Why do Virgos like Aries so much?

As a Cancer you feel secure with them for some reason?

-They steamroll over people's opinions including Virgo. They will argue with you more than we ever would over something even though you have thought about it much more than they have.
-They are just insulting as Cancer's but get some free pass when they show their ass to yall time and time again. You basically shun us to the deepest part of the ocean and they
are back to humping you within 24 hours
-The Men are usually borderline gross, like their ass and breath stink worse than other signs even if they keep up their hygiene. The women act like they are the life of the party and everyones friend but they are terrible to live with and flat out phonies once you get to know them. Cancer's might be emotional but we aren't phony just to get power.

How would a sign that basically would waller in shit and think it funny somehow capture the heart of a Virgo that is much more refined?

I can understand liking a Capricorn more than a Cancer but seriously do you feel these people truly appreciate you at the end of the day. I mean logically what is attractive about these people? That they are honest about their feelings at all times? Do Virgos not like any mystery at all to romance? They are basically like a doll that just spouts out worthless jabber and you take the batteries out and there is nothing memorable left.

Do Aries basically verbalize what a Virgo wants to say to people? Are they somehow more sorry when they are sorry?

did a virgo girl pick an aries guy over you or something

Posted by DonnaElvira77
I think their trick is being able to speak without sounding insane.

that is true I will give you that. But the overall package.. I mean is it worth it?

Posted by fauxfuchsia
did a virgo girl pick an aries guy over you or something

No but I just see this matchup alot and after dealing with Aries anger from both the men and women it seems to be alot of hateful than mine at its core.

We get it, youre upset but your bad experiences with other aries indiviuls have nothing to do with all aries. Chill.

Posted by HighTide

Posted by fauxfuchsia
did a virgo girl pick an aries guy over you or something

No but I just see this matchup alot and after dealing with Aries anger from both the men and women it seems to be alot of hateful than mine at its core.

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hmm interesting
i can't think of any aries i know except for my mum, so i dont have any virgoan advice for you unfortunately

I guess what I am trying to figure out on how a sign like Aries that is basically aggressive by nature and get more angry more often than we do get a free pass by alot of virgos. I mean what is so scary about our anger that isn't about their's . That we hold it in? We are basically just as petty and a big of a shitass as Aries when we get angry yet we are somehow put into the loony bin in the Virgo mind. Just frustrating.......

The description you gave of Aries just doesnt apply to the majority of Aries I have dealt with, everyone has different experiences with them. Virgos and Aries usually get along rather well because both respect each other's independent spirit, so thats a great basis for a good friendship/relationship. We may not see each other eye to eye on a lot of things, but childish attitude by Aries aside, we do respect each other's commitment to our point of view at the end of the day. I think Virgo finds this childish/childlike attitude of Arians kind of endearing because its pure and unadultered for the most part, Aries simply do not know any better but to be honest and simple, which Virgo appreciates in people enormously. They have their flaws like anyone else, but they have a basic kind of honesty and realness about them that is unmatched with other signs, this is what keeps Virgo giving them the benefit of the doubt, time and time again. Aries simply dont know how to be manipulative or mean-spirited, Virgos hate having to deal with people who are manipulative, deceitful, two-faced. Not that we dont know how to play that game and beat them at it, cause we really do know how to if we want to, but if we have a choice, we would rather deal with more honest people, its what we strive to be for ourselves, we dont feel good otherwise.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
The description you gave of Aries just doesnt apply to the majority of Aries I have dealt with, everyone has different experiences with them. Virgos and Aries usually get along rather well because both respect each other's independent spirit, so thats a great basis for a good friendship/relationship. We may not see each other eye to eye on a lot of things, but childish attitude by Aries aside, we do respect each other's commitment to our point of view at the end of the day. I think Virgo finds this childish/childlike attitude of Arians kind of endearing because its pure and unadultered for the most part, Aries simply do not know any better but to be honest and simple, which Virgo appreciates in people enormously. They have their flaws like anyone else, but they have a basic kind of honesty and realness about them that is unmatched with other signs, this is what keeps Virgo giving them the benefit of the doubt, time and time again. Aries simply dont know how to be manipulative or mean-spirited, Virgos hate having to deal with people who are manipulative, deceitful, two-faced. Not that we dont know how to play that game and beat them at it, cause we really do know how to if we want to, but if we have a choice, we would rather deal with more honest people, its what we strive to be for ourselves, we dont feel good otherwise.

