathering(discarding of knowledge which is not useful) his practical, grounded and realistic approach to all his cases, his lack of emotions, a cold approach to everything in his life , his selective but close friends and a bit of pride in his extra ordinary skills.


He must have a Pisces placement tho
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How can you say?
His birthday date has been given as Jan 6th but still people debate that is just a random date. But could Sherlock with all his eccentricity be a Cap? His observational skills, his selective knowledge gathering(discarding of knowledge which is not useful) his practical, grounded and realistic approach to all his cases, his lack of emotions, a cold approach to everything in his life , his selective but close friends and a bit of pride in his extra ordinary skills.
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Posted by Capricorn91
Posted by AdmiralCrabbyPatterson
The time I spend not getting a bj. Shame.


From your hand? 👌


Ahh butter. You weren't posting so I thought it was ad-lib. Also I didn't say I ever got a bj. I would like to but maybe later. But I will fantasize about it and be impatient that it isn't happening now. Nice try. Maybe if I was a person who wasn't confident in my sexuality. Real lame.
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Yes. I accidentally posted it before I could type out completely. But people were way too fast to post before I could delete it. That is why I asked with your hand. 😁.
Posted by AdmiralCrabbyPatterson
The time I spend not getting a bj. Shame.


From your hand? 👌
Posted by Capz
OF ?


Of all the good times which we(not with you) had together.

Venus retrograde.
Posted by poison_ivy
I'm a tad bit irritated but find humor in this at the same time.. Caps don't like to be the "underdog"..Clearly.

So... Here's my situation..

I am always pretty direct with my Capricorn boyfriend when we have issues. I can admit, I have toned it down from the beginning from going from "0 to 100" REAL quick.. Now, I analyze my thoughts and approach him in a much more calm manner with valid points that state my case. (lol, Caps receive critique better this way, IMO).. When I feel unsettled, he knows. We recently got into a "discussion" (not argument) about what I have been feeling about our relationship lately. He said he agrees and respects my feelings and would call me about it once he got off of work last night...

Well, that call NEVER happened...? So... I woke up this morning @ 4 AM to get ready for work and wrote him a text, calling him out on his butter.

I was very brief but stated my direct evidence. Told him, in lack of better words, that he SUCKS at communication with me. He should have reached out to say, "I won't be able to call to discuss this tonight because of "X,Y & Z.." He knows me.. I'm very understanding.. But just not saying anything at all, leaves me hanging. Like he doesn't care.. Told him that I'm sure he's aware that communication is the key to success in any aspect of life whether its a job, relationship, parenting, etc. Told him that it's conducive for him to work on his communication skills and keeping his word. ((Mind you: This is NOT the first time we've had this problem.. I've brought it up before and other times, I've let it go.. I don't do the nagging... & I'm not repeating my issues OVER & OVER to a grown ass man after he says he got it.. But this time, I needed to be blunt as possible and told him to work on it.))

His response...

"I'm aware that communication is major in everything.. I graduated with a communications degree, my job highly involves communication... So no need to go on and on."

O_O Dat's it? Bruh???


REALLY!?!! It took every bone in my fingers NOT to go to 100 on text!! (All CAPS Lock on that ass LOL!) You caps and your smart ass mouths.. LOL! I know ya'll have issues "expressing" yourself, Fine. (We all got flaws) but I'm not going to let butter slide because he can't Speak up for himself.. We're both grown.. lol.. He missed my WHOLE point also.. to validate his "skills" in communications.. he totally ignored my issue which was that I was upset that he didn't let me know why he didn't call! I told him.. "That's awesome, BUT it doesn't take a degree to know how to communicate with your S/O.. It's common sense.. & if it were vice versa, I would let him know when I can't do something that I said I would do... Told him whether he uses communication on a day to day basis well, he does not use it well with me. Sometimes, I'm left hanging.. No apologies, no words... Just moves on with a "I don't give a butter" attitude.. (At least that's how I take it) & if that's how he "carries" his S/O.. he needs to do better. I told him that on his list of priorities.. I must be all the WAY on the bottom written in itty bitty letters..Like the fine print on a bottle of medicine.. (Yea, I got a sarcastic mouth, that's why we work, 2 smart asses) BUT I'm NOT accepting this behavior from my man..

