What Research Found on VIRGOs...Do you Believe it?

VIRGO (August 22-September 23)-Earth sign
Strengths
? Analytical
? Observant
? Helpful
? Reliable
? Precise
? Truthful
? Conservative

Weakness
? Skeptical
? Fussy
? Inflexible
? Cold
? Harsh
? Over-critical
? Interfering
? Timid
? Hypocritical

Personality
? Is the sign of SERVICE
? VIRGIN is the astrological symbol
? Virgo colors are blue, yellow, gray, tan, navy & lilac
? Birthstone is the Sapphire
? Very independent
? Dwell too much in the past
? Have that ?somebody's gotta do it? attitude
? Usually are narrow-minded
? Are straight thinkers & solve problems logically
? Live in their minds, not in their emotions & feelings (which makes them seem detached & unemotional)
? Easily live in denial
? Need to come alive to their own failings
? Have excellent memory
? Known for using GUILT as a weapon when they want the attention & cooperation of others
? Easily adapt to change
? Are extremely accurate (are proof readers)
? Love organization & detail
? Are usually health conscious
? As athletes, are not overly competitive
? Don't like being in the spotlight
? Are the most successful when they're not the center of attention
? keep their own secrets
? Have respect for money & position
? Can easily see another person's motives
? Problem solving is what they do BEST
? Keep the world in order
? Don't stand for nonsense & deal sensibly with problems
? Have problems accepting compliments gracefully

? Need to know all the facts and details before they plunge in & make a decision
? Often say everything is ok, when it really isn't (live in denial)..(saying everything is alright is a good defense mechanism for not having to take a closer look at their feelings)
? Are PERFECTIONISTS
? Usually look too deep into issues & overanalyze them
? Feel like they want to know everything
? Very sensitive deep down
? Need to be appreciated for all the things they do
? When hurt or offended, they may never show it
? Are always trying to find ways to improve everything
? Are very picky
? Need to realize there is nothing perfect in nature
? Are good negotiators
? Always look for the advantages in every situation
? Will confess to almost every fault except the ones they possess
? Are very giving
? Are very interested in the love matters of their friends
? Guard the secrets of their friends with equal fidelity
? Rebound quickly from disaster or defeat

Sex
? As time progresses, sex with Virgo become more & more se

awww...it cut off right at the sex part......

Being a Virg, and seeing an orderly written list like this one, I can hardly help myself from not reponding in almost the exact same format!! Ill try it another way and reply only with the things I disagree with STRONGLY:

? Harsh -> not so much harsh as Blunt. We dont like to candy-coat the truth even if its gonna offend the other person. If we see it as being a constructive criticism, then so be it.

? Dwell too much in the past -> What others may refer to as 'ancient history', to a Virgo, we see it as you cant know where you are going if you dont already know where you have been.

? Need to come alive to their own failings -> Virgo is so self-critical, that it is almost impossible to say we dont put life into our own failures. This one is almost comical in its insinuation of us not 'feeling' out faults.

? Are PERFECTIONISTS -> This one is 110% true. Deal with it, slackers!

? Rebound quickly from disaster or defeat -> Holy contradiction, Batman! See Two above this.

- My birthstone is peridot, I usually go by the month I was born (August).

- I tend to dwell in the past but not too much. I don't let people forget when they've wronged me. Nor do I forget a lesson I learned hard.

- Most definitely, if it needs to be done "somebody's gotta do it". That's where I would interfere.

- I am not harsh but I can be blunt like tollbooth said. Its not to be mean just for S&G but because I've sugar coated it as much as I can and you're not reading between the lines so let me just put it on blast.

- I can be cold if I don't like you, usually its something a person I dont know does that just turns me off. Don't as much as expect cordial connversation if you're in this zone. Ex. If I am in a store and someone has a problem with the store owner and they don't have to be in the wrong but its just that they handle it wrong and curse out the clerk and call them out of their name. Don't look to for me to become an instant ally. You're tacky and rude. I'm not joining your team you join mine and lets get you cleaned up. 🙂

- Using guilt, yeah I can be extremely manipulative. I however do acknowledge my faults. I am not in denial at all (or am I in it now... lol) because I like perfection too much to risk existing in the wrong.

- I'm a huge resistor of change and will only make the best of it when I can't do anything about it.

- YES!!! I simply hate being in the spotlight, no PDA's or spontaneous announcements. I had a guy try to put my coat on in a restaurant when we were leaving, I almost died as packed as that restaurant was.

