scorpioconfusedbytaurus
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Taurus man confusing scorpio woman-HELP please!!!
i was going to respond to this and then i thought "nah, fuck it. new year, new me".
I hear you are excited about him and really like him haha. He's overwhelmed and still trying to give you what you want! What's the problem here?! You both said you are committed to each other and seem to walk the talk soooooo you have to ask yourself, "Am I acting irrationally? Am I going to let my insecurity ruin a good thing??" Relax and be grateful for what you have for a min and think about if there is really something to question. My thought is no.
I’m a scorp lady myself and happily in love w my bull. I think you are just looking into things way too much! Over analysing everything rather than living in the moment and enjoying the time spent together! My bull makes me a priority and always incorporate me with his family time also. We always find time to make it work I think it all depends on how u guys value each other also— I’m madly in love with mine! Never a dull moment... so attracted like crazily attracted and deeply connected with my bull. Everything is so intense and passionate with us no such thing as half arsed connection 😘.
Posted by dilettante
do not blame your insecurity on being a scorpio.
you are expecting too much. take a breather, go outside, take a walk, get a coffee, buy a slice of cake, pet a dog, meet a friend, take a pottery class, go shopping, swim laps.
Thank you Scorpio! So you don't feel that the communication is alarming as it was super intense and so frequent in the beginning and now he sometimes will forget I texted him!
Posted by AbbyNormal
I hear you are excited about him and really like him haha. He's overwhelmed and still trying to give you what you want! What's the problem here?! You both said you are committed to each other and seem to walk the talk soooooo you have to ask yourself, "Am I acting irrationally? Am I going to let my insecurity ruin a good thing??" Relax and be grateful for what you have for a min and think about if there is really something to question. My thought is no.
Thank you so much AbbyNormal! I do like him ALOT, and from what we have said for the last couple of months it's mutual. The problem I am seeing is the communication has lessened and its not as frequent. To me, he's not excited to talk to me anymore, because of how minimal he does it these days. This is a change I was not expecting honestly so it is taking me for quite a loop.
Posted by scorpioconfusedbytaurusPosted by AbbyNormal
I hear you are excited about him and really like him haha. He's overwhelmed and still trying to give you what you want! What's the problem here?! You both said you are committed to each other and seem to walk the talk soooooo you have to ask yourself, "Am I acting irrationally? Am I going to let my insecurity ruin a good thing??" Relax and be grateful for what you have for a min and think about if there is really something to question. My thought is no.
Thank you so much AbbyNormal! I do like him ALOT, and from what we have said for the last couple of months it's mutual. The problem I am seeing is the communication has lessened and its not as frequent. To me, he's not excited to talk to me anymore, because of how minimal he does it these days. This is a change I was not expecting honestly so it is taking me for quite a loop.click to expand
I can only speak personally but yes the allure does wear off some with constant communication. I want to miss you!! That's makes me even more excited for the next time we get to talk, and I get to focus all of my attention to the matter at hand. Food for thought. I really don't think there is anything to worry about, and he may not be as communicative as you are but is trying really hard bc he knows you like it. Try pulling back some and see if he still reaches out to make regular contact. I bet he does.
Posted by AbbyNormalPosted by scorpioconfusedbytaurusPosted by AbbyNormal
I hear you are excited about him and really like him haha. He's overwhelmed and still trying to give you what you want! What's the problem here?! You both said you are committed to each other and seem to walk the talk soooooo you have to ask yourself, "Am I acting irrationally? Am I going to let my insecurity ruin a good thing??" Relax and be grateful for what you have for a min and think about if there is really something to question. My thought is no.
Thank you so much AbbyNormal! I do like him ALOT, and from what we have said for the last couple of months it's mutual. The problem I am seeing is the communication has lessened and its not as frequent. To me, he's not excited to talk to me anymore, because of how minimal he does it these days. This is a change I was not expecting honestly so it is taking me for quite a loop.
I can only speak personally but yes the allure does wear off some with constant communication. I want to miss you!! That's makes me even more excited for the next time we get to talk, and I get to focus all of my attention to the matter at hand. Food for thought. I really don't think there is anything to worry about, and he may not be as communicative as you are but is trying really hard bc he knows you like it. Try pulling back some and see if he still reaches out to make regular contact. I bet he does.click to expand
Thank you again and I truly do appreciate your responses! I see your points! What I don't get is if you aren't as communicative, don't start out as such! (I guess he had to get me somehow huh? lol)
Posted by jeane
i was going to respond to this and then i though "nah, fuck it. new year, new me".
Lol. I have seen some of your other responses! I would love your raw input but I understand new year, new me!! lol
Posted by scorpio_dragon
I’m a scorp lady myself and happily in love w my bull. I think you are just looking into things way too much! Over analysing everything rather than living in the moment and enjoying the time spent together! My bull makes me a priority and always incorporate me with his family time also. We always find time to make it work I think it all depends on how u guys value each other also— I’m madly in love with mine! Never a dull moment... so attracted like crazily attracted and deeply connected with my bull. Everything is so intense and passionate with us no such thing as half arsed connection 😘.
Hi Scorpio_dragon! Thank you so much for your response! I think if he incorporated me into family time, etc I would feel OK. But we are both busy and if the communication was as before, I would be OK. And plus I don't like the fact that he was super aggressive with communication in the beginning and now its lackluster.
Posted by dilettante
do not blame your insecurity on being a scorpio.
you are expecting too much. take a breather, go outside, take a walk, get a coffee, buy a slice of cake, pet a dog, meet a friend, take a pottery class, go shopping, swim laps.
Thank you dilettante for your response!
Not really much going on here. Just lots of writing but not much content.
Met in August, loads of kids between you, loads of text, Xmas, bit less text, sulking action ensues, declarations galore, the end.
Any other details or info?
Met in August, loads of kids between you, loads of text, Xmas, bit less text, sulking action ensues, declarations galore, the end.
Any other details or info?
Tone it down. He's been busy. Dont get too pushy.
My Taurus brother is married to a Scorpio and he worships the ground she walks on so everything he is telling you is true. They are good fathers and when his boys were minors he put them first. He will come around give him time.
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