If you had soulmate level compatibility with someone

I’m talking this synastry you have with someone ticks all the boxes. It’s soulful, passionate, sweet, sexually and emotionally fulfilling, life changing, romantic AND long term potential. A chart with multiple strong aspects to Pluto, the moon, Eros, mars, Venus Valentine, 8th house, 5th house, and 1st house overlays, mars-Venus conjunction, I mean undeniable chemistry.

And you both are single but long distance and different social circles , how far would you go to pursue it? Would you even want to pursue it?

astrology is an antique scam

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astrology is an antique scam

If you don’t believe in astrology what made you join this forum? Wasn’t this originally predominantly an astrology forum ?

historically this was a sassy relationships diss forum

I think once you're old enough you understand these things better (in most cases)

If you're young I'd say pursue. Cause it will be easier to do that now than later. You can learn and make mistakes now and know yourself better.

Generally apeaking of course, not everyone has the same opportunities at certain points in life.

But time and age are undeniable and that's always a factor.

Wait… why are ppl assuming this is about me ?😭😂 it’s a hypothetical question, I want to know what you guys would do, not me! ~

Posted by ThatWoman
Long distance can be an issue for me.


I never worked well with long distance relationships.


For you though,

If you are aiming far, you gotta close one of your eyes, if you catch my drift. It requires focus and good study of him.

On the flip side, how well your life is? Can you afford losing sight of your life?

So even if they were your soulmate you wouldn’t make that move to be closer to them?

Posted by Moon4
I wouldn't pursue it... Long distance works because it's a long distance relationship... Same energy as the guy riding his bicycle in the middle of a snow storm is going to get pussy... I don't have all the answers yet but I think we live in a matrix lol


Nobody else is going to tell you so I will: the reason your relationship is working so good it's because you guys are not in the same city... Once someone makes the first move to move cities everything will change , You probably don't even love him, it's just lust and wanting someone that you can't get... Too long didn't read: work on yourself, don't chase relationships

I’m guessing you dont believe much in real love? I’m not talking about just a long distance relationship I mean soulmate relationship, not based on just lust or being hard to get

I don't think I meet all those standards, but

Cancer-Pisces Moon

Sag-Aries Mercury

Scorpio-Pisces Mars

Venus is Cap, but she's a Taurus

Her Venus is Aries, but I'm a Sag.

It's long-distance at the moment, and I'm not even sure if she would tell people we're in any sort of relationship in the sense you're probably thinking of. But yeah I'm down.

I'd go to the ends of the Earth and hopefully don't have to prove it because some areas have dangerous people; frankly I don't want to deal with them, and I'm not sure what it would prove exactly.



Maybe visiting India together would be nice good though.

I don't pursue. I've only been with 14 women, and maybe some few interesting moments with a couple men. Mostly mmf stuff. I literally will never pursue a human, but if they want to pursue me that's a completely different story. I will 100% mess with people who make it clear they like/want me.

I have a girl friend who is 30 and is a lawyer. She met a guy on a dating app , who is also 30, who lives in the same city as her 2 years ago and they hit it off right away and dated for 4-5 months.

After that, well he is a chef and he found a job in london, which is in another country. At first he attempted to cool things off with her because he was to move away in a month. But he couldn't and so now she flies to london and spends 6 weeks with him, then returns home for like 6 weeks. He buys her plane tickets lol

He already proposed to her and she plans to move to london with him. But is it always going smooth? No. They have some fights too in between.

So I say why not 😀 though I'm skeptical about it, if it's going to be for less than a year then we will move in together maybe ?

Maybe if they lived somewhere that I could keep living the way I like living, or better.

Posted by HereforTaurusAgain
I don't think I meet all those standards, but


Cancer-Pisces Moon

Sag-Aries Mercury

Scorpio-Pisces Mars


Venus is Cap, but she's a Taurus

Her Venus is Aries, but I'm a Sag.


