You Broke my heart again :(

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shit just when i thought you loved me . . . when you were alone and everyone left your ass you asked for my hand i gave it to you coz i still felt you didnt deserve all the sadness. . . said yes to all your demands. now that you're ok and whole again. you went back to being an ass again . . you broke my heart again 😢 fuck you. if they leave you dry again im not gonna be there anymore.

next please.

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shit just when i thought you loved me . . . when you were alone and everyone left your ass you asked for my hand i gave it to you coz i still felt you didnt deserve all the sadness. . . said yes to all your demands. now that you're ok and whole again. you went back to being an ass again . . you broke my heart again 😢 fuck you. if they leave you dry again im not gonna be there anymore.

next please.



That's right...be an ass right back. You don't need anyone taking advantage of you.
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Virgos and libras don't mix well,but if you find another one,make sure he has gemini moon..alot of libra planets...a fire Venus and mars..to fan that air....oh damn that's me..lol..😉



Really? I beg to differ Mr. 69! 😛 maybe it's because I have alot of Libra in my chart...I get along with them well.



How much libra is on your secret chart miss real?) lol .. I kinda like that Mr.69.😛
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Hahahahaha!!! I choose not to divulge that info...I'm still a Virgo!!! 😛 Just know that my chart is mostly airy & Earthy, with a lil' fire! Put it to your imagination! Mr. 69...*naughty grin* 🙂
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Virgos and libras don't mix well,but if you find another one,make sure he has gemini moon..alot of libra planets...a fire Venus and mars..to fan that air....oh damn that's me..lol..😉



Really? I beg to differ Mr. 69! 😛 maybe it's because I have alot of Libra in my chart...I get along with them well.

Look out RT, we got a grenade on our hands😉
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Upppppp!!!
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I never did go toe to toe with a Virgo...I wonder what thats like?



with my virgo. . . .you have to have a strong heart and over the top self confident. . .coz once they break you down eventhough you know you're good as who you are as a person but he really will motherfucking kill your sense of self worth once he regained his strength again ( of course im not ashamed to say he stood up with the help of me!! yes ME the one who gave a fuck when no one else does 😢 )


I now he will come back again once he knows im the only one who can accept his shit. i just hope my heart would stay firm as a rock to say no.i deserve to be happy too.

NOOOO!!!!


haha i love you dxp guys/girls you make me feel happy when i get into shit like this. Please P-Angel spare me from the tongue lashing i know youve got that virgo hook thing. Let me be sad and pathetic for one day.

Don't worry Tomorrow ill be ok and be a libra bitch again.
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Libra08 put his chart up,let's have a look see...check this guy out.



all i know is his birthday i dont know his birth time. i never asked coz he would like go ape shit and think im doing investigative thing whatever he may think hahaha

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Time unknown
Sun Virgo 10.06
Moon Leo 22.58
Mercury Virgo 7.21
Venus Libra 25.57
Mars Capricorn 14.31
Jupiter Pisces 18.56 R
Saturn Sagittarius 3.38
Uranus Sagittarius 18.22
Neptune Capricorn 3.05 R
Pluto Scorpio 5.14
Lilith Gemini 20.58
Asc node Aries 21.21
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Death did them part...



Oh wow 😢 sorry to hear that.

Thanks RT😢 they were an odd couple I must say in so many ways. People back in the day had a sense of loyalty to one another. They had their Gemini vs. Virgo moments but mom (Gemini) always won!
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Well of course she won, she's a woman 😉. Women are always right over their mates. 😛
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PLus they're all squares, no shaved down edges to rollllllllll 🙂




🙂 thanks . . yeah i need to go roll my ass up and go find some fast running sags to roll with i need the exercise anyways.


Aries go faster and provide better free entertainment when they crash into things imo.
They so dumb, but it's endearing !
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haha yeah those rams are darn cute. they hate my brains though they say it has too much info in it.
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Libra08 put his chart up,let's have a look see...check this guy out.



all i know is his birthday i dont know his birth time. i never asked coz he would like go ape shit and think im doing investigative thing whatever he may think hahaha

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Time unknown
Sun Virgo 10.06
Moon Leo 22.58
Mercury Virgo 7.21
Venus Libra 25.57
Mars Capricorn 14.31
Jupiter Pisces 18.56 R
Saturn Sagittarius 3.38
Uranus Sagittarius 18.22
Neptune Capricorn 3.05 R
Pluto Scorpio 5.14
Lilith Gemini 20.58
Asc node Aries 21.21

