Virgos & Sex (Taboo Topic?)

I've dated several Virgos and my daughter's father is a Virgo.

I've read that Virgos can be very freaky. But I've also read they can be easily alarmed if it seems wrong, sinful or impure in nature. I don't really understand where the balance is struck.

Also, I hear they like to wait and not do it all time time, because it makes them fantasize about it. But I've also heard, they like to do it anywhere, all the time.

Lastly I read, they like to initiate, but I hardly find it the case that they actually DO. (at least not with me).

I thought I was the duality? LOL. #Gemini.

My first Virgo boyfriend, he never initiated. But he would never reject it.
My second, totally turned off by how frequently I was interested in it. Even though we waited a long time, after the initial encounter, I was too easy after that- almost chasing him. We broke up over sexual incompatibility.
My BD, he could never seem to make up his mind. Then again, as discussed in another thread, that may be due to his particular other issues.

Rate:

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My experience: one Virgo guy, three month relationship

Rate: Outstanding. Enough staying power for EVERYONE to get off

Freakyness level: Not very, he was more of a traditional lover
Frequency: Every night
Initiation: Eh, I did that more than he, I think

Thanks for your feedback!

It's often like, if I communicate my wants then I'm afraid of being labeled a perv. I guess I put the Virgin into Virgo.

SV- I've encountered that before where my ex said he wanted to tell me a fantasy but was afraid I'd get mad.

CheekyFaerie - About your internal phases, how long do they last? Can something trigger those?

Thanks for answering yall!

Lol. No you're not. (or were you talking to someone else?)

Um, I'm just making a survey on the criteria:
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Freakyness level:
Frequency:
Initiation:

I don't expect all the same answers.

I think that a lot of Virgos (myself included) have had difficult childhoods where we were made to feel ashamed/guilty/etc. about sex (or just ashamed of ourselves in general), and/or were emotionally neglected and starved of affection (with me it was both) so if we are "fucked up" over sex I think that this would often be the reason. I don't think we feel less passion than other signs but we may have a hard time admitting it or expressing it for these kinds of reasons. Sometimes it has to do with having had a religious upbringing. Personally I would be up for anything with the right person but like anyone else I have to find a mutual attraction with somebody and given that I am shy connections are very hard to make.