It's long-distance at the moment, and I'm not even sure if she would tell people we're in any sort of relationship in the sense you're probably thinking of. But yeah I'm down.


I'd go to the ends of the Earth and hopefully don't have to prove it because some areas have dangerous people; frankly I don't want to deal with them, and I'm not sure what it would prove exactly.



Maybe visiting India together would be nice good though.

Ooo Im intrigued. This seems like a sweet connection. What aspects do these placements make? I read up stuff about certain aspects in synastry all the time, but I want to know about them from ppl who have actually experienced them. Especially those “soulmate” indicators. Do you guys have a lot of conjunctions? Oppositions? Squares? Anything stand out the most that you feel in your connection?

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I don't pursue. I've only been with 14 women, and maybe some few interesting moments with a couple men. Mostly mmf stuff. I literally will never pursue a human, but if they want to pursue me that's a completely different story. I will 100% mess with people who make it clear they like/want me.

That’s interesting. You are a Scorpio moon right? Where is your Venus? I always imagined Scorpio energy to be big pursuers, especially in romance

i don't trust not meeting people in real life

sometimes the vibe online is different in the flesh

I'm pro long distance relationships. Even better because I love my freedom and autonomy, and seek the same in my partners. They must have their own life, otherwise I'll feel too suffocated.

I'm not interested in romantic online relationships, pen pals sure. We will be penpals until we meet and after that we see if we have a good connection or not. But most of my long distance relationships happened when I was travelling or they were travelling.

Long distance relationships DO work for the people that is right for them. It won't work for people who need and want a more enmeshed relationship.

I've done it, lived with her in Philadelphia for a few months, after a ldr of 9 months or so. It didn't work out tho

I would say you have to meet in the middle. Unless you just want to join their life. Also I was with a Bolivian girl in Spain but everything was her life, her culture, her language, her family. I started to feel too consumed like losing myself so I left, unfortunately

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Posted by HereforTaurusAgain
I don't think I meet all those standards, but

Cancer-Pisces Moon
Sag-Aries Mercury
Scorpio-Pisces Mars

Venus is Cap, but she's a Taurus
Her Venus is Aries, but I'm a Sag.

It's long-distance at the moment, and I'm not even sure if she would tell people we're in any sort of relationship in the sense you're probably thinking of. But yeah I'm down.

I'd go to the ends of the Earth and hopefully don't have to prove it because some areas have dangerous people; frankly I don't want to deal with them, and I'm not sure what it would prove exactly.

Maybe visiting India together would be nice good though.

Ooo Im intrigued. This seems like a sweet connection. What aspects do these placements make? I read up stuff about certain aspects in synastry all the time, but I want to know about them from ppl who have actually experienced them. Especially those “soulmate” indicators. Do you guys have a lot of conjunctions? Oppositions? Squares? Anything stand out the most that you feel in your connection?

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I'm not sure how to do all that. I could stand to read up more myself.

I guess the Sag-Taurus dynamic stands out the most, especially since I have Sag Sun, Rising, and Mercury. And I can't tell how much of her Pisces placements actually shine through differently from Taurus. Yeah there's a dreamy, gentler essence to it all, but a lot of gentleness is attributed to Taurus women as well or even all Taurus as default.

I moved to another city for love. After a few months of long distance dating, we agreed that it wouldn't work unless someone moved. His job was one that he could only do where he was situated, so as soon as I found a job in the city where he lived, I moved. So, I guess, my answer would be yes.

how come i'm finally with my soulmate but my favorite tea flavor is never in stock at a nearby store?

i wonder about this all the time now 🤔🤔

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Posted by virgoOPPP
how come i'm finally with my soulmate but my favorite tea flavor is never in stock at a nearby store?

i wonder about this all the time now 🤔🤔

The matrix situation 😂😜

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the universe is generous with love but stingy in the smallest things

If I had the means to, then I'd definitely pursue. A love and connection at this level would be completely worth it.

