There was this virgo guy (birthday 16 september) in our english class. The first time we met he asked me a lot of questions, we talked for hours and walked together. Then our teacher asked us to read the dialogue together. So I sit by him. He was out of breath and could't read his part. Then we attended the same history class. Everything was amazing for a while but then he became really cold without any reason. Nowadays he is even worse, he acts so mean to me. He made a subtle joke about my name which nearly made me cry. He said and did a lot of other things that really broke my heart. But I act like nothing happened. He try to make me jealous by flirting with friends and every other girl in the class. He used to ask my cousin about me (they are friends). But my cousin told me yesterday that they were walking in the street and he said "hey look I think it's the girl I'm dating. oh no it isn't her!" My cousin also said that virgo guy chases other girls like whistling or looking their butt beside my cousin. What does it mean? Why does he act that way. I swear i haven't done something wrong. i was neither too clingy nor too cold with him. please help me. should i talk to him?
Virgos guy!! why is he so mean?

Do you like the guy?
yeah i still do and it's the problem

On the behalf of all the Virgo men born on September 16, I apologize for this dude's actions. I don't know what his problem is. You seem like a sweet and beautiful girl. Seriously, who could hate or be mean to a Taurus? You guys are some of my favorite people.Really wonderful spirits. 🙂 Did you hurt or insult him in any way(including accidentally...think hard)? Virgos tend to internalize/remember things and repress their emotions...but these negative, repressed emotions resurface in other ways (i.e. becoming cold and distant/ lashing out at unexpected moments). Communicate with him. Let him know how you feel. If he still chooses to be a d-bag, then move on. It's his loss. Plenty more wonderful Virgo fish (or any other sign) in the sea. Hope it all works out.
thank you 🙂 you're so kind. actually you seem really different from him. and no i'm sure i haven't done any wrong to him. thought i'm confused and broken i'll wait a little more because i don't want to lose him.

He's insecure chica and pushing that outward to garnish attention. Toss that Bull head high and keep walking proud. Let him come round to you, you're the prize here. Not the other way round. 🙂
He's a teen and he's a Virgo, of course he's an asshole 😄 its mostly a phase though.

LOL

Ignore him and act cheerful and happy, as If you dont care about him. He'll come around. But he sounds like an idiot though. You Probably could do a lot better.

Posted by taurusgal16
thank you 🙂 you're so kind. actually you seem really different from him. and no i'm sure i haven't done any wrong to him. thought i'm confused and broken i'll wait a little more because i don't want to lose him.
Listen here. You got the right ta-ta, but the wrong ho-ho.
I know you and daddy-o been molassin' pies for a while but all of the sudden he treatin you like a chunk of lead?
Im sorry, what exactly are you losing?
The guy treats you like shit in front of everyone.
Say shit like, "Wow youve changed since you hit puberty.", anytime he is mean to you.
Go read a book about a powerful woman, an autobiography if you will.
And you might learn how not to be comfortable being a doormat.
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