Really that was an excellent answer. I am manipulative and mean-spirited at the end of the day but its more of a protection mechanism and I can see how a Virgo would not want to deal with that.

Posted by HighTide
I guess what I am trying to figure out on how a sign like Aries that is basically aggressive by nature and get more angry more often than we do get a free pass by alot of virgos. I mean what is so scary about our anger that isn't about their's . That we hold it in? We are basically just as petty and a big of a shitass as Aries when we get angry yet we are somehow put into the loony bin in the Virgo mind. Just frustrating.......

Aries (not all) do have a reputation for getting over things fast. I dont think people take our anger seriously. They probably see it as a child throwing a tantrum. Based upon what ive seen, cancer (not all) rage give me possible serial killer vibes... sorry. I mean... I did read that cancers are most likely to be serial killers.

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Posted by HighTide
I guess what I am trying to figure out on how a sign like Aries that is basically aggressive by nature and get more angry more often than we do get a free pass by alot of virgos. I mean what is so scary about our anger that isn't about their's . That we hold it in? We are basically just as petty and a big of a shitass as Aries when we get angry yet we are somehow put into the loony bin in the Virgo mind. Just frustrating.......

Aries (not all) do have a reputation for getting over things fast. I dont think people take our anger seriously. They probably see it as a child throwing a tantrum. Based upon what ive seen, cancer (not all) rage give me possible serial killer vibes... sorry. I mean... I did read that cancers are most likely to be serial killers.

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If a Cancer was a serial killer it would be most likely because he was hurt and he probably would be caught fast as the guilt would eat him alive and he /she would feel remorse later on.

Gemini's are actually the most dangerous serial killer from a victim standpoint if you want the absolute worst last minutes on earth. They are the least likely to be one but you would rather have a Cancer kill you than them if that was the case lol.

Mutable signs are what you need to worry about not Cardinals in that case 🙂

Posted by DonnaElvira77
Op reading your posts you come across as slightly ...creepy. Just off.

im using this quote as my new tagline

im gone now, peace

Posted by Rambunctious76

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Posted by HighTide
I guess what I am trying to figure out on how a sign like Aries that is basically aggressive by nature and get more angry more often than we do get a free pass by alot of virgos. I mean what is so scary about our anger that isn't about their's . That we hold it in? We are basically just as petty and a big of a shitass as Aries when we get angry yet we are somehow put into the loony bin in the Virgo mind. Just frustrating.......

Aries (not all) do have a reputation for getting over things fast. I dont think people take our anger seriously. They probably see it as a child throwing a tantrum. Based upon what ive seen, cancer (not all) rage give me possible serial killer vibes... sorry. I mean... I did read that cancers are most likely to be serial killers.

Actually Cancers are more likely to commit crimes of passion rather than multiple murders.

Cancer placements are also noted for repressing anger to explosive levels.

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Oh. I knew it was something like that. When cancers do show "anger" or hurt, it's still really frightening and you can see that theyre capable of doing something crazy. Some peopke ive talked to have said the samething. Even when they go on rants its scary.

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Posted by HighTide
I guess what I am trying to figure out on how a sign like Aries that is basically aggressive by nature and get more angry more often than we do get a free pass by alot of virgos. I mean what is so scary about our anger that isn't about their's . That we hold it in? We are basically just as petty and a big of a shitass as Aries when we get angry yet we are somehow put into the loony bin in the Virgo mind. Just frustrating.......

Aries (not all) do have a reputation for getting over things fast. I dont think people take our anger seriously. They probably see it as a child throwing a tantrum. Based upon what ive seen, cancer (not all) rage give me possible serial killer vibes... sorry. I mean... I did read that cancers are most likely to be serial killers.

Actually Cancers are more likely to commit crimes of passion rather than multiple murders.

Cancer placements are also noted for repressing anger to explosive levels.

Oh. I knew it was something like that. When cancers do show "anger" or hurt, it's still really frightening and you can see that theyre capable of doing something crazy. Some peopke ive talked to have said the samething. Even when they go on rants its scary.

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@HighTide

I have to say that the few Aries Ive known have been nothing like the stereotype. They have been kind, insightful, fun and intelligent... I am always perplexed at the zodiacal typing because I don't think Ive ever met that aries we all read about, though I hear the exist.

Aries and Virgo are inconjunct (quincunx). Don't mess with a quincunx connection.