- I think I can read people really well, it's become a gift when figuring out quickly how to respond to someone or tone down or up the conversation or what have you. I do not like nonsense. Whatever blah blah blah someone wants to offer should not be unecessary bs or crap. Ex. two women friends both love dating and men. One gets her heart broken while the other finds love. The one in love shares the wonderfulness with the one who is heartbroken because they are friends and she should be able to but the heartbroken one tells the happy one negative things to discount happy girl's boy joy. That's nonsense that I will spot immediately and dismiss anything said as invalid advice.

- I will only say things are ok or alright when the person asking serves no significance in where the situation will go for me. If I had a bad weekend and I come to work and someone that I am sharing the elevator with asks about my weekend I am not going to tell them because there is no significance in it.

- When hurt or offended it will show in my silence or change in attitude towards that person but I may not tell them straight out. If they are friends, family or lovers then they will know sooner than later no games.


- Will confess to almost every fault except the ones they possess (I don't get this one)

- All of the things listed I must say go back to the Strengths and Weaknesses. So I agree with pretty much everything listed under personality. Just some are not to the degree that it's insinuating. I'm not in denial either lol. 🙂

personally, I'm cold if you don't turn me on. If you don't excite me or make me feel some type of way, at most I'll be indifferent to you. I don't like wasting my time being annoyed with pettiness, or people I don't want to be around. But I'm always open to people and want to know the 'real person' not the person you project to the world....don't hide things from me, I've got a nose for secrets....I aspire to be your best friend or worst enemy.

I'm quite a fire cracker too, I don't like repetive, or a routine life, becuase I feel stifled by it, and can't grow intellectually/emotionally/spiritually as a result. I'm a journey man at heart and soul, and need to be inspired/summoned by life to grow and change.....I don't like everyday life, and life purely out of my feelings and instincts becuase living life according to the mundane events bores the shit outta me, (which explains my existential depression).

I often feel my best when I'm involved, and engaged, and expressing myself and feeling what I feel to be true, by being true to myself. The things I'm interested in aren't things for everyday conversation, so I'm quiet and introverted....but if they we're I'd be a damned chatterbox!! I am already, but I'm interested in creativity, abstract thinking, new ideas, sex!!!! (Yes, I'm a romantic, and I feel the ONLY way to know someone is to screw em!!), experimentation, and identity, so psychology is right up my alley.

I think people get caught up in the external traping of our natures and ususally see us at our worst and judge us based on our 'everyday appearance'. I think we get a horrible forecasting.....not every truth lies on the surface ya know? Get to know someone for their ambitions, dreams, and motivations and you'll see a person quite unlike what you initially expected.....we're an exciting lot....I'm more complex than what i appear, but so rarely do I meet a person who understands that....people have to get deeper and develop their investigative abilities or else, how can you truly know the Virgo in your life?

I constantly need to be engaged by something, and when I'm not, I'm that 'calm, placid, boring' Virgo that everyone hears/talks about.....I need to be stimulated by ideas, thoughts, and emotions becuase I want to connect with the very essence of life....I want to know what life is like at it's core....I go into everything open-mindedly becuase I want truth, and answers, and won't get them if I'm afraid....so I think I'm rather brave.

Truth be told, I wish I could just strike up a conversation with someone, but I know that people aren't all like that, and I'd rather not come face to face with that disillusionment, but every time in my life when I do become disillusioned (grounded) I bounce back quite fast as an act of will, and have a newly restored faith, and idea of what it was the hurt me.....I know that there is counter culture for every subject, if there's up the down, and up again, ya know so on and so forth is life.

And god knows I'm a powerhouse for sex.....need it, need it, need it!!!! This Virgo IS NOT a prude at all....HOWEVER I'M IDEALISTIC ABOUT IT, and I want it to be done with someone I feel so intensely for that I feel that expressing my deeper emotions would make them want me even more.....I don't like sensitivity becuase it often gets in the way of who I truly am, so despite being hurt, I'm still willing to give it all I got.

I love intimacy, and expressing the 'secret side' of my personality to my lover.....I'm so idealistic about it, that in the end, it's usually me that gets hurt, then I withdraw into a black depression, hating love, and everything that goes with it, go back up into my head and be mr. logical, then, before I know it, I've touched another heart.....ya know, it's just life, so why take it so personally when you get hurt? That's just the way that it is!