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Posted by HereforTaurusAgain
I don't think I meet all those standards, but

Cancer-Pisces Moon
Sag-Aries Mercury
Scorpio-Pisces Mars

Venus is Cap, but she's a Taurus
Her Venus is Aries, but I'm a Sag.

It's long-distance at the moment, and I'm not even sure if she would tell people we're in any sort of relationship in the sense you're probably thinking of. But yeah I'm down.

I'd go to the ends of the Earth and hopefully don't have to prove it because some areas have dangerous people; frankly I don't want to deal with them, and I'm not sure what it would prove exactly.

Maybe visiting India together would be nice good though.

Ooo Im intrigued. This seems like a sweet connection. What aspects do these placements make? I read up stuff about certain aspects in synastry all the time, but I want to know about them from ppl who have actually experienced them. Especially those “soulmate” indicators. Do you guys have a lot of conjunctions? Oppositions? Squares? Anything stand out the most that you feel in your connection?
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I'm not sure how to do all that. I could stand to read up more myself.


I guess the Sag-Taurus dynamic stands out the most, especially since I have Sag Sun, Rising, and Mercury. And I can't tell how much of her Pisces placements actually shine through differently from Taurus. Yeah there's a dreamy, gentler essence to it all, but a lot of gentleness is attributed to Taurus women as well or even all Taurus as default.

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Are you the one with Cancer moon?

I get what you mean because I’m a Pisces and I think I have some trait overlap with Taurus, despite having no Taurus in my chart. I think the main difference is Taurus are way more grounded and present than Pisceans.

How would you define dreamy ? I think dreamy is more of a Pisces trait, because I see dreamy as living another realms, opposite of reality, and not so present in day to day things. I think both Pisces and Taurus are creative and romantic, but Taurus is in a more grounded way. They show up in day to day life and are reliable. But pisces is romantic and creative more in an intangible ethereal way maybe?

Regardless, I think because youre a Sag it will go well with her Pisces placements because they are both ruled by Jupiter(traditional ruler for Pisces), and if you are a Cancer moon even better. I don’t tend to get along well with Sag placements UNLESS they have water moon or stronger water placements, then it’s an amazing connection. I love the Sag Sun Cancer moon combo.

Her Taurus sun probably appeals to your cancer moon. Taurus-Cancer is such a great connection because they are quite similar to eachother. Then add the mutable sag energy goes well with the mutable Pisces. It’s hard to see if this is “soulmate” potential without the degrees and aspects/rising sign, but so far the compatibility seems good

Posted by virgoOPPP
how come i'm finally with my soulmate but my favorite tea flavor is never in stock at a nearby store?


i wonder about this all the time now 🤔🤔

How did you meet your husband?

Posted by Beast_Of_Longsuffering
If I had the means to, then I'd definitely pursue. A love and connection at this level would be completely worth it.

What are your moon, venus, and mars placements ?

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Posted by HereforTaurusAgain
I don't think I meet all those standards, but

Cancer-Pisces Moon
Sag-Aries Mercury
Scorpio-Pisces Mars

Venus is Cap, but she's a Taurus
Her Venus is Aries, but I'm a Sag.

It's long-distance at the moment, and I'm not even sure if she would tell people we're in any sort of relationship in the sense you're probably thinking of. But yeah I'm down.

I'd go to the ends of the Earth and hopefully don't have to prove it because some areas have dangerous people; frankly I don't want to deal with them, and I'm not sure what it would prove exactly.

Maybe visiting India together would be nice good though.

Ooo Im intrigued. This seems like a sweet connection. What aspects do these placements make? I read up stuff about certain aspects in synastry all the time, but I want to know about them from ppl who have actually experienced them. Especially those “soulmate” indicators. Do you guys have a lot of conjunctions? Oppositions? Squares? Anything stand out the most that you feel in your connection?
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I'm not sure how to do all that. I could stand to read up more myself.

