What will cause a Virgo walk?

So, given what transpired Tue night (over on the Pisces board), why did the Virgo not run the other way? In general, I would think most guys would have actually. The Virgo has only been seeing me a few weeks, so it's not like he has a lot of history with me or even knows me all that well for that matter. It would have been easy to sever ties. But, he hasn't. And don't say the sex because he's been a gentleman in that respect and hasn't been trying to get in my pants!

You hear people say they would walk under this circumstance or that, are Virgo's more apt to NOT walk when the going gets tough in general or overlook things that are beyond their control? In other words, will they stick it out through thick and thin? What would cause them to walk?

Posted by lildol

The Virgo has only been seeing me a few weeks, so it's not like he has a lot of history with me or even knows me all that well for that matter.

Not yet, but, he will. Virgos aren't stupid and the fact that you are taking him for one is likely going to be worse on your ego than what happens when he realizes the deception.

Posted by lildol

What would cause them to walk?

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See above.


It's coming ... and you have no clue .. you actually think you are completely innocent in all this as you set him up for public humiliation.



Oh yeah .... flies are lucky bastards !!!!!

Don't know where you get I set him up for humiliation, it's not like we had plans to even get together that night. He left wherever he was at to come see me. I don't frequent different places, I only hang out at one. I met the Virgo there about 2 months ago and he declared it "our spot" after we started dating 3 weeks ago - and I was in there almost daily with the Virgo, the staff like him and are glad to see me with someone finally. I've been going in since they opened about a year ago and they've never seen me with anyone other than friends. And as I said, I don't think Mr. Pisces ever even set foot in there, he refused to go with me when I was dating him and told me it was off limits for me to go to there (or anywhere for that matter).

Back to the topic at hand please!!!

Posted by lildol

I made it clear when he showed up Sat night I was no longer interested in him and that I was seeing someone else. Hello, I'm seeing someone else, I don't see multiple men at the same time - and that I told him also. I know Pisces live in/for fantasy, but this one is in psycho la la land.

Just putting this here so the Virgos understand what I'm talking about ... the above, where you told the Pisces that you're seeing another man .. yeah, that came AFTER you are caught out with another man .. you tell him this at the scene, Virgo sitting there, ready to get humiliated, unbeknownst to him.

Posted by lildol

I was out with the Virguy I've been seeing for the past 3 wks and guess who shows up - Mr. Pisces. He comes in to where Virguy and I were (he knows I hang out there) which means he drove by my house and given that I wasn't home went in search of me. Came in and demanded I leave, I of course said no and then he dumps Virguy's beer in his lap, says that I'm his girlfriend, busts Virguy's sunglasses and turns and walks away.

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You admitted on the Pisces board that you and Pisces had talked recently and you rubbed his hand, or arm, or maybe let him rub yours ... I'll go back and check.

Anyway, the point is .. you never formerly broke up with Pisces, you recently left the impression with Pisces that you are still there, and then began a relationship with Virgo.

You didn't call Pisces and tell him where you were at that very moment, which is the basis of your argument ... however, you are indeed guilty of being the one to embarrass Virgo because prior to this Saturday night, you told Pisces there was someone else, without actually breaking up ... so he knew there was foul play.

Thus far, Virgo doesn't know you .. and doesn't realize your game. He will though, and god help you then.

Posted by lildol

Had lunch and spent about 4 hrs w/ Virguy. He didn't ask me to explain myself or define for him what my current relationship was with Mr. Pisces. He did talk a lot about how Mr. Pisces was a nut job though and can't believe I was with a guy like that. Given that I am in the middle here he believes I brought it on and I owed him a new pair of sun glasses - so I did replace them - he did choose what was probably the least expensive pair, only $ 80. He did say in the sunglass store that it wasn't my fault that the glasses got broken but that out of principle it was the right thing for me to do. Whatever makes you happy! He did keep wanting to buy me things in the mall though, after all, he said, I paid for his sunglasses.

You know what ... after further thought, I've come to the realization that all of this has been a fabrication, I guess it's your need for attention.

Because a Virgo wouldn't play this with you .. he wouldn't KNOW there's a game going on and laugh with you about it.

I have more faith in them than that.


This is all made up.

"Just putting this here so the Virgos understand what I'm talking about ... the above, where you told the Pisces that you're seeing another man .. yeah, that came AFTER you are caught out with another man .. you tell him this at the scene, Virgo sitting there, ready to get humiliated, unbeknownst to him."

Huh? Not at all, I told Pisces Sat, he came hunting me down Tue and I was answering Qs about the Virgo to him Sun? Don't follow!

"You admitted on the Pisces board that you and Pisces had talked recently and you rubbed his hand, or arm, or maybe let him rub yours ... I'll go back and check.

Anyway, the point is .. you never formerly broke up with Pisces, you recently left the impression with Pisces that you are still there, and then began a relationship with Virgo.

You didn't call Pisces and tell him where you were at that very moment, which is the basis of your argument ... however, you are indeed guilty of being the one to embarrass Virgo because prior to this Saturday night, you told Pisces there was someone else, without actually breaking up ... so he knew there was foul play.

Thus far, Virgo doesn't know you .. and doesn't realize your game. He will though, and god help you then."

No, Pisces made it clear we were broken up, we had been since Feb, he even inquired multiple times in phone conversation if i had a new boyfriend yet. I don't get you, he broke it off, it was over, no question about it.

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Posted by lildol

Had lunch and spent about 4 hrs w/ Virguy. He didn't ask me to explain myself or define for him what my current relationship was with Mr. Pisces. He did talk a lot about how Mr. Pisces was a nut job though and can't believe I was with a guy like that. Given that I am in the middle here he believes I brought it on and I owed him a new pair of sun glasses - so I did replace them - he did choose what was probably the least expensive pair, only $ 80. He did say in the sunglass store that it wasn't my fault that the glasses got broken but that out of principle it was the right thing for me to do. Whatever makes you happy! He did keep wanting to buy me things in the mall though, after all, he said, I paid for his sunglasses.

You know what ... after further thought, I've come to the realization that all of this has been a fabrication, I guess it's your need for attention.

Because a Virgo wouldn't play this with you .. he wouldn't KNOW there's a game going on and laugh with you about it.

I have more faith in them than that.


This is all made up.

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P, You know what, you're right, you just answered my question. The Virgo intuitive already knows who I am. As he said yesterday "You're beautiful and a good person".

Back to the topic at hand though, please!!!

Last week I was pretty and he liked me btw, this week (after Pisces drama) I'm beautiful and a good person... honesty pays off ALWAYS!

Doesn't matter.


You are here inquiring, and that in itself is enough.

You were on the Pisces board, crying about him .. and that in itself is enough.

A person who is wanted within their relationship by the other party doesn't have to ask if they are.

Listen to yourself, I never questioned whether I was wanted, I know I'm wanted by Virgo! That is clear in the fact he didn't run the other way after Tue night regardless of anything else. I'm just surprised he didn't, I think most would have given the newness of the relationship. You're just irked that you couldn't get under my skin! And why couldn't you? Because I'm a straight shooter and other than the occasional shaking of my head with some things you say, what you say doesn't register or resonate with me, because you're interpretation of me is false.

Of course it is false .....



And yet, you say that he should have ran away from you Tuesday night ... which proves my assessment was actually correct.



Seriously .... fuck you.