So , I have been talking to my friend for 7 months . Everything was good . She recently told me she love me , wow !!!! We live 8 hours way from one another . So , we had planned to meet at a concert on the 24th of September . She was to drive down to the city where the concert was to take place (she also works in that city ). She stated she would go to work and then meet me at the concert around 5pm. Mean while , I am at the hotel waiting to see her later that evening . My brother calls and invites me to breakfast that morning . While eating breakfast I receive a call from her asking me" what I was doing ". I replied " I am eating breakfast with my brother She replied , " ok don't wait for me to do anything , u am going to go back home . Now keep in mind she told me that she had a problem with several people I know, and those same people were going to be at the concert. So , anyway when I ask her "why was she leaving ?" She replied I never said I was coming to the concert ". Omg !!! I went crazy !!!! I told her that I had several other plans and I canceled all of them just to be with her which is true . After I learned she wanted to hang out with me I called my friend and said , "let's take a rain check becuz the girl I been talking too for 7 months wants to spend time with me. So as I am getting more upset it comes out that I had 3 sets of plans but canceled for her . She replied by saying you have secrets , You had more plans than you are willing to admit you had ,then she said you have too much going on . I need to consider that . So we continue to argue and she finally admitted that she did say she was going to meet me at the concert , and by admitting the true , she hopes it helps me through my feelings . Since then I have text her to tell her she is the only one who matters to me , let's talk about what happened . She will not respond , she just keep ignoring me. My question is why did she drive 89 miles and then tell me to enjoy my brother at breakfast and that she is going home . All this comes two weeks after she told me she lines me . Please help !!!
Virgo women

Maybe she wanted to have breakfast with you. You drive all the way, but dont take every opportunity to be with her, even though you cancelled a lot of plans. Thats strange. Id be pissed too frankly. And in addition having problems with your people and meeting them at the concert makes it worth. Then she used every argument she could think of, so that she wont come to the concert. Give her time to calm down and then ask her if you both have a second try and if you two could talk it over.
What's even stranger she told me she loves me two weeks before it happened and just to clear up I was going to the concert anyway . It was planned three months ago she was just going to meet me there
Also when we talk on the phone It's always 4-8 hours and we hate to hang up ! This is crazy !!!

What's your sign ?
Aries
3 days from Taurus
No really the hang up , you hang up. She more like " well we been talking on the phone for 6 hours I guess we should go ". Then she starts another conversation and I don't mind becuz I love talking to her . And no I am not trying to talk to her anymore . She left , so there you have it. By the way I do get hang ups!!! I wonder who that is —?
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