I guess the Sag-Taurus dynamic stands out the most, especially since I have Sag Sun, Rising, and Mercury. And I can't tell how much of her Pisces placements actually shine through differently from Taurus. Yeah there's a dreamy, gentler essence to it all, but a lot of gentleness is attributed to Taurus women as well or even all Taurus as default.


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Are you the one with Cancer moon?


I get what you mean because I’m a Pisces and I think I have some trait overlap with Taurus, despite having no Taurus in my chart. I think the main difference is Taurus are way more grounded and present than Pisceans.

How would you define dreamy ? I think dreamy is more of a Pisces trait, because I see dreamy as living another realms, opposite of reality, and not so present in day to day things. I think both Pisces and Taurus are creative and romantic, but Taurus is in a more grounded way. They show up in day to day life and are reliable. But pisces is romantic and creative more in an intangible ethereal way maybe?


Regardless, I think because youre a Sag it will go well with her Pisces placements because they are both ruled by Jupiter(traditional ruler for Pisces), and if you are a Cancer moon even better. I don’t tend to get along well with Sag placements UNLESS they have water moon or stronger water placements, then it’s an amazing connection. I love the Sag Sun Cancer moon combo.

Her Taurus sun probably appeals to your cancer moon. Taurus-Cancer is such a great connection because they are quite similar to eachother. Then add the mutable sag energy goes well with the mutable Pisces. It’s hard to see if this is “soulmate” potential without the degrees and aspects/rising sign, but so far the compatibility seems good

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Can I get her Houses without a birth time? I use café astrology with just the day and it doesn't give houses 🤷‍♀️

By Dreamy I mean my dreams have become a major focus of my life since I really committed to her on a whole new level...and I definitely feel like I have to "check in" to reality a lot of the time.

Yes I have the Cancer moon. Ny placements are on the left, hers on the right.

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Posted by Soul
I don't pursue. I've only been with 14 women, and maybe some few interesting moments with a couple men. Mostly mmf stuff. I literally will never pursue a human, but if they want to pursue me that's a completely different story. I will 100% mess with people who make it clear they like/want me.

That’s interesting. You are a Scorpio moon right? Where is your Venus? I always imagined Scorpio energy to be big pursuers, especially in romance

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Cancer venus. Honestly I don't feel its a good trait whatsoever. Not specifically Cancer venus, but what I described. I was actually neglected majorly as a child, but don't want to act like its the worst thing. Many people experienced much worse, but I feel it left with rejection issues. That gets even more amplified with a Leo sun which adds ego to the mix, and Scorpio moon adds it type of ego in its own way. I can be 100% reclusive, but the second people make it clear they want me i suddenly turn into the most extroverted person ever. Which i actually consider a real weakness. It actually makes me easy to manipulate, but I absolutely love the feeling of my ego being stroked. The mixture of fire and water energy mixed is never good, but im truly pleaser when it comes to things like sex. I know this topic was more about soul mates, but I just love connecting with people sexually. Even if it becomes a major problem for me because women I've slept tend to think I'm a servant, which I kind of am in many ways, but I want the exact same respect in return. If I don't get that I ghosts or turn cold over time. Because of that I never chase. If they chase me and I reject them that's completely fine. Other way around will never happen with me. There was a moment when I was a child and truly needed others, yet no one was around. Because of that I realized the only one who would ever truly have my back was me, and then I simply stopped needed people.

My venus has dealt with this a few times

Twice I ended the connection and twice I moved

It depends where you are in life and what you want

The older you get yhe harder it is, but in the past I had no issues uprooting my life and seeing where it led

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Posted by HereforTaurusAgain
I don't think I meet all those standards, but

Cancer-Pisces Moon
Sag-Aries Mercury
Scorpio-Pisces Mars

Venus is Cap, but she's a Taurus
Her Venus is Aries, but I'm a Sag.

It's long-distance at the moment, and I'm not even sure if she would tell people we're in any sort of relationship in the sense you're probably thinking of. But yeah I'm down.

