Would Virgo and Aries relation work?

We got hot and cold.
Its like I have a big ego and his as well.
He liked me I liked him now i think he hates me.

me 21.03.1990 Lodz, Poland

him 10.09.1989 Lodz, Poland

synastry

we have moon in capricorn
i have mercury in aries he has mercury in libra.

Posted by Huldra
For a second I thought you were attempting to date Damnata. It can work beautifully between the two sun signs anyway.

And hello, birthday twin!

hahah hello Oksana 🙂

im so worried about a relation between me and him 😢
can you see something bad here?

hey, sorry for that 😢
Because on the forum it is more visible than the 'real name' on the grey stripe. dont know why actually. maybe because its on the white background.. 🙂
Thank you I will ask Damnata 😉

I guess?

Aries are my second biggest group of people among the Fire Signs. My Dad, My Son, My Cousin and My 2 friends. The only problem is I don't have any female Aries friends or any experience with them. But hopefully I can still give you some insight how i view Aries peeps.

Just ask 🙂

Hello Nathan912,
coul dyou tell me how your relationships with Aries work? Do you turn hot and cold quickly?

its stupid of me to ask it but : do you think that Virgo men can change from 'shy' to very independent, bad boy?
Is that man able to 'forget' his women? How is like this?
because maybe i just met a 'bad boy' or it was a misunderstanding between us ( like I post in a previous topic).

its been 4 months since our encounter and later on everytime we met up he seemed offended?, irritated? frustrated when I was around? Even on his bday ( he invited me over) he didnt thank me for a present, friends were like : whats going on, its weird, weird atmosphere.

then i felt lost and he pulled away .
before he only was inviting me over for before parties with his buddies- i felt so bad- maybe i shouldnt ?
i dont know.
i was so offended inside my heart like he would hurt my 'trust' feelings. i know we didnt say anything like : OK WERE IN LOVE LETS GET MARRIED- I dont want this.

but he didnt even meet up to clear things...heh.
i felt so bad. i was analysing 2 weeks then i started noot to care and when i did it he started again talking to me on parties bla bla.
but i was 'hurt' inside that 'one of my friends' didnt want to talk to me normally - weve known each other for more than a year and he treated me like an 'easy girl'.

:/

then i started to talk with his friends. one of them- taurus girl who is actually a friend of mine as well- told me he is shy and its stupid for him we did it because now he doesnt know how to behave and he thinks im stressed out.
but i was like : wow why does she tell it instead of him. and she was like : because he never tells it.......... and hes shy inside 😐

for me its a behaviour of an a**hole.

then when he flew abroad to work his best friend from high school told me i rejected that guy. and i was like : what i didnt reject. i didnt see signs of something more. a guy didnt want to meet up and clear things. i was the one who was sending messages and texting him.. he didnt treat me with respect......

and his bf told me that in this age- boys are very imature and they do things differently. and its me who dont see signs of interest...........

so now im very confused 🙂

probably yes and i just cant deal with it :/

Posted by karina
Hello Nathan912,
coul dyou tell me how your relationships with Aries work? Do you turn hot and cold quickly?

All the aries I know are my hunting buddies, my dad, my cousin and two friends, my son is also an aries but he's too young to shoot a gun but i allow him to walk with me in the woods.

My aries cousin and my two other aries friends and I may go to 3 weeks or more weeks without contacting each other but I don't mean we hate each other, It means we have our own life to focus on and we have our own business to mind. I don't consider that as hot/cold behavior. If all of us have free time we spend together.

The typical Aries is too thoughtless for the average Virgo, in terms of having a serious relationship.

In where the Ram jumps first, to think later about their actions, is like poison to the Virgo .... who is all about thinking and analyzing before taking action. Over time, this ridiculous trait of the Ram will turn the Virgo away in disgust.

However, the Ram has a high a sex drive ... and so the Virgo will tolerate how stupid the Aries is with refusing to (think first), so long as he's getting ass.

And considering Aries doesn't actually think about what they are doing, they will open their legs for a long time before it ever dawns on them that they are suppose to have integrity ... and the Virgo will ride that train for as long as she's still that fool.

So, the answer is yes and no.

No, there is no connection based on values and standards.

Yes, he'll be right next to you, so long as you continue to stroke his dick. And this is probably true of most men, considering all men like easy pussy, and Aries fits that bill.

im 21.03 aries - my sister is aries as wellbut she is 11.04- were totally different.......
im the 'example' of aries. she seems so different than me. even thought she is younger ( 2yeras) than me she seems more mature and knows how to behave. dont know why.

and i? i feel so lost inside. whenever i meet someone i meet 'lost' guys, lost men. the same as me.

in March i met a guy who was very intelligent but so lost with problems.

this Virgo man also has problems maybe even depression and he is shy and ehh
dont know what to do.....

😢

Might work. I used to work with a lot of Aries at my old job and I would find them running over all the work I would put into perfecting things, and they would get impatient with me making everything perfect and orderly.

I have aries bestfriends. twins. we fight a lot but I love them very much. I have known for 7 years, I pretty much spent my teenage years with them up until now in college. Now we're 3 hours plane ride apart.

The first couple of years was a disaster. I felt like everyday I see them was like we first met. And I had to work out the stranger vibe back to bestfriend kind of vibe. we fought alot. maybe because we're young.

We don't contact as much now since we're busy with studies, but it doesnt do any harm to the friendship, theyre still the first person id see when I'm back home.

Maybe the thing you're feeling right now is exactly the same way he's feeling towards you.
Me and my aries friends both wanted to reach out but can't seem to find the way and end up with assumptions, since I'm quite okay with shedding my egos. the relationship work just fine 🙂
Of course its just a friendship, I've never dated an aries, but I figured out I should share it. 🙂

In my exp it's only good in the sheets or short term... virgo doesn't wanna continually stroke the Ram's ego or entertain their random passions every min...

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Posted by CrosstownTraffic
airies females do not know how to keep secrets.....does not work

they also like to hide things from you (aries traited)

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True!!!!

Posted by CrosstownTraffic
airies females do not know how to keep secrets.....does not work

Yes!!! My scorpio Venus can't stand that! And my Scorpio mars gets hurt and angry because of it and we fight. That's why even though I'm an aries moon and could technically get along with them, I don't really befriend them because I'm a lot more sensitive.

Posted by karina
We got hot and cold.
Its like I have a big ego and his as well.
He liked me I liked him now i think he hates me.

me 21.03.1990 Lodz, Poland

him 10.09.1989 Lodz, Poland

synastry

I have 2 kids by one I hate him we always argue he ignores me he is demanding and a lot more but anyways it just may be the one I had I'm with a good cancer now so

Posted by karina
😢

They are secretive it was deep for real the secret he told

Damnata is the bestest when it comes to Viries/Argo relationships. You should ask her.

It seems to work pretty well according to some.

I asked Damnata but she didnt anserw for my private message😢