Cusp of Power Mother nervous to conceive!

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I was born on April 24th. I have a son and our relationship is solid, but difficult to the max. He's an aquarius and I find it super hard to relate to him and he's naturally rebellious which gets in the way of harmony in our daily lives. But all in all we're crazy about eachother. He's 6 and wants a sibling. I'm ready for another baby, but I'm nervous. I want to have a child that will grow to have a bond with me that is most harmonious. I love my son to death, but we will never relate on certain things that inspire passion in me. As a person acknowledging that he will one day be an adult with passions of his own, I know what this means... =/. My hope is that he will at least always trust me to help him with what I can and that our relationship, though rocky now will improve with age.

I pretty much just want a child that isn't so difficult. I, myself, was an easy child. I remember those years. My memories and testimonies of others have confirmed it. I think of the contrast with my own son often.

One kid with a rebellious streak is enough! I usually have to trick him or talk to him as an adult before he will listen and even then, he skips to his own beat. It's difficult because he's not changeable the majority of the time. He refuses to see other POVs. He's extremely intelligent though. It's insane.

I've been scouring the internet for a good mother-child relationship where the mother was also born on the cusp of power to no avail. Maybe I'm being to anal about this, but I do not want another aquarius. I don't even get along with adult aquarius. In fact, we are more like mortal enemies...
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I suspected as much. I'm so strong willed and strong-minded in general so this is something important to me. I want another child, but I think that I should adopt. My intuition upon actually meeting a person or child is nearly always spot on. I'm still curious to see if a match even comes up though. I literally haven't found even 1 relationship on any forum I've visited. If they exist, they're being elusive. I may even have the urge fulfilled by a little prodigy. Eh, who knows.
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I was born on April 24th. I have a son and our relationship is solid, but difficult to the max. He's an aquarius and I find it super hard to relate to him and he's naturally rebellious which gets in the way of harmony in our daily lives. But all in all we're crazy about eachother. He's 6 and wants a sibling. I'm ready for another baby, but I'm nervous. I want to have a child that will grow to have a bond with me that is most harmonious. I love my son to death, but we will never relate on certain things that inspire passion in me. As a person acknowledging that he will one day be an adult with passions of his own, I know what this means... =/. My hope is that he will at least always trust me to help him with what I can and that our relationship, though rocky now will improve with age.

I pretty much just want a child that isn't so difficult. I, myself, was an easy child. I remember those years. My memories and testimonies of others have confirmed it. I think of the contrast with my own son often.

One kid with a rebellious streak is enough! I usually have to trick him or talk to him as an adult before he will listen and even then, he skips to his own beat. It's difficult because he's not changeable the majority of the time. He refuses to see other POVs. He's extremely intelligent though. It's insane.

I've been scouring the internet for a good mother-child relationship where the mother was also born on the cusp of power to no avail. Maybe I'm being to anal about this, but I do not want another aquarius. I don't even get along with adult aquarius. In fact, we are more like mortal enemies...
um just be patient and love your baby.

loving your child is an emotion, feeling remember?? don't "think" about this and "think" about what if this and that....just take it as life comes.