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Posted by HighTide
I guess what I am trying to figure out on how a sign like Aries that is basically aggressive by nature and get more angry more often than we do get a free pass by alot of virgos. I mean what is so scary about our anger that isn't about their's . That we hold it in? We are basically just as petty and a big of a shitass as Aries when we get angry yet we are somehow put into the loony bin in the Virgo mind. Just frustrating.......

Aries (not all) do have a reputation for getting over things fast. I dont think people take our anger seriously. They probably see it as a child throwing a tantrum. Based upon what ive seen, cancer (not all) rage give me possible serial killer vibes... sorry. I mean... I did read that cancers are most likely to be serial killers.

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yeah cancer's not doing so well lately in my book
my friend who has cancer moon, and cancer dominant chart (i think she has a stellium) really cut me up tonight and has previously as well
also saw a cancer sun friend today, and talking with him is like, well there is so much deep emotion in his eyes which scares me, and it's a different kind of emotional intensity to scorpio (which i love, probably because of my own scorpio placements), it's just idk, hard to deal with
it's like, what am i going to do with your emotions, they're spilling everywhere and sometimes hurting people in the process

but on the other side i love how supportive and sweet cancers can be, when they're not in a negative state, and in a really good mood

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Posted by Gooober

Posted by HighTide
I guess what I am trying to figure out on how a sign like Aries that is basically aggressive by nature and get more angry more often than we do get a free pass by alot of virgos. I mean what is so scary about our anger that isn't about their's . That we hold it in? We are basically just as petty and a big of a shitass as Aries when we get angry yet we are somehow put into the loony bin in the Virgo mind. Just frustrating.......

Aries (not all) do have a reputation for getting over things fast. I dont think people take our anger seriously. They probably see it as a child throwing a tantrum. Based upon what ive seen, cancer (not all) rage give me possible serial killer vibes... sorry. I mean... I did read that cancers are most likely to be serial killers.

yeah cancer's not doing so well lately in my book
my friend who has cancer moon, and cancer dominant chart (i think she has a stellium) really cut me up tonight and has previously as well
also saw a cancer sun friend today, and talking with him is like, well there is so much deep emotion in his eyes which scares me, and it's a different kind of emotional intensity to scorpio (which i love, probably because of my own scorpio placements), it's just idk, hard to deal with
it's like, what am i going to do with your emotions, they're spilling everywhere and sometimes hurting people in the process

but on the other side i love how supportive and sweet cancers can be, when they're not in a negative state, and in a really good mood

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Yeah. I also like the honest and logical cancers. The others, I can't deal with.

A Cancer thinking and whining like they're better than everybody else. You're not.

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Posted by HighTide
I guess what I am trying to figure out on how a sign like Aries that is basically aggressive by nature and get more angry more often than we do get a free pass by alot of virgos. I mean what is so scary about our anger that isn't about their's . That we hold it in? We are basically just as petty and a big of a shitass as Aries when we get angry yet we are somehow put into the loony bin in the Virgo mind. Just frustrating.......

Aries (not all) do have a reputation for getting over things fast. I dont think people take our anger seriously. They probably see it as a child throwing a tantrum. Based upon what ive seen, cancer (not all) rage give me possible serial killer vibes... sorry. I mean... I did read that cancers are most likely to be serial killers.

If a Cancer was a serial killer it would be most likely because he was hurt and he probably would be caught fast as the guilt would eat him alive and he /she would feel remorse later on.

Gemini's are actually the most dangerous serial killer from a victim standpoint if you want the absolute worst last minutes on earth. They are the least likely to be one but you would rather have a Cancer kill you than them if that was the case lol.

Mutable signs are what you need to worry about not Cardinals in that case 🙂

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Sags would be the serial killers. Also mutable.

Every 5th sign after your own Sun sign has magnetic power of attraction toward it.

(5 signs after Aries is Virgo)
Cancer have pull on Sags
Leo's pull Caps
Virgos pull Aquas
On and on and on...
Oh and
Aquas pull Cancer's

I dnt know why but Aries seem to pull me in even when I'm not that into them, maybe it's because the 5 th sign behind your own isn't that much attracted towards you, so it's maybe the ego of bring rejected by them...personally I'm not into another body so different from me but they do intrigue me.

I find Ram men annoying. Too caveman like

I actually prefer Cancers over Cappies.

Jussayin.