Virgos Truth?

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sup folks i found this introducing blog about virgos and i think virgos should take a look at this.

As children, Virgos are shy and diffident, and easily hurt. They are easily shamed, and seem to carry the burden of the guilt of the whole world on their shoulders. They may suffer quite a bit at school, and can be bullied by other pupils or teachers, or both. They seem to make a very bad karmic choice of parents, having fathers whom they love but who are distant and rather demanding. Their mothers may be far more interested in keeping up appearances and fussing about silly things than loving and caring for the Virgo child. Some Virgoans have mothers who are so incapable of looking after their children that they find ways of opting out of motherhood altogether. These children are expected to excel, but their fears, phobias and lack of self-esteem makes it hard for them to do so, while other children and even the parents of other children may be jealous of their obvious intelligence. Many Virgoan children grow up with a sense of abandonment.

As parents, Virgoans try not to recreate the mistakes of their own childhood. however, because they were not shown much real affection themselves, they find it hard to relate properly to their own children, and may, therefore, pass on the silly demands for scholastic performance and perfect behaviour which made their own childhood so intolerable. If the Virgoan finds his children difficult to understand or to deal with, or if his marriage breaks up, he may physically distance himself from them.

There is a fairly large segment of the Virgo community who seem to defy the usual interpretations of this sign's nature. For one thing, these people can be extremely untidy in some or all areas of their lives. Some are tidy at home but keep their papers in a muddle, while others do the reverse. Some appear to live in apple-pie order but shove all the mess into cupboards where it cannot be seen. Others are simply completely disorganised. The reason for this phenomenon is the theory of 'polarity' in which the very characteristic for which a sign is known is polarised so that the person displays completely opposite traits and habits.

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Another Virgoan polarisation is laziness. There are many Virgos who, while having very active minds, don't actually get down to doing much of anything. Yet another anomaly is the type of Virgo who is attracted to big business and who may be a tough, heartless go-getter who neglects his family and makes everyone else's life a misery. In fact, this last one is not such an anomaly because obsessional workaholism is a very Virgo trait, although it is unusual ofr a Virgoan to have the confidence or the strength of character to become a mogul or a tycoon. The motivation behind the go-getter Virgo is a sneaking feeling of worthlessness or a fear of losing what they have gained.

Virgo is born into a family where Mom is quite put out with Dad. In many instances, Virgo is born when the mother decides to have a much-wanted child. She then goes through the crisis of having to stay at home from work to take care of the kid. The work environment offered office relationships that were enjoyable; the office offered a chance to exchange information with others that is usually lost when a woman stays at home to take care of a child's needs. This mother begins to resent her husband, for after the child is born she can't afford baby sitters since the family has just lost her income.


The mother may instill in her child values that will also discourage Virgo from feeling comfortable in certain adult aspects of relationships. Often, the mother of a Virgo goes through an antisexual period during the kid's infancy. She worries a lot about hygiene, and the normal functions of the body are often regarded with distaste. Mothers of Virgo infants have been observed to have extremely negative reactions to the job of changing dirty diapers. All children wear diapers, and all humans eliminate body waste. However, when a child's diaper is changed with disgust, and the child is only two or three months old, he begins to feel that the disgust relates to some unsatisfactory behavior on his part. If one shows disgust or disdain to a dog while it's in the training process, it can be trained not to eat! A child exposed to this response will develop guilts about natural functions, including sexuality. Most Virgos feel guilty about their sex life, and handle sex with embarrassment, or not at all. However, Virgo is an earth sign. We often use the word 'earthy' to indicate someone who is practical and sensual and a part of the earth. Virgo children have trouble compromising between their sex
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She often goes back to college after marriage to get her degree so that she can go back to work in a professional capacity. At that time, she begins to treat her husband much as her mother treated her father, and disappointments begin to happen in the relationship - they begin to grow apart.

The Virgo male has a more difficult time of it. He is a mother-dominated child in an atmosphere where his father is criticized and rejected. As he grows up, he's quite angry that his father is so incompetent. He feels that if his father were a better provider, his mother (the centre of his universe) wouldn't be so unhappy. Consequently, the Virgo often works too hard on a job in order to prove he isn't the 'no-good' that Daddy was, and he gets very angry when his work is not appreciated.

He gets the same dose of bacteria phobia and disgust that his sister did from his mother, and he enters adulthood with a bit of a sexual double standard. He wants to be sexually involved, yet he thinks sex is a little vulgar. The Virgo male can carry a great deal of resentment towards his mother. If she is really overpowering, and if she is intensely critical of him and his dad, the boy may not want to have any involvement with women at all; for every time he sees a woman he sees the characteristics of his mother.
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Men born into feminine signs have more trouble dealing with women than do their masculine sign counterparts. Because Mother ran the household, and seemed to be the ruler of the universe, it is more difficult for these men to converse freely with women; subconsciously, they think that women have 'therpower'. When they learn that 'the power' is really related to the concept of the feminine principle, and that this power is in them and can be used in a material sense for building something in the material universe - whether the building is intellectual or physical - then they are free to see men and women as human beings. Until they reach an understanding of the masculine and feminine principles operating in the universe, they will over-listen to women. It's difficult for them to have a disagreement with a woman; they can't easily handle opinions from a woman, and they overreact to what she says. A woman may have no idea that the Virgo male is reacting to her in this way. She just notices that he's too detailed, too involved in statistics, too involved in proving his points by quoting passages from all the books he's read; and she can't get a straightforward conversation out of him. If it happens to be a positive-sign woman (who wasnt to be respected in her own right by men in general) encountering a Virgo male, these two can engage in a most interesting argument, all based on the subconscious drives within them!