IMO..its the Mercury and sun placements that make for a stubborn Virgo, mixed with a very ego oriented moon, doesnt help matters. Not liking the Venus in Libra either, it would have helped if he had Cancer or Pisces in Venus, soften him up a bit. The water placements that he does have, are in week areas.
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yeah i also have venus in libra plus a moon in taurus so yeah we were really meant to be fucked up in the first place. love can really make you go blind.
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@RT: My dad was a Virgo, he became very uncomfortable around emotion and teary eyed shit...took him alot to say I love you🙂 I dont know how Pisceans deal with Virgos, Pisces are supposed to be affectionate and love it in return.



Hell, I don't know how we deal with they're asses! Dreamland all day. My Sis is a Pisces & we were watching a movie together that was not at all sad to me, a romance. I look over @ her & she is crying all over the damn place...smh. I was like, are you effing kidding me? How do you get tears from this? I got so frustrated...lol.
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ok now i know he's an asshole but do you think i should say this to virgo that " hey im over you now. i want us to be friends and i want to date someone else now so im just telling you this out of respect and so you wouldnt hear it from someone else. . you are great a person its just that we dont work out well together"

or just do the "im having fun and i dont owe him any explanation thing"

he sent me a message " i know things are going fine now. im just here if you need me"
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this thread is such a coincidence, i'm in the process of breaking up with my libra.

@libra08, please dont kill me.,i haven't done it yet.
the problem with my Libra is that she's
just so boring..(her parents are virgo). She doesn't challenge or excite me.

also, she's always trying to make peace, and balance everything which often result to her taking crap from people (this drives me to the wall)

I'm still looking for the positives about her but i think she's better for someone else. still analysing....
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@25thDecan..,thanks a lot. those were wise and "eye-opening" words. i respect you for that.

the funny thing about our relationship is that
when she's turned on or feel excited. i always have a contradicting feeling and
when i'm turned on or feel excited. she has the same feeling.
when we try to meet half way, one of us head up falling off the rope or pretending (she usually does this).

whenever i try and light her fire. i usually end up being patronising but she doesn't mind.
so when i have succeeded in lightning up her world, she "flies up to sky, full of emotions and sexy thoughts". that time you can really see her star shine.---> this is where i usually messes up because i can't reach up to her or understand her level of excitement or euphoria. we usually end the night with her complaining about me not being up to "enjoy with the moment with her" and i end up arguing that initiated the fun thing. she doesn't just do it the way i like it.


i would like to be over but .....
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@25thDecan..,thanks a lot. those were wise and "eye-opening" words. i respect you for that.

the funny thing about our relationship is that
when she's turned on or feel excited. i always have a contradicting feeling and
when i'm turned on or feel excited. she has the same feeling.
when we try to meet half way, one of us head up falling off the rope or pretending (she usually does this).

whenever i try and light her fire. i usually end up being patronising but she doesn't mind.
so when i have succeeded in lightning up her world, she "flies up to sky, full of emotions and sexy thoughts". that time you can really see her star shine.---> this is where i usually messes up because i can't reach up to her or understand her level of excitement or euphoria. we usually end the night with her complaining about me not being up to "enjoy with the moment with her" and i end up arguing that initiated the fun thing. she doesn't just do it the way i like it.


i would like to be over but .....



well actually some of the not so good things with me as a libra is i mirror my partner. like whatever my partner is i do coz yeah i avoid conflict. I do some pretty outrageous stuff for him but it would end up him criticizing me. Its like if i do fun stuff he'ld say " i dont like that lets do mine" so we end up doing his stuff that sometimes turns into a bore.

meeting halfway was never in our relationship its always his way or nothing at all.

try talking to her about her interest. maybe you dont ask her about stuff. She has some hidden "fun" things up in her sleeve im sure of it. she just wants you to ask for it. If you think that was her best already. . think again. Watch her interact with her friends or other people. If she has lots of friends who wants to be with her or hear some people say she's great to be with BUT you find her a BORE maybe you missed something.

look in the mirror. thats the key. then act.