Why the hell are Cap men so effin stubborn..? O_O

So, back story~ The talk that he wanted to have over the phone was about our timing, our busy schedules and living far apart.. That he didn't like it as I didn't either.. but it's where we are in the present.. & he wanted to discuss it and get to the bottom of it.. Come up with solutions.. I didn't ask him to call about it.. We were texting because we were both at work... He wanted to call. I've never forced him to do anything he didn't want to do. We both have our own will... Both heavily busy..Him more than me.. Clearly, this discussion is important as it has to do with us moving forward in our relationship.. & if the call can't be made, I feel like the right thing to do would be to let the other person know.. "Hey work went overtime, I can't call"... OR "I'm sleepy, had a rough day so I'll call you on this tomorrow.." He knows me.. I'm patient and understanding.. but when I call him out on his "treetrunk up" he responds to 1 point of the problem because it critiqued his "ethics".. BUT it was a VERY small part of the situation.. No sorry babe, or I know, this & that happened..

I'm irritated.. -_-

This is a VENT/Discussion.. Anyone have similar issue with their cap.. What were the results..?

Caps, was I wrong to approach him this way?
I feel that I was mature, calm, and direct and stated valid points.. So what's his deal..? & BTW, I'm not worried because our busy schedules start as soon as we get out of bed, but after my last response to his "I gotta degree in communications" response, he has not written me back.. What could be going on in his big ass head.. ??? Could he be upset at my approach.. We all are different but I'm curious to know how Ya'll feel...

(Side Note: Not exact words of text in my description but basically straight to the point)

OUR NATAL CHART

Him:
Sun: Capricorn
Moon: Taurus
Mars: Pisces
Venus: Aquarius

Me
Sun: Scorpio
Moon: Libra
Mars: Libra
Venus: Sag

I'm not sure of his Rising Sun sign.. But mine is Capricorn Rising.


You should have started with this.

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can you handle what is behind the mask


I feel like I communicate telepathically with Caps feelings. (I know it sounds weird) but when my ex-caps (btw not all at once lol) were upset, id just naturally let them do what they want, usually walk away or I'd stay where I am and I'm sure they will leave if they want to. If they didn't leave, i'll comfort them. Most of the time arguments were about stress at work or being grumpy from tiredness.
If I stay in the bed, I will hug, kiss, and then watch tv or something. Sometimes maybe sex
Let the steam go.

With my longest Cap relationship (12yrs) Sometimes he will approach me and if I wasn't following him he would try to come after me.since I can turn ice cold, sometimes I was mad at him I wouldn't go after or let him comfort me.

Usually with him, he was weaker. He would give in when I got him mad.

With the cap I'm seeing for 6 months now, we are on first stage, the Times when he's upset or tired about work and tries to spend time with me but he's so tired he doesn't wanna go out, so I hang out with him in his room watch movies or simplt talk, is give him a massage, or sleep hugging and naked lol Usually that makes him feel better.

this is all natural...I feel the urge to hug him. Sometimes we stare at each other and feel the tension around us when one of us is upset :p



Hmm what I have noticed is that with Aquarius all masks go away and only the truth is left and they make it(any issue)look so trivial that you feel like it's nothing which you can't handle and then you are back to your normal self. But they can't take other people's emotions. They feel suffocated, drowning but still they stick with you. But it might be a downer for more emotional signs as they consider emotional volatility as weakness and try to stay away from it.

Also people don't notice that Capricorns are a bit watery so emotions can cause us problems just like Pisces and Scorpio but once we become stable it is very difficult to have those emotions and we seem cold and calculating but those emotions are there deep within just not on the surface.


