virgo the shrewd businessman

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My point is I love Achievers, but they always seem to be running away from something. It's not like those extra 10 hours you spent at the office that you could have spent with your significant other is going to significantly change your earning potential...




+1 for that, very true. but i guess virgo problem is not with not being able to give time to a relationship, it is with being in a relationship in the first place. i think it is the thinking without just doing that stops us from getting into relationships. i wish i could let loose and take more chances. that is it, the fear of taking chances. i want to be in my comfort zone, where i know what is what. i will only open up to someone i know something about, a friend, colleague etc. i do not take many chances or risks. i can and will go the distance if i have enough trust in the feelings being mutual and trust in the person that he is who he says he is. i wouldn't pursue someone who was not interested in me.
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Posted by CluelessCancer
My point is I love Achievers, but they always seem to be running away from something. It's not like those extra 10 hours you spent at the office that you could have spent with your significant other is going to significantly change your earning potential...




+1 for that, very true. but i guess virgo problem is not with not being able to give time to a relationship, it is with being in a relationship in the first place. i think it is the thinking without just doing that stops us from getting into relationships. i wish i could let loose and take more chances. that is it, the fear of taking chances. i want to be in my comfort zone, where i know what is what. i will only open up to someone i know something about, a friend, colleague etc. i do not take many chances or risks. i can and will go the distance if i have enough trust in the feelings being mutual and trust in the person that he is who he says he is. i wouldn't pursue someone who was not interested in me.



Well I believe in having a fulfilling life, which includes being happy in some kind of career, volunteering, traveling, family, and LOVE (with a man preferably lol and not DXP).

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LOL @ your last comment in paranthesis.
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Posted by CluelessCancer
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Posted by CluelessCancer
My point is I love Achievers, but they always seem to be running away from something. It's not like those extra 10 hours you spent at the office that you could have spent with your significant other is going to significantly change your earning potential...




+1 for that, very true. but i guess virgo problem is not with not being able to give time to a relationship, it is with being in a relationship in the first place. i think it is the thinking without just doing that stops us from getting into relationships. i wish i could let loose and take more chances. that is it, the fear of taking chances. i want to be in my comfort zone, where i know what is what. i will only open up to someone i know something about, a friend, colleague etc. i do not take many chances or risks. i can and will go the distance if i have enough trust in the feelings being mutual and trust in the person that he is who he says he is. i wouldn't pursue someone who was not interested in me.



Well I believe in having a fulfilling life, which includes being happy in some kind of career, volunteering, traveling, family, and LOVE (with a man preferably lol and not DXP).

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haha not with DXP. that is a balanced thinking you have. you have control over everything, you can work hard/plan for all of the above. but love, it just has to happen on it's own. sad that we have no control over the timing to fall in love. we say we need to work for it, mingle, make time, but introverted as well as extroverted all have a hard time finding the one. it has to happen on it's own. some get lucky in love and find each other.