En1gmaLeo
@En1gmaLeo
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Why was he so emotional, what just happened
Typo. He agreed and said *ok to me leaving the door open
No, it's not you, it's him. He isn't over his ex....How long were they together for, and when did they actually break up?
He is not ready to commit. If he gets there he will come back. Time will tell
Posted by Undine
No, it's not you, it's him. He isn't over his ex....How long were they together for, and when did they actually break up?
They were together for 2 years. She broke up with him mid January.
hmmmm, leave the door open but don't hold back from getting out there and having fun - i'd be at least trying to see/find out if he's back seeing her or someone else - if he's truly trying to get his head straight he would remain alone - only time will tell but you handled it well and I'm sorry he's not emotionally ready for you
Posted by tctaap
hmmmm, leave the door open but don't hold back from getting out there and having fun - i'd be at least trying to see/find out if he's back seeing her or someone else - if he's truly trying to get his head straight he would remain alone - only time will tell but you handled it well and I'm sorry he's not emotionally ready for you
Thanks. My intuition says he'd like to " touch base" with his x, but he knows it won't work. His logic may prevail when he clears his head. Like u say, time will tell. I'm not holding my breath, but I'm in shock that things changed so fast, from being lovers together most of the time, to nothing, over a few days I'm a leo, I will get on with my life, I just know I won't be looking for another man for a short time. Unless one falls in my lap of course.
Posted by En1gmaLeoPosted by tctaap
hmmmm, leave the door open but don't hold back from getting out there and having fun - i'd be at least trying to see/find out if he's back seeing her or someone else - if he's truly trying to get his head straight he would remain alone - only time will tell but you handled it well and I'm sorry he's not emotionally ready for you
Thanks. My intuition says he'd like to " touch base" with his x, but he knows it won't work. His logic may prevail when he clears his head. Like u say, time will tell. I'm not holding my breath, but I'm in shock that things changed so fast, from being lovers together most of the time, to nothing, over a few days I'm a leo, I will get on with my life, I just know I won't be looking for another man for a short time. Unless one falls in my lap of course.click to expand
I swear the older I get the more unavailable men are emotionally these days - more so than women of course ... it blows chunks
Posted by tctaapPosted by En1gmaLeoPosted by tctaap
hmmmm, leave the door open but don't hold back from getting out there and having fun - i'd be at least trying to see/find out if he's back seeing her or someone else - if he's truly trying to get his head straight he would remain alone - only time will tell but you handled it well and I'm sorry he's not emotionally ready for you
Thanks. My intuition says he'd like to " touch base" with his x, but he knows it won't work. His logic may prevail when he clears his head. Like u say, time will tell. I'm not holding my breath, but I'm in shock that things changed so fast, from being lovers together most of the time, to nothing, over a few days I'm a leo, I will get on with my life, I just know I won't be looking for another man for a short time. Unless one falls in my lap of course.
I swear the older I get the more unavailable men are emotionally these days - more so than women of course ... it blows chunksclick to expand
I know right. It's just rediculous. I've just turned 45, the past is the past for me. I've learnt love and forgiveness, mostly for myself. I just wish this confused feeling would go away
Talked to friend. His bday is the day after the man in question, he gave me my answer
"The thought of hurting you mostly and grieving the loss. He, like myself is obviously an empath my dear..... We can be a confusing lot. It doesn't get much deeper than that."
I feel less confused now
"The thought of hurting you mostly and grieving the loss. He, like myself is obviously an empath my dear..... We can be a confusing lot. It doesn't get much deeper than that."
I feel less confused now
Posted by En1gmaLeoPosted by tctaapPosted by En1gmaLeoPosted by tctaap
hmmmm, leave the door open but don't hold back from getting out there and having fun - i'd be at least trying to see/find out if he's back seeing her or someone else - if he's truly trying to get his head straight he would remain alone - only time will tell but you handled it well and I'm sorry he's not emotionally ready for you
Thanks. My intuition says he'd like to " touch base" with his x, but he knows it won't work. His logic may prevail when he clears his head. Like u say, time will tell. I'm not holding my breath, but I'm in shock that things changed so fast, from being lovers together most of the time, to nothing, over a few days I'm a leo, I will get on with my life, I just know I won't be looking for another man for a short time. Unless one falls in my lap of course.
I swear the older I get the more unavailable men are emotionally these days - more so than women of course ... it blows chunks
I know right. It's just rediculous. I've just turned 45, the past is the past for me. I've learnt love and forgiveness, mostly for myself. I just wish this confused feeling would go awayclick to expand
the confusion is normal of course, when someone else seems to be the one that imposed it - of course we look inward but the reality is that he is not in the same place you are - unfortunate yes, but nothing you did
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