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@25thDecan..,thanks a lot. those were wise and "eye-opening" words. i respect you for that.

the funny thing about our relationship is that
when she's turned on or feel excited. i always have a contradicting feeling and
when i'm turned on or feel excited. she has the same feeling.
when we try to meet half way, one of us head up falling off the rope or pretending (she usually does this).

whenever i try and light her fire. i usually end up being patronising but she doesn't mind.
so when i have succeeded in lightning up her world, she "flies up to sky, full of emotions and sexy thoughts". that time you can really see her star shine.---> this is where i usually messes up because i can't reach up to her or understand her level of excitement or euphoria. we usually end the night with her complaining about me not being up to "enjoy with the moment with her" and i end up arguing that initiated the fun thing. she doesn't just do it the way i like it.


i would like to be over but .....




and whats up with the "BUT" thing? you dont want her anymore but what?

DO challenge a libra. . find intellectually stimulating stuff to do. Teach her something new that you're good at and wait for a week or two see how she can keep up to you.

tell her a man always beat a woman at everything. This will definitely unleash her libra bitch in her.

Be prepared to be surprised. And if you do go there Be MAN enough to LOSE.


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yeah, within our first 3 dates. i have noticed that she does whatever i ask her to do.
even when i tested her with the outrageous ones. i have trained her to stand up for herself though and she has changed. 🙂
God, she used to take so much crap from people.

she mirrors me as well, which i don't like sometimes. For example, if i become tense or go into thinking-mode, she does the same. when i'm bored, she said she's bored. I "always" suggest the fun idea and then she will do it. I will ask her as you suggested.

I dont say "i dont like that lets do mine" when she does fun stuff that i dont enjoy.i just simply pretend and go with it. (as long as she's happy)....,but this kills me slowly and secretly though. Usually i back-off slowly and let her enjoy her fun with other people then she complains that we are not doing things together.

one more thing, she's likes to be lonely, so she doesn't have many friends especially female friends. she doesn't do "girly" stuff. This really have a major effect on her. Before i met her, she hardly wears makeup, fixes her hair etc.
she's beautiful though.

she just lacks that fire or initiative. and that's what i adore in a woman
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@25thDecan..,thanks a lot. those were wise and "eye-opening" words. i respect you for that.

the funny thing about our relationship is that
when she's turned on or feel excited. i always have a contradicting feeling and
when i'm turned on or feel excited. she has the same feeling.
when we try to meet half way, one of us head up falling off the rope or pretending (she usually does this).

whenever i try and light her fire. i usually end up being patronising but she doesn't mind.
so when i have succeeded in lightning up her world, she "flies up to sky, full of emotions and sexy thoughts". that time you can really see her star shine.---> this is where i usually messes up because i can't reach up to her or understand her level of excitement or euphoria. we usually end the night with her complaining about me not being up to "enjoy with the moment with her" and i end up arguing that initiated the fun thing. she doesn't just do it the way i like it.


i would like to be over but .....




and whats up with the "BUT" thing? you dont want her anymore but what?

DO challenge a libra. . find intellectually stimulating stuff to do. Teach her something new that you're good at and wait for a week or two see how she can keep up to you.

tell her a man always beat a woman at everything. This will definitely unleash her libra bitch in her.

Be prepared to be surprised. And if you do go there Be MAN enough to LOSE.


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i just saw this message....,strange.

anyway, you said i should challenge her intellectually. i'm not sure if that will work because she has regarded
me as being very smart on numerous occasions. she even said that's one of the reason she likes me.

nonetheless, i will give it a try.

the "BUT" thing has to do with the fact i feel like i'm the one that have to lit the fire in this relationship most of the times and i dont know if i can do it anymore because i feel patronising.
she has change a lot ever since i've met her and i can guess it's all because of me. it just doesn't feel right.
everytime, i feel like i'm pushing. also, do LIBRAS EVER CRITICISE? (always trying to balance the situation)
i always get this constant guilt...

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And dont feel guilty im sure your libra, if you really think its boring you she's double bored with it too, has already thinking about letting go in her head.

Just make sure if you break up with her you dont go back. Youll just get fucked.

When i was young i take back my ex but i always end up not loving them anymore because once you leave me in my mind i know youll do it again so im not gonna give that person the auhority to hurt me again.

my ex would say " you're like air. At first you were a cool breeze and then you turned into a hurricane almost suffocating so i tried going away. But when you left thats when i realized i needed you, I cant survive without you. Ild rather you suffocate me than nothing "

fucked up i know but When i love someone Its all or nothing.