Yes, I could see other signs feel these emotions deeply.
I don't know as to other Aquarians and you may just generalize but in my case, I don't overlook their issues or feelings. I may not feel the emotion deeply but i can understand how he must feel and figure out a solution to the problem. I always comfort, is a natural humanitarian trait, comfort and help. Not just one or the other, we offer both.
Caps issue is that they get in their world of work and when they get in touch with their emotions they don't know how to control them, and this overwhelms them, which is why they rather get busy and put the problem at the bottom of the pile.

We see it from different perspectives, I'm the Aqua you're the Cap. lol

You always think that we don't feel or care but that's wrong, we care more than anyone else probably would.



Yes work is good, it keeps us cool and keeps our mind away from focussing too much on those emotions. We need to learn to face our emotions and stablize them until then we won't be able to live our true selves.

I meant that Aquas like to keep things cool, it is not that they don't understand/feel emotions it is just that you will ponder on the need to be so emotional at a particular thing while the other person will be trying to come around those emotions.

I said you do stick around and that would only happen if you care so we know you care. It is just that we don't like to bother others with our things which makes people think as becoming aloof and distant but we are like that. We would like someone to understand us and Aquas are very good in that but still we need to do things ourselves. It is very rare that we open up to people but this happens only with the trusted ones which takes considerable amount of time to build. We do not like to rely on others. Call it pride or vanity but we are independent like that. Once we are done with the thing that was bothering us we are back to our normal selves.

I apologize if it came out wrong previously. I know Aquas care the most and they care practically not in the passive emotional type. They will give you practical solutions to your problems which is good.

But I wanted to say they don't want an overly emotional partner rather one who is well balanced. Everyone has emotions but we can't be overwhelmed by them. We might have some instances here and there but overall the person should not be clingy/overly emotional type.


Aww, yeah all that is true. are you a December cap? I've noticed slight differences between the dec and Jan caps.
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No, I am a Jan Cap.
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can you handle what is behind the mask


I feel like I communicate telepathically with Caps feelings. (I know it sounds weird) but when my ex-caps (btw not all at once lol) were upset, id just naturally let them do what they want, usually walk away or I'd stay where I am and I'm sure they will leave if they want to. If they didn't leave, i'll comfort them. Most of the time arguments were about stress at work or being grumpy from tiredness.
If I stay in the bed, I will hug, kiss, and then watch tv or something. Sometimes maybe sex
Let the steam go.

With my longest Cap relationship (12yrs) Sometimes he will approach me and if I wasn't following him he would try to come after me.since I can turn ice cold, sometimes I was mad at him I wouldn't go after or let him comfort me.

Usually with him, he was weaker. He would give in when I got him mad.

With the cap I'm seeing for 6 months now, we are on first stage, the Times when he's upset or tired about work and tries to spend time with me but he's so tired he doesn't wanna go out, so I hang out with him in his room watch movies or simplt talk, is give him a massage, or sleep hugging and naked lol Usually that makes him feel better.

this is all natural...I feel the urge to hug him. Sometimes we stare at each other and feel the tension around us when one of us is upset :p



Hmm what I have noticed is that with Aquarius all masks go away and only the truth is left and they make it(any issue)look so trivial that you feel like it's nothing which you can't handle and then you are back to your normal self. But they can't take other people's emotions. They feel suffocated, drowning but still they stick with you. But it might be a downer for more emotional signs as they consider emotional volatility as weakness and try to stay away from it.

Also people don't notice that Capricorns are a bit watery so emotions can cause us problems just like Pisces and Scorpio but once we become stable it is very difficult to have those emotions and we seem cold and calculating but those emotions are there deep within just not on the surface.


Yes, I could see other signs feel these emotions deeply.
I don't know as to other Aquarians and you may just generalize but in my case, I don't overlook their issues or feelings. I may not feel the emotion deeply but i can understand how he must feel and figure out a solution to the problem. I always comfort, is a natural humanitarian trait, comfort and help. Not just one or the other, we offer both.
Caps issue is that they get in their world of work and when they get in touch with their emotions they don't know how to control them, and this overwhelms them, which is why they rather get busy and put the problem at the bottom of the pile.

We see it from different perspectives, I'm the Aqua you're the Cap. lol

You always think that we don't feel or care but that's wrong, we care more than anyone else probably would.