I'd go to the ends of the Earth and hopefully don't have to prove it because some areas have dangerous people; frankly I don't want to deal with them, and I'm not sure what it would prove exactly.

Maybe visiting India together would be nice good though.

Ooo Im intrigued. This seems like a sweet connection. What aspects do these placements make? I read up stuff about certain aspects in synastry all the time, but I want to know about them from ppl who have actually experienced them. Especially those “soulmate” indicators. Do you guys have a lot of conjunctions? Oppositions? Squares? Anything stand out the most that you feel in your connection?
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I'm not sure how to do all that. I could stand to read up more myself.

I guess the Sag-Taurus dynamic stands out the most, especially since I have Sag Sun, Rising, and Mercury. And I can't tell how much of her Pisces placements actually shine through differently from Taurus. Yeah there's a dreamy, gentler essence to it all, but a lot of gentleness is attributed to Taurus women as well or even all Taurus as default.

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Are you the one with Cancer moon?

I get what you mean because I’m a Pisces and I think I have some trait overlap with Taurus, despite having no Taurus in my chart. I think the main difference is Taurus are way more grounded and present than Pisceans.
How would you define dreamy ? I think dreamy is more of a Pisces trait, because I see dreamy as living another realms, opposite of reality, and not so present in day to day things. I think both Pisces and Taurus are creative and romantic, but Taurus is in a more grounded way. They show up in day to day life and are reliable. But pisces is romantic and creative more in an intangible ethereal way maybe?

Regardless, I think because youre a Sag it will go well with her Pisces placements because they are both ruled by Jupiter(traditional ruler for Pisces), and if you are a Cancer moon even better. I don’t tend to get along well with Sag placements UNLESS they have water moon or stronger water placements, then it’s an amazing connection. I love the Sag Sun Cancer moon combo.
Her Taurus sun probably appeals to your cancer moon. Taurus-Cancer is such a great connection because they are quite similar to eachother. Then add the mutable sag energy goes well with the mutable Pisces. It’s hard to see if this is “soulmate” potential without the degrees and aspects/rising sign, but so far the compatibility seems good
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Can I get her Houses without a birth time? I use café astrology with just the day and it doesn't give houses 🤷‍♀️


By Dreamy I mean my dreams have become a major focus of my life since I really committed to her on a whole new level...and I definitely feel like I have to "check in" to reality a lot of the time.


Yes I have the Cancer moon. Ny placements are on the left, hers on the right.

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Unfortunately you have to know someone’s birth time to get house placements 😢

Ohh I see, I misunderstood lol I thought you were saying you can’t tell the difference between her Taurus sun and Pisces moon, and that she was dreamy. But now I see you were talking about the relationship feeling dreamy.

I feel like that can either mean you guys have Neptune aspects, or there are several sweet aspects that give it that dreamy vibe. Maybe venus-moon aspects in there. Do you know how they feel about you?

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Posted by virgoOPPP
how come i'm finally with my soulmate but my favorite tea flavor is never in stock at a nearby store?

i wonder about this all the time now 🤔🤔

How did you meet your husband?

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Posted by HereforTaurusAgain
I don't think I meet all those standards, but

Cancer-Pisces Moon
Sag-Aries Mercury
Scorpio-Pisces Mars

Venus is Cap, but she's a Taurus
Her Venus is Aries, but I'm a Sag.

It's long-distance at the moment, and I'm not even sure if she would tell people we're in any sort of relationship in the sense you're probably thinking of. But yeah I'm down.

I'd go to the ends of the Earth and hopefully don't have to prove it because some areas have dangerous people; frankly I don't want to deal with them, and I'm not sure what it would prove exactly.

Maybe visiting India together would be nice good though.

Ooo Im intrigued. This seems like a sweet connection. What aspects do these placements make? I read up stuff about certain aspects in synastry all the time, but I want to know about them from ppl who have actually experienced them. Especially those “soulmate” indicators. Do you guys have a lot of conjunctions? Oppositions? Squares? Anything stand out the most that you feel in your connection?
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I'm not sure how to do all that. I could stand to read up more myself.