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Posted by virgoking
very good i like it my mom was good but i could have use more attention.. i think virgo needs alot of love and attention when young.. they also say virgos are born in trouble homes.. like dad leaves or worse.. my dad was never around.. i wonder how many virgos fit this..



thank you my dad was never really around either and he use 2 show my other brother more love and attention then me.

my mom did everything so did my oldest brother they cook cleaned work and took care of me and ma next brother.

my mom worked so much back in the day she didnt really even have time 2 spend with me and my 2 brothers. ma big bro was like the father role.

yea we do especially if u have venus squared saturn extra love and care.
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very good i like it my mom was good but i could have use more attention.. i think virgo needs alot of love and attention when young.. they also say virgos are born in trouble homes.. like dad leaves or worse.. my dad was never around.. i wonder how many virgos fit this..

thank you my dad was never really around either and he use 2 show my other brother more love and attention then me. my mom did everything so did my oldest brother they cook cleaned work and took care of me and ma next brother. my mom worked so much back in the day she didnt really even have time 2 spend with me and my 2 brothers. ma big bro was like the father role. yea we do especially if u have venus squared saturn extra love and care.
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yeah i have that to venus square saturn she did good only being her.. i was always very mature as a kid.. i knew things and understand things better than other kids.. even though i wish more love i understand my mom needed to work..
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very good i like it my mom was good but i could have use more attention.. i think virgo needs alot of love and attention when young.. they also say virgos are born in trouble homes.. like dad leaves or worse.. my dad was never around.. i wonder how many virgos fit this..

thank you my dad was never really around either and he use 2 show my other brother more love and attention then me. my mom did everything so did my oldest brother they cook cleaned work and took care of me and ma next brother. my mom worked so much back in the day she didnt really even have time 2 spend with me and my 2 brothers. ma big bro was like the father role. yea we do especially if u have venus squared saturn extra love and care.

yeah i have that to venus square saturn she did good only being her.. i was always very mature as a kid.. i knew things and understand things better than other kids.. even though i wish more love i understand my mom needed to work..
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i feel ya ma dude i was a very serious kid always studying for school always on time for school very intelligent still is lmfao.

i wished for the same from my mother.

im a very typcial virgo even tho i act loco on here or anywhere i go lol i was a very quite kid and never talked much was always 2 myself but had lots of friends weird lmfao.

now im balance a little outgoing when i have 2 be dont have 2 many friends now and love peace quite and harmony.

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my pops is a virgo and annoys the shit out of me because everything he says is negative i try to stay away from him at home because im the allways positive happy person bringing up ideas but hes always coming out of nowhere with this random babble throwing negativity all over my statementys.i Truly dont know how can u live being so negative, talks about everyone when their not around, sometimes i fell like telling him STFU!.thats why i always clash with him
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Posted by nyc125
my pops is a virgo and annoys the shit out of me because everything he says is negative i try to stay away from him at home because im the allways positive happy person bringing up ideas but hes always coming out of nowhere with this random babble throwing negativity all over my statementys.i Truly dont know how can u live being so negative, talks about everyone when their not around, sometimes i fell like telling him STFU!.thats why i always clash with him



im sorry to hear that ur father musta had it rough during his times but it still doesnt give a excuse 2 be nasty and rude 2 people and talk about people behind their back unless its positive.


for virgos what ever we was influenced by becomes part of our personality being a mutable sign and all also virgos are natural critics so the harsher our environment was when we growing up the more harsher a virgo will be. The more positive a virgo is the more the criticism is better hone and toned down to help people and not hurt.
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Posted by sortilege85
Damn, this is some very accurate information.

Terrible enviornment, terrible people and terrible love between the parents and child.

Funny, my mother was very possessive and loving and so was my father, but he was gone into his own world many a times. Constantly drunk attempting to forget his past. Probably a good reason why none of my brothers and I truly had a man father figure because our father grew up without a dad, so my mother had to be both in order to give us a stronger personality.

There are some shacky grounds, but I managed to get through life well. Probably the main reason why so many virgos are cynical beyond belief and lonely.



well thank me 85 i only like the best stuff basically things that are good and worth it and thats good enough for me i'm glad everyone was able to enjoy it i love when everybody is able 2 relate 2 things because one it means ur not the only one and 2 that's how real bonds are formed.

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