Update - online dating: Aries/Virgo

Hello lovely Aries.

So. The one I was interested in started to fade in interest because for whatever reason he won't exchange phone numbers.

He will chat frequently online or through email but I've never dealt with that before.

Just a bit ago he asked to meet & go for a night walk (I told him I love night walks by the lake near my house). Neither of us have cars so I was weary. The place he wanted to meet would be a mile from my home & it's 1AM here. I told him I loved the spontaneity but didn't feel that was right since I didn't have his number & didn't want to get lost.

He abruptly said good night and that was that; which was odd to me since usually he says sappy sweet things like "good night sugar/baby/honey" etc. and delays going to bed until I say something just as sappy back.

Is this normal Aries behavior? And what's up with the number thing? Any advice appreciated.

(Though I think I may let this one fall to the wayside....)

+1 Impuls

Be careful with the online dating thing, it's fun but be wary of men that don't exchange personal information and want to meet in a secluded place in the AM morning hours. #Creepyguy

I don't believe he's married because he readily exchanged emails & Facebook but it IS a red flag that he didn't seem concerned regarding me not having a number to contact him while doing the favor of MEETING him!

Thank you ladies. It just helps sometimes to see your rationale delivered. Who the heck doesn't exchange phone numbers?

Thank you all for the input & kind words. Everything posted here is absolutely correct in reply.

I guess it's on to the next one!

I will tell you a little story..back when I met a lot of people from online dating.

I once spoke with a French guy...very polite and all. I won a contest with 2 friends of mine and we went to Paris. I told him I'd come and he suggested we meet. I asked him for a phone number to give my friends if they wanted to be in contact with me and he suddenly flipped, started hurling insults at me.."what kind of man do you think I am? A serial killer?"...he got extremely mad. I told him we will no longer meet and we never spoke again.

Take care...you just don't know how insane some people are until you meet up with them..and that may be your last night on earth. Not to get into gory stories but you should always err on the side of caution.

Good thing you didn't go. Some people aren't what they seem on dating sites.

You guys are all wonderful! Nope he wrote me this morning but I'm noooooooo longer interested. I feel disrespected & when that happens to a Virgo it's a WRAP! Lol

^^ That's good!, it's best that you move on. It's weird that he didn't give you a number and like everyone else said you never really know who people are on dating sites these days. Also it's best to find someone who makes you feel respected.