I guess the Sag-Taurus dynamic stands out the most, especially since I have Sag Sun, Rising, and Mercury. And I can't tell how much of her Pisces placements actually shine through differently from Taurus. Yeah there's a dreamy, gentler essence to it all, but a lot of gentleness is attributed to Taurus women as well or even all Taurus as default.

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Are you the one with Cancer moon?

I get what you mean because I’m a Pisces and I think I have some trait overlap with Taurus, despite having no Taurus in my chart. I think the main difference is Taurus are way more grounded and present than Pisceans.
How would you define dreamy ? I think dreamy is more of a Pisces trait, because I see dreamy as living another realms, opposite of reality, and not so present in day to day things. I think both Pisces and Taurus are creative and romantic, but Taurus is in a more grounded way. They show up in day to day life and are reliable. But pisces is romantic and creative more in an intangible ethereal way maybe?

Regardless, I think because youre a Sag it will go well with her Pisces placements because they are both ruled by Jupiter(traditional ruler for Pisces), and if you are a Cancer moon even better. I don’t tend to get along well with Sag placements UNLESS they have water moon or stronger water placements, then it’s an amazing connection. I love the Sag Sun Cancer moon combo.
Her Taurus sun probably appeals to your cancer moon. Taurus-Cancer is such a great connection because they are quite similar to eachother. Then add the mutable sag energy goes well with the mutable Pisces. It’s hard to see if this is “soulmate” potential without the degrees and aspects/rising sign, but so far the compatibility seems good
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Can I get her Houses without a birth time? I use café astrology with just the day and it doesn't give houses 🤷‍♀️

By Dreamy I mean my dreams have become a major focus of my life since I really committed to her on a whole new level...and I definitely feel like I have to "check in" to reality a lot of the time.

Yes I have the Cancer moon. Ny placements are on the left, hers on the right.


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Unfortunately you have to know someone’s birth time to get house placements


Ohh I see, I misunderstood lol I thought you were saying you can’t tell the difference between her Taurus sun and Pisces moon, and that she was dreamy. But now I see you were talking about the relationship feeling dreamy.

I feel like that can either mean you guys have Neptune aspects, or there are several sweet aspects that give it that dreamy vibe. Maybe venus-moon aspects in there. Do you know how they feel about you?

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My Mars, Scorpio, is also in my XII House. So maybe there's an attachment there, with my Mars activating XII House stuff whenever I'm being Marsy, which as I understand it applies to love.

I'm not sure if that's a thing or if there's a name for it, or if it applies to one of your original standards.

But her strong Pisces placements (Moon and Mars) might be receptive. 🤷‍♀️

She loves me, but I'm in a painful situation where she lives abroad and probably with another guy she's dating, but I'm not sure. I'm keeping everyone updated in the A6 column in the Taurus forum. But I'm showing her that I'm consistently All-In, as much as I can.

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Posted by Beast_Of_Longsuffering
If I had the means to, then I'd definitely pursue. A love and connection at this level would be completely worth it.

What are your moon, venus, and mars placements ?

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Moon in Taurus, Mars and Venus in Aries.

20’s = go for it

30’s = maybe one last affair

40’s = I’m too old for this shit time to be a good citizen

Posted by Moon4
I wouldn't pursue it... Long distance works because it's a long distance relationship... Same energy as the guy riding his bicycle in the middle of a snow storm is going to get pussy... I don't have all the answers yet but I think we live in a matrix lol


Nobody else is going to tell you so I will: the reason your relationship is working so good it's because you guys are not in the same city... Once someone makes the first move to move cities everything will change , You probably don't even love him, it's just lust and wanting someone that you can't get... Too long didn't read: work on yourself, don't chase relationships

This is just not true for everyone. We're watching you fall down the incel hole, crazy.