virgo/scropio power struggle

he wants power, and control. i want not be either of these. i am the virgo he is the scropio. i love him, and i believe he loves me. i honestly think that he wants control , because i am in a postions to make his life well off. i have been ther for himthru everyhting, but the last 2-3 months things have taken a turn for the worst 1st he has left moved out. his mother/brother moved away from the area, and no he is gone. he had problems found a job, and now he has found one which is good. we had a good sex left at first then he got completely cold when he didn't get his way. we meet up on his birthday about a week ago, but he brought friends, slept in the bed with me with his clothes on. wow! that hurt. i got upset about the friends , becuase i hadn't been with him for 10wks now we still didn't have sex wow! im not sure what is going on he is a very open honest person, but im not sure now. he text me today to make arrangements to go tothe city to purchase something we had tlaked about before he decided he would act like a ass so i texted back to say it was going to happen , so he told me to have a good life. help me understand.

pookie, I've said this to you before and feel compelled to say it again .. you keep wowing over the fact that he isn't having sex with you, yet, acknowledge that the relationship is in peril with communication and emotions.

Your wow's come out over the absence of sex .. but, no wow's over the emotional issues .. this is very disturbing 😢

"he would act like a ass so i texted back to say it was going to happen , so he told me to have a good life"

I'm assuming you meant "i texted back to say it was *not* going to happen .."

Walk away ... sort out what you need in your life .. this relationship is based around material and sex ONLY if communication and emotional support is absent.

for your own sanity .... swim, luv 🙂🙂

"so he told me to have a good life. help me understand."


pookie ... sometimes, we spend too much time trying to understand, and in so doing, drive ourselves nuts over it. I know your mind is reeling, trying to come to terms .. and being a Virgo, these wheels are going to be turning in your head, feeling like the gears are ready to jamb up.

For your own sanity ... you just have to figure a way to let it go, without finding a reason for it. Sometimes, two people just end. People are complicated, and the only person you can really figure out is yourself.

If you put all your focus into trying to figure him out, then you are neglecting yourself ... focus on yourself and your children, and their well-being.

Think of it this way ..... if this guy would walk out on you, then he really isn't that good of a guy for you, and your children. That doesn't change the fact that you love him .. but, without respect, love isn't enough.

Love means NOTHING if the man doesn't respect you, pookie.


Chin up 🙂🙂 ... find a sitter for the kids and go hang out with your girlfriends .. get this off your mind.

Power struggels..??

HA....!

Scorpion will be squashed like common cockroaches under the feet of even weakest Virgos! Try it sometimes.. hearing the crunching sounds are so entertaining.

In relationship with Scorpions, you'll have to show your authorities. One silly weakness and they will makes you feel miserable for a long time (assuming) that you are a real VIRGO.

Scorp/vir relationship is like a poker...!

The rest, I am sure you know about it?!

Word of advise..

do what you have to do in your relationship or the others forcing you to do it.

Be decisive and just..!

That's all I can give you.. and good luck..!

Hello, I'm new here, but I've been reading the posts here often.

Pookie, I think you should move on. It's apparent that he isn't interested anymore and was only using you to get his needs met. And I think that you were also using him to meet your sexual needs because you only seem to be upset about him not having sex with you. As virgolibra said, find another Scorpio to do the [i]job[/i].