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Yes work is good, it keeps us cool and keeps our mind away from focussing too much on those emotions. We need to learn to face our emotions and stablize them until then we won't be able to live our true selves.

I meant that Aquas like to keep things cool, it is not that they don't understand/feel emotions it is just that you will ponder on the need to be so emotional at a particular thing while the other person will be trying to come around those emotions.

I said you do stick around and that would only happen if you care so we know you care. It is just that we don't like to bother others with our things which makes people think as becoming aloof and distant but we are like that. We would like someone to understand us and Aquas are very good in that but still we need to do things ourselves. It is very rare that we open up to people but this happens only with the trusted ones which takes considerable amount of time to build. We do not like to rely on others. Call it pride or vanity but we are independent like that. Once we are done with the thing that was bothering us we are back to our normal selves.

I apologize if it came out wrong previously. I know Aquas care the most and they care practically not in the passive emotional type. They will give you practical solutions to your problems which is good.

But I wanted to say they don't want an overly emotional partner rather one who is well balanced. Everyone has emotions but we can't be overwhelmed by them. We might have some instances here and there but overall the person should not be clingy/overly emotional type.
All,

I meant touchy with strangers/acquaintances/family members, not with your lover (that could be included) but main point is with people other than your lover. Mostly we do like to open up to our lovers and want to be physically affectionate.
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can you handle what is behind the mask


I feel like I communicate telepathically with Caps feelings. (I know it sounds weird) but when my ex-caps (btw not all at once lol) were upset, id just naturally let them do what they want, usually walk away or I'd stay where I am and I'm sure they will leave if they want to. If they didn't leave, i'll comfort them. Most of the time arguments were about stress at work or being grumpy from tiredness.
If I stay in the bed, I will hug, kiss, and then watch tv or something. Sometimes maybe sex
Let the steam go.

With my longest Cap relationship (12yrs) Sometimes he will approach me and if I wasn't following him he would try to come after me.since I can turn ice cold, sometimes I was mad at him I wouldn't go after or let him comfort me.

Usually with him, he was weaker. He would give in when I got him mad.

With the cap I'm seeing for 6 months now, we are on first stage, the Times when he's upset or tired about work and tries to spend time with me but he's so tired he doesn't wanna go out, so I hang out with him in his room watch movies or simplt talk, is give him a massage, or sleep hugging and naked lol Usually that makes him feel better.

this is all natural...I feel the urge to hug him. Sometimes we stare at each other and feel the tension around us when one of us is upset :p

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Hmm what I have noticed is that with Aquarius all masks go away and only the truth is left and they make it(any issue)look so trivial that you feel like it's nothing which you can't handle and then you are back to your normal self. But they can't take other people's emotions. They feel suffocated, drowning but still they stick with you. But it might be a downer for more emotional signs as they consider emotional volatility as weakness and try to stay away from it.

Also people don't notice that Capricorns are a bit watery so emotions can cause us problems just like Pisces and Scorpio but once we become stable it is very difficult to have those emotions and we seem cold and calculating but those emotions are there deep within just not on the surface.
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Posted by Capricorn91
A good leader is always honest, fearless and always speaks his mind. He has integrity of character, is connected with his team, knows the impact of his words and actions. Always leads by example. A leader is the one which can galvanize his team to action. A leader is one which can take his team from a sure shot defeat to a great victory. A leader is one who is in touch with the common crowd. He knows everything yet he listens to everyone. A leader always does the right thing. He respects everyone. A leader is one who supports life and helps everyone share this vision thereby causing great change towards a harmonious future. A leader is the one whose first and foremost responsibility is to act in the best way for himself (but not in a negative way) that is understanding his role in life, his responsibilities and setting himself in the right direction which his team can follow. He has to live the ideal life and make it look possible so that other people can get the courage to hope for such a life and achieve it. A leader is the reason world is in chaos and a leader is the one who can bring order to it.


Pretty much this but I would add: a great leader never asks more of his/her followers that they would not do themselves.
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True.